The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm

Confusion. Numbness. Distraction. These are the three ways the civilized world brings men down, weakens us, and makes us docile. Avoid them at all costs. In this solo episode I break these down and how you can avoid them. Enjoy, Traver If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website Man UNcivilized.com or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm     Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized   Join us on the New Year's Costa Rica Unfolding Retreat Dec. 27th 2021- Jan 3, 2022.

Being a mother is a different experience from the father one. Women have a laborious job of creating life within themselves, and this can be a traumatic experience from pregnancy to giving birth. So the father, partner, or husband has to play the supporting role. In this episode, our guest Kimberly Ann Johnson explains how these traumas can affect life as a couple, from sexuality to intimacy. In addition, she will talk to us about how we can heal the trauma related to our genitals and the lack of empathy regarding rest or recovery from birth for the sake of progress. Did you know the benefits of witnessing touch? Press play and find out. ABOUT KIMBERLY ANN JOHNSON. Kimberly Ann Johnson is a Sexological Bodyworker, Somatic Experiencing practitioner, birth doula, postpartum care advocate and single mom. Kimberly graduated Valedictorian in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University. She is the host of the Sex Birth Trauma podcast and creator of Activate Your Inner Jaguar: A Real World Understanding of Your Nervous System and Embodied Consent. In private practice in Encinitas, CA, she helps women prepare for birth, heal from birth injuries, gynecological surgeries and sexual boundary ruptures. She also trains birth professionals, bodyworkers, and somatic therapists to help women with prolapse, incontinence, painful sex and other pelvic floor and gynecological issues. CONNECT WITH KIMBERLY Instagram: @kimberly.ann.johnson Website: https://kimberlyannjohnson.com/ Facebook WHAT YOU WILL HEAR: [4:12] Meeting today's guest: Kimberly Johnson. [6:47] Postpartum recovery. [15:43] The importance of postpartum rest. [24:18] Witnessing touch. [33:32] Healing through trauma. [48:05] Learn to communicate your wishes. [53:06] Feeling comfortable in your skin. [58:57] Patriarchy in relationships. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website Man UNcivilized.com or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm     Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized   Join us on the New Year's Costa Rica Unfolding Retreat Dec. 27th 2021- Jan 3, 2022.

How can some people be so blinded by a cult? This episode is full of controversy and mystery. Due to all the death threats this man has received, we had to leave his name anonymous. So, we will utterly name this as the "McDojo" episode. A man passionate about martial arts and helping others did the heroic action of showing the darkest events lived in the martial arts schools, earning the hatred of people who see the world of martial arts as everything right and good in this life. An organization that, according to our guest, does not have a government body. That's why sexual violence, and pedophilia are some of the perversions frequently performed. ABOUT MCDOJO Rob has been training in martial arts for over 24 years and has dedicated the last 9 years of exposing Mcdojos. He Jason the international martial arts team Full Circle for years and ran his own martial arts school for 4 years. He has b been consulting for martial arts businesses for 10 years and he founded McDojoLife 9 years ago.  He has earned  - 3rd degree Black Belt in Karate - 3rd degree Black Belt in Lissajous-Do - Purple Belt in Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu CONNECT WITH MCDOJO Instagram: @mcdojolife YouTube: McDojoLife WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [5:07] What's a McDojo [7:14] How one organization can ruin the lives of hundreds of people. [11:39] Who are the people most likely to fall into a cult? [13:14] Today's guest background. [17:36] 9 years showing a harsh reality. [21:26] As you navigate hatred, criticism, and threats. [35:23] Turning the public speaking fear into positivism. [39:36 Setting real goals. [42:27] Unintended and unexpected consequences. [46:00] Manipulation and impact [54:31] The process of finding the website content. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website Man UNcivilized.com or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm     Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized   Join us on the New Year's Costa Rica Unfolding Retreat Dec. 27th 2021- Jan 3, 2022.

One of the common problems I see as a coach is that hundreds of people struggle to find their purpose. Finding your purpose is about finding what makes you happy and still do it for the rest of your life. Jeremy Goldberg will join us one more time on our podcast in this incredible episode. What I love the most about having him as our guest is that he has the power to inspire people to live wondrous lives, so he is the perfect man to help us with our search for purpose. It is astonishing how a man of science leaves behind his career to start walking on a new path. After listening to his heart, he now does what he loves the most; helping others. Is it possible to find our passion through pain? Jeremy has the answer for us. ABOUT JEREMY GOLDBERG He is a mentor, writer, speaker, spoken word poet, and behavioral scientist. His mission is to make kindness cool, empathy popular, and compassion commonplace. As part of that purpose, he writes articles, sends emails, hosts retreats and workshops, gives TEDx talks, coach clients, hosts a podcast, writes books, and makes spoken word poetry videos. He is also active on Facebook and Instagram, leading an online tribe of more than 35,000 badass humans. CONNECT WITH JEREMY New Year's Costa Rica Unfolding Retreat Dec. 27th 2021- Jan 3, 2022. Website: Dr. Jeremy Goldberg Instagram: @Longdistancelovebombs Facebook: https://m.facebook.com/LongDistanceLoveBombs/ WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [8:40] Meeting Jeremy. [17:32] How do I know I'm burnout? [24:37] The heart whispers. [30:19] The "What if?" thought. [43:00] Learn how to listen to your heart whisper. [51:40] From your head to your wallet. [1:01:58] The importance of understanding marketing and businesses. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website Man UNcivilized.com or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm     Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized   Join us on the New Year's Costa Rica Unfolding Retreat Dec. 27th 2021- Jan 3, 2022.

In this solo episode I break down the outcome of a social media challenge we did in the UNcivilized Nation. I share some of my own journey and some great ways for you to reestablish a healthy relationship with your own social platforms. Enjoy, Traver

Duey Freeman and Michael Gay, therapists, discuss how to manage overwhelm in this episode. They explore the causes of overwhelm and provide tips on navigating it healthily. They emphasize the importance of reconnecting with our bodies, prioritizing relationships, managing information intake, and defining personal values. They also discuss techniques like breath work, group dynamics, and nature connection to find clarity amid overwhelm.

Entering the world of pornography as an actor can sometimes be out of necessity or fun, but getting out of the stigmas and labels people create about you is not easy. Today's guest is a former porn actor that after more than 20 years in the industry, he decided to abandon it and teach men how to have a better sex life. You know what they say, "Practice makes the master."Discover in this episode the myths and truths about the porn industry.⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠.ABOUT ERIK EVERHARDMy name is Erik Everhard, I’m an Author and Men’s coach. My specialty is helping men by teaching them elite level sexual skills so they can have confidence with women. My journey to sexual mastery has been a unique one, you see for the last 22 years I’ve been one of the top Adult film stars in the world, and that’s been no accident. No, there were no crazy parties, there was no hedonism, from my very first scene I treated my career exactly like a professional athlete.I spent my time learning and studying women in REAL LIFE and throughout every sexual encounter I had. I figured out the bio-hacks to my own body, out of necessity, as my job and livelihood depended on it. I discovered mental hacks to quell performance anxiety, last longer in the bedroom, secret techniques that could get women off time after time, special diet and supplementation, and more. After over 5000 women….i felt I had cracked the code.The process of peeling back the layers of my identity, my fears, my hopes, and my dreams was a painful but necessary one. Then, wanting to go deeper into what my ultimate purpose was, I started working with the shamanic plant medicine Ayahuasca. And this has led me down the path where you are meeting me now, a path of service where I can help you to overcome your shortcomings in the bedroom.CONNECT WITH ERIK@erikeverhardphotowww.erikeverhard.comWHAT YOU WILL HEAR[3:18] Meeting Erik.[10:31] A decade adrift.[17:37] What men do not know about porn.[21:01] The moment of transition.[29:35] The most common sex struggles for men.[34:30] The performance with a penis and without.[36:32] The biggest fear of man in the bedroom.[45:47] Sex education[50:32] The erection of the mind.[57:06] Does porn have a negative consequence for men?If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website Man UNcivilized.com or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more.This episode is sponsored by Zensquatch Apparel. Checkout www.Zensquatch.com and use promo code " UNcivilized " for 20% off your purchases AND FREE SHIPPING for the month of September 2021.Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm    Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized  

Today you will hear an unplugged episode where we will once again have the unique Perri Chase as a guest. We could describe this woman as a force in the world since her sincerity, knowledge, personality, and wisdom leaves more than one with their mouths open after hearing what she has to say. Prepared for round two of truths, today Perri will be talking to us about racial equity, religion, dynamics of men and women, and very, very important, the problems we currently experience as a community and how the collectives have affected it. Do women harm other women? Press play and find out. ABOUT PERRI CHASE Perri is a Mama, Wife, Woman, Channel, Teacher, and Practitioner of deep devotion to the Feminine. She lives a life in service to the deepest truth, as an energy, in all things and beings. She believes that our total and truest full expression is our soul’s purpose. She teaches pathways in life, relationships, expression, sacred medicine and business that all center the frequency of Feminine Truth, including her Foundations in Energetic Mastery path, DEVOTION. She created the embodiment modality SXBMB and the unique business pathway Magic Led Business. She lives in Arizona with the love of her life, Kellen and their daughter. CONNECT WITH PERRI Website: perrichase.com Instagram: @Perri.Chase WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [6:46] Meeting today's guest: Perri Chase. [10:52] The truth about people and why it is related to their ego. [22:38] Why is the cancel culture so popular? [27.01] The female collective in the patriarchy. [31:11] Sickness in the collective consciousness. [38:09] What is the masculine truth? [40:09] The chaotic female energy. [41:55] "Antiracist education doesn't work." [50:11] What generates union or division in the community? [51:23] Your sexuality does not victimize you. [54:24] "Most predators are men." [58:31] Nervous system expansion. [1:06:24] Disempowering patterns. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website Man UNcivilized.com or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. This episode is sponsored by Zensquatch Apparel. Checkout www.Zensquatch.com and use promo code " UNcivilized " for 20% off your purchases AND FREE SHIPPING for the month of September 2021. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm     Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized   Start your journey to become the man the that the world failed to teach you how to be.

Relationships are not like in movies, where everything is rosy; every single one has its ups and downs. Imagine spending years of your life being a lone wolf and suddenly meeting someone so special that lights a spark in you by changing your life, awakening the desire to become a father and husband; this beautiful story happened to our guest, Jordan Gray. During his coaching years, Jordan has helped hundreds of relationships. Meaning his singleness a worrying issue for many because, how is this single man advising a couple? Today, Jordan explains his trajectory and how this was not an impediment. ⁠Take our free 60-second quiz to find out if your Nice Guy tendencies are sabotaging your relationships⁠. ABOUT JORDAN GRAY Jordan Gray is a sex and relationship coach with over a decade of practice behind him. His writing, to date, has been read by over 80 million people, and his books and online programs have transformed the love lives of tens of thousands of people worldwide. CONNECT WITH JORDAN Website: www.jordangrayconsulting.com Instagram: @jordan_gray_consulting WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [3:30] Meeting Jordan Gray. [8:42]Applying logic to an emotional situation. [12:32] A single man advising couples. [14:34] How to get back to the idea of ​​a relationship. [18:19] The cultural shift around relationships. [32:38] Codependency in relationships. [42:47] Navigating our inner child in adult life. [53:24] Self-amusement. If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website Man UNcivilized.com or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. This episode is sponsored by Zensquatch Apparel. Checkout www.Zensquatch.com and use promo code " UNcivilized " for 20% off your purchases AND FREE SHIPPING for the month of September 2021. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm     Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized   Start your journey to become the man the that the world failed to teach you how to be.

It takes balls to say, "Yes, I am a porn addict." Like many addictions, pornography addiction has an origin. Wounds, pain, trauma are the foremost causes that millions of people look for unhealthy and often self-destructive ways to cope, finding a kind of "refuge" or "relief" in addictions. Today's guest is Troy Love, a man who sought to heal his pain and took refuge in pornography for many years, now dedicates himself to helping people achieve their addiction recovery. Are you addicted to porn? Find out in today's episode. ABOUT TROY LOVE A two-time Amazon Best-Selling Author, with his third book, A Year of Self-Love published in 2019, Troy L. Love is on a quest to help individuals, couples, and organizations find greater peace, joy, happiness, and success.​ Troy serves as the President and Clinical Director of Yuma Counseling Services and the founder of Finding Peace Consulting.  He has over 20 years of experience in the mental health field. ​ Troy is an Adjunct Professor at Arizona State University. He facilitates several webinars and drop-in groups at sexandrelationshiphealing.com. He is also the host of the Finding Peace Podcast. CONNECT WITH TROY Website: https://www.troyllove.com/ Instagram: @troyllove WHAT YOU WILL HEAR [4:06] Meeting Troy. [10:20] A struggling population. [16:27] Are porn addiction and sex addiction the same? [18:13] Troy's journey. [25:45] Masturbation shame cycle. [27:44] What's an addiction? [30:20] Don't deny your pain. [36:05] The normalization of addictions as a coupling mechanism. [39:39] What role does peace play in the recovery process? [44:32] "Shame hijacks peace." If you look at the civilized world and think, "no thank you," then you should subscribe to our podcast, so you don't miss a single episode! Also, join the UNcivilized community, and connect with me on my website, Facebook, or Instagram so you can join in on our live recordings, ask questions to guests, and more. This episode is sponsored by Zensquatch Apparel. Checkout www.Zensquatch.com and use promo code " UNcivilized " for 20% off your purchases AND FREE SHIPPING for the month of September 2021. Find Traver on Instagram @traverBoehm     Get a copy my book, Man UNcivilized      Start your journey to become the man the that the world failed to teach you how to be.