Parenting with Impact

Discover why prioritizing parent self-care is essential for effectively supporting complex children. The hosts discuss the challenges modern parents face and how empowering oneself can lead to better outcomes for kids. They emphasize the importance of training, community support, and managing emotions for personal and familial growth. By nurturing their own well-being, parents can foster a positive environment that enhances their children’s development. Tune in to explore strategies for navigating parenting challenges in today’s world!

Lynne Hughes shares her inspiring journey after losing her parents at a young age. She founded Comfort Zone Camp, a groundbreaking bereavement camp for children. The discussion highlights the significance of creating safe spaces for kids to express their emotions. Each child's grieving process is unique, and support from adults is vital. The episode also emphasizes resilience and the importance of community in navigating grief, providing tools for parents to help their children cope with loss and disappointment.

Discover the hidden reasons behind children's procrastination, from overwhelm to lack of interest. Learn how parents can help their kids by breaking tasks into manageable steps and fostering collaboration. Gain insights into the mental barriers kids face and the importance of compassionate communication. Explore effective strategies for empowering teens to tackle procrastination with confidence, celebrating small victories along the way. This conversation blends humor and practical advice to create a more peaceful parenting experience.

Explore the delicate balance between parenting and personal identity. Discover how to redefine success on your own terms, rather than society's. Learn the crucial role of self-care in managing parental overwhelm. Understand the impact of emotional dysregulation on family dynamics and the importance of fostering your child's independence. Dive into practical strategies for prioritizing your own fulfillment while supporting your children’s growth.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Monika Roots about talking to your teen about pornography.  How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.  https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Dr. Monika highlights the importance of ongoing communication and guidance when it comes to helping children navigate the digital world safely.Dr. Monika stresses the significance of acknowledging vulnerability, offering genuine apologies, and making efforts to mend connections. By establishing trust, children are more likely to approach their parents with concerns or questions about online experiences.Dr. Monika discusses the importance of being vigilant for signs of mental health changes that could indicate exposure to harmful online content or technology addiction. Related Links: Website:  BendHealth.comLet Go, Control Freak Parent!:  https://impactparents.com/let-go-control-freak-parent5 Steps to Settle Family Politics:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/5-steps-to-settle-family-politics/Confident Parenting – Why Bother?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/confident-parenting/5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/A Parent’s Guide to Sexting, Texting, and Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/Handling Conflict with Complex Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kidsIPPF Report:  https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdfLearning Network Newsletter:  https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdfSurgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbOpinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbTeaching Kids to be Responsible with Technology:  https://youtu.be/9_NbAkoaZjkIntern'l Conf on ADHD 2022 Takeaway Part 2: Technology & Gaming Research:  https://youtu.be/3OmacXsemNc?si=Avmr_v_c9YIBBVWnTech Overwhelm and the Metaverse:  https://youtu.be/HXN4ShSNbvwSurgeon General Warning on Social Media: How should parents respond?:  https://youtu.be/H67o7CMioCM Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Paul Simon about risks and prevention for children watching adult material online. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:John Paul explains setting controls and initiating early and ongoing conversations about technology use are crucial steps towards fostering a safe digital environment for children.John Paul and Elaine underscore the dual nature of technology, portraying it as both a privilege and a responsibility.John Paul highlights the importance of engaging in complex and continuous dialogues with children about internet safety, sexuality, and instilling values around technology.  Related Links:Website:  https://www.nj4sbergenhub.org5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/A Parent’s Guide to Sexting, Texting, and Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/Handling Conflict with Complex Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kidsIPPF Report:  https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdfVAW Learning Network:  https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdfSurgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbOpinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb  Books:Tap, Click, Read: Growing Readers in a World of Screens:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1119091896/?tag=im0ea3-20iRules: What Every Tech-Healthy Family Needs to Know about Selfies, Sexting, Gaming, and Growing up:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B00FWT9J1U/?tag=im0ea3-20The Gaming Overload Workbook: A Teen's Guide to Balancing Screen Time, Video Games, and Real Life:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1684035511/?tag=im0ea3-20The Parent's Guide to Parenting in the Digital Age: An Easy Reference Tool to Support and Empower Parents and Caregivers (The Digital Parent's Toolkit Series):  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1547146362/?tag=im0ea3-20Raising a Child Responsibly in a Sexually Permissive World:  https://impactparents.com/books/raising-child-responsibly-sexually-permissive-world/ Connect with John Paul Simon:Website:  https://www.nj4sbergenhub.org LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-paul-simon-lmft-acs-480237238/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Supreet Mann about potential psychological and emotional impacts of exposure to pornographic material on children and teens.  How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Dr. Supreet explains it is crucial for parents to engage in open and honest conversations with their teenagers about pornography, consent, and healthy sexual relationships. Creating a safe space for dialogue can help address any misconceptions and provide guidance.Dr. Supreet and Elaine agree parents and caregivers should seek out educational resources and tools to facilitate discussions about pornography and its impact.Dr. Supreet and Elaine explain it's essential to understand that curiosity about sexuality and exposure to explicit content does not make teenagers "bad kids." Parents should refrain from shaming or judgment and instead focus on guiding them towards healthy choices and understanding.Related Links:Research:  CommonSenseMedia.org/ResearchReport:  www.commonsensemedia.org/research/teens-and-pornographyWhat To Do if Your Young Child Sees Pornography:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/what-to-do-if-your-young-child-sees-pornographyTalking with Teens and Preteens About Pornography:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/talking-with-teens-and-preteens-about-pornographyTeens Are Watching Pornography, and It's Time to Talk About It:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/kids-action/articles/teens-are-watching-pornography-and-its-time-to-talk-about-itFull Report:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/sites/default/files/research/report/2022-teens-and-pornography-final-web.pdfSurgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb  Opinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb 5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/Preventing Risky Behaviors in Kids with ADHD:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/preventing-risky-behaviors-in-kids-with-adhd/Parents are Missing Link to Empower Kids with ADHD:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/empower-kids-with-adhd/When Parenting is Scary: Parenting Kids with Depression, Anxiety, and More:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/when-parenting-is-scary-parenting-kids-with-depression-anxiety-and-more/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss motivation. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane explain rather than solely emphasizing external standards, encourage children to tap into their intrinsic motivation and values.Building a foundation of positivity and encouragement in relationships can strengthen trust and communication.Elaine and Diane discuss employing tools such as showing compassion, asking open-ended questions, and acknowledging positive aspects first when offering feedback. Related Links:A Raccoon on Meth:  https://georgemahood.substack.com/p/a-raccoon-on-meth3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-ace-communication-with-complex-kids-teens/How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools:  https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home:  https://youtu.be/CcHgigVXwFkConnection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult Times:  https://youtu.be/0pZJhzfTeVUIt's No Mystery: Why Kids Resist Help & How to Change It:  https://youtu.be/LMHWwk0IpiQThe 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Home: Part 1:  https://youtu.be/VpRSaIExzQ4?si=n7OlRbOS9uQXU5XZThe 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Home: Part 2:  https://youtu.be/T38c20219ho?si=4TuluF6mgj6j_kTRParenting ADHD Now summer summit -- Encore Package:  https://impactparents.securechkout.com/ParentingADHDNowEncoreR?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=parenting-adhd-now-summit-2024 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

John Willson, MS, LRT/CTRS, is Executive Director for SOAR, the world’s premier adventure program serving youth with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and LD (Learning Disabilities). SOAR’s outdoor adventure-based programs provide academic instruction, experiential education, and life skills development for youth and young adults ages 8-25. SOAR stands for Success-Oriented, Achievements Realized. With a passion for fostering resilience and nurturing strengths in neurodiverse communities, John is a respected advocate among those who serve individuals with learning differences and attention challenges. Learn more at soarnc.org.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Willson about ADHD and outdoor learning.How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communicationHere is what to expect on this week’s show:John emphasized the effectiveness of outdoor experiential learning in nurturing success and coping mechanisms for kids with ADHD John discusses recognizing and celebrating children's achievements, big or small, can create a positive cycle of confidence and growth, essential for long-term success.John stresses the use of metaphors in the learning process was highlighted as a powerful tool for children to understand and apply lessons from outdoor activities to real-life situations.Related Links:Website: https://soarnc.orgOutdoor Adventure Camp Experiences for Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/outdoor-adventure-camp-experiences-for-kids-with-adhd/10 Easy Steps to a Tension-Less Home: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/10-easy-steps-to-a-tension-less-home/How to Manage Them, Me and Their ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-with-adhd/Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.: https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_PWhat Support do ADHD'ers Need? Book Smart or Street Smart?: https://youtu.be/jzaRjHLspjsTrusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_UThe Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approach: https://youtu.be/QmXPUxNRCGAConnect with John:Website: soarnc.orgGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The sense of urgency in parenting often leads to reactive rather than creative problem-solving, posing unique challenges for both parents and children. Elaine and Diane, drawing from their personal experiences and insights, underscore the importance of recognizing and managing the signs of reactivity, such as hypervigilance or catastrophizing. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss problem-solving.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/calm-confident-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=calmHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane understand as parents you must recognize when you are in a reactive state and make a conscious effort to shift towards a calmer mindset before addressing the issue at hand. This allows for more thoughtful and effective problem-solving.Practice pausing in interactions with your children to allow for reflection and emotional regulation. This space enables both parents and children to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.Elaine and Diane stress guiding your children through moments of discomfort instead of immediately rescuing them. By helping them navigate challenging emotions, you empower them to develop emotional self-regulation skills for the future.LinksBeyond Mean Girls: Parenting and Dignity with Rosalind Wiseman: https://youtu.be/GfmkH5HkaS4Effective Agreements: https://youtu.be/1Sf6G37JW80Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility: https://youtu.be/gUQdne8YliMRecognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s5 Steps to Settle Family Politics: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/5-steps-to-settle-family-politics/Handling Conflicts with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kidsWelcome to Parenting With Impact: https://youtu.be/FykSBnaWXhkGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices