Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice

Dr. Morgan Anderson
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Nov 4, 2024 • 36min

EP 487: Situationships and Your Attachment Style

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz WHY is it that situationships are so hard to get over? Sometimes they feel even more challenging to get over than long-term serious relationships… Inside of this episode we explore what’s really going on when a situationship ends. Inside this episode: Understanding WHY situationships can have such a profound emotional impact.Understanding Repetition compulsion: How grieving a situationship is often about past unresolved relational traumaThe decision to heal and the necessary steps to attracting emotionally available love If you know you’re ready to attract your emotionally available secure relationship, it’s time to do the work. Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramToday is the LAST day to apply to the E.S.L. Program; don’t wait. Program applications close tonight at midnight! *This is a high level of support program with 1:1 coaching.Spots are limited, and are first come first serve. Don’t wait, click here to apply. Episode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to Attachment Styles02:50 Understanding Situationships and Their Impact05:45 The Emotional Toll of Undefined Relationships09:03 Attachment Styles and Breakup Dynamics11:47 Repetition Compulsion in Relationships15:03 Grieving the Loss of a Situationship15:20 Understanding Relationship Trauma25:48  Healing Through Self-Compassion30:28 Choosing Healing and Moving Forward
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Oct 30, 2024 • 23min

EP 486: Being Ghosted (With High Self-Worth)

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Being ghosted is awful!But having high self-worth makes it easier to cope with.Inside of this episode, I dive into:What happens when you're ghosted with low self-worthAn important perspective shift on ghosting that will change how you see itWhat thoughts you need in order to move through ghosting with easeWhen we experience "ghosting" with high self-worth, we can say: "Thank-you for the data. I am so glad I am learning about the kind of person you are. There is now space in my life for what is truly meant for me. Thank-you; Next!"I hope you loved this episode!If you’re ready to do the work to become securely attached so you can finally attract the love you deserve, I have a special invitation for you: Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Oct 28, 2024 • 20min

EP 485: Build Secure Relationship Models and Spot Green Flags

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Today’s episode will help you get clear on what to look for in a healthy, loving, secure relationship. Inside today’s episode: Healthy relationship GREEN FLAGS How to set boundaries (it’s not as hard as you think) Creating emotional safety in your relationships so you can have deep loving connection If you know you’re ready to attract your emotionally available secure relationship, it’s time to do the work, sis. Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramThis program has helped over 700 amazing women heal so they could attract the relationship they’ve always wanted. *This is a high level of support program with 1:1 coaching.Spots are limited, and are first come first serve. Don’t wait, click here to apply. 
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Oct 23, 2024 • 24min

EP 484: Securely Attached Boundaries & Healthy Relationship Pacing

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz If you’ve ever felt like you’re giving too much in relationships, struggling to maintain healthy boundaries, or “moving too fast” this episode will be a game-changer for you. Today’s episode dives deep into two essential aspects of building secure, lasting relationships: boundaries and pacing.In today’s episode, we discuss:How to shift your mindset around boundaries to enhance connection and prevent resentmentThe relationship between pacing and emotional safetyHow secure attachment creates healthier, longer-lasting relationshipsA step-by-step guide to setting effective boundaries and pacing your emotional investmentIf you’re ready to do the work to become securely attached so you can finally attract the love you deserve, I have a special invitation for you: Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Oct 21, 2024 • 31min

EP 483: Healing Trauma & Becoming Fully Secure

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz If you haven’t heard of IFS (Internal Family Systems), then today’s episode will be extremely eye opening for you.In today’s episode we discuss: The dangers of numbing your emotions (and why numbing happens)Understanding Internal Family Systems as a model for healing How to start to identify you internal “parts” so you can start your healing journey If you know that you are ready to do the work to become securely attached so you can finally attract the love you deserve, I have a special invitation for you. It’s time to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:  Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Understanding Internal Family Systems and Attachment Theory12:40 Exploring the Parts of Ourselves14:29 The Importance of Compassion in HealingChapters15:00  Understanding Emotional Validation and Parenting Models17:54 The Impact of Trauma and Numbing Strategies21:10 Processing Emotions and Healing Trauma24:56 Becoming Securely Attached and Moving Forward
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Oct 16, 2024 • 27min

EP 482: Breakup Recovery: How Securely Attached People Bounce Back Stronger

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Today's episode explores how the securely attached person navigates a break-up.Inside this episode you will have a roadmap for navigating a break-up in a healthy way, and we will explore what happens when an insecurely attached person goes through a breakup.And if you know that you are ready to do the work to become securely attached so you can finally attract the love you deserve, I have a special invitation for you. It’s time to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:  Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program
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Oct 14, 2024 • 30min

EP 481: Netflix’s Nobody Wants This: What We Can Learn about Secure Attachmen

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz If you’ve been binge-watching Netflix lately, you’ve probably come across the hit series *Nobody Wants This*—it’s been dominating the #1 spot for weeks! And it’s no surprise why. With its all-star cast and brilliant writing, the show has captured hearts around the world.But beyond the entertainment value, there’s something deeper going on, especially in the relationship between Noah and Joanne. Their love story holds valuable lessons about secure attachment and what it means to truly show up in relationships.In today’s episode, we dive into:How Noah’s character demonstrates secure attachment and what we can learn from his emotional availability.Joanne’s journey of self-discovery and how it reflects the power of rewriting our relationship stories.Tune in to discover what Nobody Wants This can teach us about building a healthy lasting relationship. Feeling ready to have your own securely attached love story? I want to invite you to take action on rewiring your brain for healthy love so you can finally attract your emotionally available dream partner. It’s time to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:  Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Introduction to the Show and Its Themes02:45 Exploring Healthy Relationships in 'Nobody Wants This'06:03 The Importance of Emotional Availability08:30 Ownership and Accountability in Relationships9:00 The Sacredness of Physical Intimacy11:54 Communication and Emotional Attunement in Relationships15:47 Navigating Attachment Styles and Vulnerability17:06 Identity and Commitment in Relationships18:59 Corrective Experiences and Emotional Availability19:52 Healing and Creating Healthy Relationships
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Oct 9, 2024 • 35min

EP 480: Your Attachment Style Guide to Dating

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TVLOVE MAGNET DR MORGAN’S BOOK: Love Magnet Book  FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz Have you ever wished you had a dating guidebook that would help you understand WHY people pull away, or why they seem to “dive in” too quickly? Today’s episode will help you understand your dating life from a whole new perspective. Inside today’s episode: Anxious attachment style when dating (why you struggle with pacing & emotional investment) Avoidant attachment style approach to dating (unconsciously sabotaging intimacy) Disorganized attachment style (the core fear and struggles experienced) This is a can’t miss episode if you are working on your dating life! And if you know that you are ready to do the work to become securely attached so you can finally attract the love you deserve, I have a special invitation for you. It’s time to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:  Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramEpisode Timestamps: 00:00 Understanding Attachment Styles in Dating10:01 Anxious Attachment Style: Challenges and Patterns20:04 Avoidant Attachment Style: Coping Mechanisms and Relationships23:56 Disorganized Attachment Style: The Struggle for Stability30:02 Secure Attachment: The Path to Healthy Relationships
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Oct 7, 2024 • 34min

EP 479: From Pain to Purpose: Post-Traumatic Growth

EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TV FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz You’ve heard of Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder, but have you heard of Post Traumatic Growth? Inside of today’s episode: I share my vulnerable personal story of experiencing Post Traumatic Growth in my own life We discuss reframing traumatic experiences as catalysts for growth Grief, spirituality, and the importance of seeking support on your healing journey I hope this episode supports you in looking at the challenging times in your life through a new lens. Please know that you are so WORTHY of healing. After wasting your time on the wrong relationships, feeling stuck in  your love life, and doubting your worthiness of a healthy relationship, enough is enough. Make this October your Cozy Secure Fall and wrap yourself up in the feeling of secure attachment and high self-worth. You deserve it. It’s time to claim  the relationship you are worthy of and finally create your very own securely attached love story. It’s time to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:  Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program*If you find yourself needing support with your mental health, or leaving an abusive relationship, see these resources listed below: Suicide & Crisis Hotline: https://988lifeline.org/ The National Domestic Violence Hotline: https://www.thehotline.org/
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Oct 2, 2024 • 29min

EP 478: Modern Securely Attached Love is Not About Control

🥳 EPISODE LINKS  👇START YOUR HEALING JOURNEY: Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship ProgramGO FIND THE SHOW ON YOUTUBE:   Dr. Morgan TV FIND OUT YOUR UNIQUE ATTACHMENT STYLE: Click Here to Take The Free Quiz In today’s episode I am FIRED UP about “experts’” take on the modern relationship. Inside of today’s episode: The instagram clip that I saw recently that pissed me off What I think it says about your partner if they don’t want you to have commitments outside of the relationship Why I think modern healthy secure love encourages growth (and freedom!) for both peopleYou won’t want to miss this episode; it’s the most SPICY I’ve been about a topic in awhile. After wasting your time on the wrong relationships, feeling stuck in  your love life, and doubting your worthiness of a healthy relationship, enough is enough. Make this October your Cozy Secure Fall and wrap yourself up in the feeling of secure attachment and high self-worth. You deserve it. It’s time to claim  the relationship you are worthy of and finally create your very own securely attached love story. It’s time to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Program:  Click Here to Apply to the Empowered.Secure.Loved. Relationship Program

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