Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson
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Feb 14, 2024 • 32min

EP 413: Intentional Dating in 2024: What You Need to Know

Have you heard the news?! I’m going LIVE February 14, 15, and 16th to help you heal and become securely attached. Don’t miss this opportunity for healing, spots are first come, first serve. Today is the LAST day to register: *CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR THE FREE CHALLENGE*Let’s Talk about HEALTHY DATING in 2024! I’m loving these trends in a recent survey conducted by Bumble. Inside this episode: I unpack the top dating trends from 2024 (some of these will truly surprise you) Why building emotional safety before intimacy is NECESSARY for healthy long-term relationships How to identity your “North Star” when dating (so you can easily know who to say yes to, and who is not in alignment with what you want This episode is PACKED with dating wisdom I wish someone had told me years ago. Grab my best offer of the year when you apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program by February 26th.It’s time to become the version of you who attracts her emotionally available dream partner without wasting time on the wrong guys. Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Overview02:22 Dating Trends in 202404:14 The Importance of Emotional Connection06:09 Considerations for Compatibility07:37 Partner's Engagement in Social Causes08:58 Open-Hearted Masculinity10:53 Mental Health Awareness14:11 Emotional Intimacy vs Physical Attraction18:00 Building a Relationship Slowly21:24 Conscious Dating and Inner Work23:17 Empowered Secure Love Program24:38 Releasing Control and Connecting to the Outcome26:33 Closing and Encouragement
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Feb 12, 2024 • 31min

EP 412: The Anxious-Avoidant Dating Trap (And What to Do to Stop It)

DON’T MISS THIS! Grab your seat at for the Move to Secure Attachment 3-Day Challenge: *CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR THE FREE CHALLENGE*Today’s topic is utterly fascinating, and if it’s ever happened to you, you know just how painful it can be. I am talking about the anxious/avoidant dating trap, where these opposing attachment styles are drawn to one another like a moth to a flame. Inside this episode: -I review both anxious and avoidant attachment styles and the beliefs they have about relationships -I share how you can break the cycle of the anxious/avoidant dating rollercoaster -Important parts when to consider when healing the anxious/avoidant dynamic in a couple Aaaaaand so much more! It’s time to become the version of you who attracts her emotionally available dream partner without wasting time on the wrong guys. Stop the dating games and become the securely attached version of you: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Overview03:22 Anxious Attachment04:20 Avoidant Attachment07:41 Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic12:26 Physical Intimacy in Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic14:20 Moving Towards Secure Attachment15:43 Working on Anxious-Avoidant Dynamic18:28 Asking for Reassurance and Giving Reassurance21:20 Disorganized Attachment23:14 Taking Action to Changed26:02 Conclusion
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Feb 7, 2024 • 1h 1min

EP 411: Raising Relationship Standards, Healing Trauma Wounds and Becoming Secure with Special Guest, Kelly Chase

Did Kelly’s story resonate with you? Make the decision to heal and change your life by applying to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program today: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramInside of this episode we discuss: Setting energetic boundaries is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships and avoiding codependency.Exploring childhood wounds and understanding their impact on adult relationships can lead to healing and transformation.Practicing self-care, self-compassion, and coming home to oneself are essential for building a strong foundation for healthy relationships.Aaaaaand so much more! REMEMBER:  You are worthy and capable of finding clarity, peace, and happiness by investing in your healing. Join the hundreds of women who have changed their lives inside of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program:: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramConnect with Kelly Chase here: IG: @chaselifewithkellyPodcast: Chase Life with KellyEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Background01:28 Desire for Change and Healing03:02 Falling in Love with Potential04:00 The Fixer and the Cool Girl08:37 Setting Energetic Boundaries09:24 Exploring Father and Mother Wounds12:19 Morning Alignment and Self-Care14:19 Creating a Securely Attached Self17:07 Embracing Vulnerability and Self-Compassion18:46 Coming Home to Yourself22:19 Prioritizing Exercise and Self-Care25:21 Releasing Toxic Relationship Patterns28:23 Honoring Emotions and Inner Child31:47 Approaching Dating with Intention38:08 Navigating Dating Apps and Compatibility39:53 The Importance of Self-Awareness and Openness40:16 Fear vs Compatibility in Judging Relationships41:15 The Power of Surrender and Trust41:57 The Value of Investing in Yourself43:09 The Depth of the Program and the Importance of One-on-One Coaching44:52 The Relationship Inventory Exercise46:13 The Connection Between Self-Healing and External Results47:08 The Importance of Emotional Investment in Personal Growth48:09 The Relationship Between Self-Worth and Attracting Healthy Relationships49:51 The Transformational Power of Investing in Yourself50:12 Encouragement for Those Feeling Stuck
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Feb 5, 2024 • 22min

EP 410: Date Intentionally: How to Stop Going Too Fast in the Early Stages of Dating Pt. 2

Have you heard the news?! I’m going LIVE February 14, 15, and 16th to help you heal and become securely attached. Don’t miss this opportunity for healing, spots are first come, first serve.*CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR THE FREE CHALLENGE*We’re back for part two, baby! If you loved Part One, then you will love this episode as well! Inside of this episode we unpack: The Emotional Investment Pool How to Use Reality Testing Effectively The Difference Secure Attachment vs. Compatibility If you’re ready to become the securely attached version of you, this is your sign to take the next step on your healing journey. Join the hundreds of women who have changed their lives inside of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program:: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Jan 31, 2024 • 30min

EP 409: Date Intentionally: How to Stop Going Too Fast in the Early Stages of Dating Pt. 1

Have you heard the news?! I’m going LIVE February 14, 15, and 16th to help you heal and become securely attached. Don’t miss this opportunity for healing, spots are first come, first serve.*CLICK HERE TO REGISTER FOR THE FREE CHALLENGE*Today’s episode is one of my  most requested topics of all time.We are diving into how to appropriately PACE a relationship in the early stages.  Relationship Pacing is not taught, but it SHOULD BE.Every one of us needs to know how to intentionally date and invest slowly into a relationship. Inside of today’s episode we dive into: Understanding Capacity (aka no more plastic plant relationships!) Open Palm (you need this for a healthy dating life) Hard Truth: Vulnerability Must be Earned Aaaaaand so much more! If you’re ready to become the securely attached version of you, this is your sign to take the next step on your healing journey. Join the hundreds of women who have changed their lives inside of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program:: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Jan 29, 2024 • 52min

EP 408: Healing Disorganized Attachment and Creating a New Life with special guest, Jenn Flood

**The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program is Open for Application** Decide that this is the year you become securely attached, and attract the love you deserve: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramIn this episode, I interview Jenn Flood, a recent graduate of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program. Jenn shares her powerful journey of healing her disorganized attachment style and the struggles she faced in her relationships. Inside of this episode: Jenn and I discuss how understanding disorganized attachment can provide language and support for individuals struggling in their relationshipsThe importance of self-compassion and self-forgiveness when healingHow to continue to work on becoming securely attached while in a relationship If you related to Jenn’s story, and know you are ready to do the healing work, take the next step today: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Background01:00 Life Before the Program03:10 Understanding Disorganized Attachment07:05 Unhealthy Beliefs About Self and Relationships09:41 Roots of Unhealthy Beliefs in Childhood12:31 Showing Up for Your Inner Child13:07 Practicing Self-Compassion14:09 Tools for Healing and Growth16:06 Challenges and Breakthroughs in the Program21:29 Changes in Relationship Dynamics26:57 Navigating Conflict and Communication32:38 Continuing the Healing Journey39:47 Overcoming Shame and Taking the First Step42:39 Advice for Those Considering the Program45:49 Best Life Advice
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Jan 24, 2024 • 26min

EP 407: Your Guide to a Healthy Break-Up

MY FREE GIFT TO YOU IS HERE! Download the FREE Attachment Style Guide today to learn more about your attachment style and how you can  become securely attached: www.drmorgancoaching.com/freeguide We’ve all been through terrible break-ups in the past, and we know that lying on the floor with a pint of Ben & Jerrys, and our favorite bottle of wine, is NOT the way to go. There has to be some things you can do to get through a break-up in a healthy way, right?? YES, and I am here to help you! Inside of this episode: I explain WHY our brains struggle so much with endings of a relationship I explain why you NEED radical acceptance as part of your healthy break-up plan I outline the exact steps needed for “processing” a break-up Send this episode to someone who needs it, you never know how much you could help someone. Ready to do the work on yourself and become the securely attached version of you? I’m ready to serve you inside of the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program, don’t wait, spots are extremely limited in January: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Jan 22, 2024 • 25min

EP 406: Is Your Childhood Trauma Lowering Your Standards?

*LIMITED TIME: Your Secure Year Offer* To become securely attached and attract the love you want, apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program today: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramToday’s episode is a bit emotional, and will likely have you pulling out your journal. We dive into the ways your childhood trauma may be impacting your current standards for your life. Inside of this episode: How childhood trauma impacts your ability to endure survival mode I invite you to consider what your current standards are I discuss ways you can heal and how you can start to rewrite the standards you have for your life I want you to know that no matter where you are on your healing journey, there is always a way forward. It’s never too late to change your belief system. To become securely attached and attract the love you want, apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program today: Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Jan 17, 2024 • 32min

EP 405: Your Questions Answered: Toxic Positivity, Ethically Non-Monogamous, Defining the Relationship and more!

You are in for a treat with today’s episode…I am answering your questions that you shared with me on instagram, and these are some juicy topics!Inside this episode: What to do when you see “Ethically Non-Monogamous” on someones’ dating profile How to navigate a relationship where one partner is struggling with their mental health Dealing with Toxic PositivityWhat to do when you feel like texting your ex Aaaaand so much more! If you have been on the fence, now is the time to apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program.This month only you will get the Morning Alignment Journal and the Morning Alignment Course (Valued at 297!) for no additional cost. This offer ends soon, don’t wait to apply today! Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. Program
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Jan 15, 2024 • 20min

EP 404: 3 Ways to Have a Terrible Relationship (And What to do Instead)

The Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program is open for application; make 2024 Your Securely Attached Year! Click Here to Apply to the E.S.L. ProgramIn this episode, Dr. Morgan discusses how to have a terrible relationship by highlighting three common mistakes: placing responsibility for happiness on your partner, actions not matching words, and making assumptions about your partner. Instead, she encourages listeners to create their own happiness, ensure their actions align with their words, and lead with curiosity and openness to growth. Dr. Morgan also introduces the Morning Alignment Journal, a daily practice that has transformed her life and is now available to listeners.Episode TakeawaysTake responsibility for your own happiness instead of relying on your partner.Ensure your actions align with your words to build trust in your relationship.Avoid making assumptions about your partner and instead lead with curiosity and openness to growth.Consider using the Morning Alignment Journal as a daily practice to enhance self-awareness and personal growth.Grab your copy of the morning alignment journal here: Click Here to Grab your Morning Alignment Journal Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction and Empowered Secure Love Program02:24 Chapter 1: Putting Responsibility for Happiness on Your Partner05:20 Chapter 2: Actions Not Matching Words07:44 Chapter 3: Making Assumptions About Your Partner14:08 Chapter 4: Leading with Curiosity and Allowing Growth16:36 Conclusion and Morning Alignment Journal

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