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Parenting with Impact

EP199: Relatable Social Skills for Kids with ADHD with Ryan Wexelblatt

Jan 29, 2025
Ryan Wexelblatt, known as the ADHD Dude, is a licensed clinical social worker with over 20 years in special education, specializing in strategies for kids with ADHD. He discusses empowering resilience by encouraging children to tolerate discomfort without over-accommodation. The conversation emphasizes fostering independence through visual aids and patience, while also addressing the importance of social skills training. Wexelblatt highlights the communal support necessary for raising children, reminding us that a village truly helps in nurturing their potential.
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  • Parents should foster emotional development by acknowledging feelings while avoiding over-accommodation, promoting resilience and emotional regulation in children with ADHD.
  • Encouraging a growth mindset enables children to embrace challenges and develop independence, helping them transition from prompt dependence to self-sufficiency.

Deep dives

Understanding Children's Emotions

It's important to teach children that experiencing emotions like anger or sadness is perfectly acceptable, but acting destructively or being mean is not. Parents should acknowledge their children's feelings without over-explaining or over-accommodating, which can lead to unhealthy dependencies. For example, while it’s okay for a child to express frustration over dinner choices, the parent is not obliged to cater to every desire, reinforcing the idea of resilience. This balance helps children learn to manage their emotions in a healthy way, promoting their emotional development.

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