Parenting with Impact

In this special anniversary episode, Parenting with Impact celebrates four years of podcasting and 14 years since the launch of ImpactParents.com. We will reflect on how the coaching model has grown, what core truths continue to guide us, and why emotional regulation and collaborative parenting matter now more than ever. From tech challenges to teen transitions, the conversation offers timeless guidance for today’s families. Celebrate with us and see why this journey is only just beginning.What to expect in this episode:Why emotional regulation remains the foundation of effective parentingHow collaborative parenting evolves from toddlerhood to young adulthoodWhat buy-in and motivation look like at different agesWhy focusing on the process, not just the outcome, builds resilienceHow tech has changed the parenting landscape but not the core tools we need Related Links:Welcome To Parenting With Impacthttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-001-welcome-to-parenting-with-impact/id1565976964?i=1000530940488International Conference on ADHD 2022 Part 1: Emotional Awareness and Insights about ADHDhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-088-internl-conf-on-adhd-2022-part-1-emotional-awareness/id1565976964?i=1000590113067Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaborativelyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-092-pushing-the-reset-button-to-solve-problems/id1565976964?i=1000593625796Motivation Myths and the Magic of P.I.N.C.H. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-126-motivation-myths-and-the-magic-of-p-i-n-c-h/id1565976964?i=1000626897834 Shifting from Nagging to Collaborative Solutionshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-147-shifting-from-nagging-to-collaborative-solutions/id1565976964?i=1000643612846 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/key-lessons-from-14-years-of-parent-coaching Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

If your child dreads math, the problem may not be numbers—it may be a hidden gap in understanding. In this thought-provoking episode, Dr. Aditya Nagrath explains why math anxiety is more about language and belief than ability. Discover what happens when kids stop feeling “stupid” and start feeling seen, supported, and capable.What to expect in this episode:Why math anxiety isn’t really about performance but stems from a gap in understandingHow math functions as a language and why many kids aren’t fluent in itWhat’s behind the phrase “I’m not a math person” and how to shift that mindsetWhy believing in your child’s ability can change the way they learnHow parents and teachers can meet kids at their level to build true understandingAbout Dr. Aditya Nagrath, Ph.D. Dr. Aditya is the founder of Elephant Learning Mathematics Academy, a platform designed to help students overcome math anxiety and build deep understanding through just 10 minutes of practice, three times a week. With a Ph.D. in Mathematics and Computer Sciences, he brings over 30 years of experience as a software engineer, entrepreneur, and educator. From atomic clocks to mobile apps, Dr. Nagrath has led high-impact projects for companies like Amazon, Pearson, and Verizon. His work now focuses on empowering students by closing comprehension gaps and transforming the way math is taught and understood.Connect with Dr. AdityaWebsite: Elephant LearningLinkedIn: Dr. Aditya Nagrath, Ph.D.  Instagram: @dradityanagrath | @elephantlearningappBook: Treating Mathematics Anxiety by Dr. Aditya Nagrath | Paperback and HardcoverRelated Links:EP197: School Advocacy: What Parents Need to Know with Alyson Younghttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep197-school-advocacy-what-parents-need-to-know-with/id1565976964?i=1000684092091EP219: How to Help ADHD Students Succeed in the Classroomhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep219-how-to-help-adhd-students-succeed-in-the-classroom/id1565976964?i=1000713449518Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/math-anxiety-in-kids-how-to-close-the-learning-gapConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

There’s more to your child’s behavior than what you see. What if the real struggle isn’t defiance but the way the world feels to them, both inside and out? This episode offers a powerful new lens on neurodivergence, gender, identity, and safety. It’s a conversation that invites you to pause, reconsider, and stay curious from beginning to end.What to expect in this episode:Why “neurodivergent-adjacent” families need supportHow sensory overload shows up in daily behaviorThe difference between “won’t” and “can’t” in complex kidsHow Spoon Theory can reframe energy management for you and your childThe power of starting with curiosity instead of controlAbout Lori Crowley, LMFT/LPCCLori is a California-based therapist and life coach who specializes in neurodivergence, sensory awareness, and inclusive care. She is the founder of ExP Therapy and creator of the globally used Ability Awareness Program. As a neurodivergent parent of three, Lori brings both professional expertise and lived experience to her work. She is also a dedicated ally to the neuroqueer and transgender communities.Connect with LoriWebsite: ExP THERAPY® LinkedIn: Lori L. Crowley Facebook: ExP Therapy with Lori Crowley Related Links: (For Blog Post Only)EP28: Gender & Queer Kids with Neurodiversity https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-028-gender-queer-kids-with-neurodiversity/id1565976964?i=1000542909179 Ep42: Trans Youth and Giftednesshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-042-trans-youth-and-giftedness/id1565976964?i=1000549017769 Ep82: Gender Confusion: A Primer for Parentshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-082-gender-confusion-a-primer-for-parents/id1565976964?i=1000584734150 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift. Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/the-connection-between-complex-kids-gender-sensory-issues Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

When parenting feels like a constant battle, is there another way forward? In this episode, Marina G. shares her powerful shift from stress and control to calm and connection. Listen until the end and discover what happens when, through subtle but meaningful changes, a parent chooses curiosity over command. What to expect in this episode:Why letting go of control might be the most powerful parenting move you makeHow doing nothing changed everything in Marina’s relationship with her daughterWhat shifted when curiosity replaced correctionThe surprising moment Marina realized she wasn’t parenting an extension of herselfHow coaching offered something therapy never quite couldRelated Links:​Parenting Tips When Emerging Adults Feel Stuck https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep221-parenting-tips-when-emerging-adults-feel-stuck/id1565976964?i=1000715430261 Helping Young Adults get back on Trackhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620 Success! The Coach Approach at Work and at Homehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-087-success-the-coach-approach-at-work-and-at-home/id1565976964?i=1000589151932 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/success-strategies-for-better-relationships-with-complex-teens Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Meltdowns aren’t always what they seem, and your child’s silence might be saying more than you think. In this episode, we explore the hidden connection between communication struggles and emotional blow-ups. Therapist Holly Blanc Moses joins us to unpack the subtle signals parents often miss, the assumptions that can get in the way, and the small shifts that can transform your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind the shutdowns, this conversation will make you think twice and inspire you to try something new.What to expect in this episode:Why meltdowns may be signs of unmet needs instead of intentional behaviorHow communication breaks down when a child doesn’t feel safe or understoodThe surprising impact of modeling your own emotions in everyday momentsHow one word like “because” can shift a shutdown into a conversationWhat happens when you stop labeling and start connecting insteadAbout Holly Blanc Moses, M.S., LPA, LCMHCHolly is a Licensed Psychological Associate and Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, with over 27 years of experience in the field. A neurodivergent psychologist and mom of two, she specializes in supporting children, teens, and families navigating ADHD, autism, anxiety, and emotional regulation. Holly is also the host of The Autism ADHD Podcast and founder of Crossvine Counseling.Connect with Holly Website: Crossvine Counseling | Holly Blanc Moses |  Let's Connect! Podcast: The Autism ADHD PodcastFacebook: Holly Blanc Moses Instagram: @hollyblancmosesLinkedIn: Holly Blanc MosesGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/avoid-meltdowns-shutdowns-with-adhd-communication-tools Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.  Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Getting into college isn’t just about grades. It’s about finding the right fit emotionally, socially, and academically. In this episode, Dr. Pamela Ellis shares how families can approach the high school-to-college transition with more clarity, less stress, and renewed confidence. From building trust with your teen to letting go of outdated expectations, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on what success really looks like for them and for you.  What to expect in this episode:The overlooked framework that helps teens find their perfect college fitWhy believing in your kid might matter more than their GPAThe surprising reason parents struggle most with letting goWhat many families get wrong about gap years and how to use them rightHow to support your teen’s independence without losing your influenceAbout Dr. Pamela EllisDr. Pamela is the founder of Compass College Advisory and a Stanford-educated expert in the high school-to-college transition. With decades of experience as a researcher, advisor, and parent, she helps families navigate the college admissions process with confidence, clarity, and heart. Known as “The Education Doctor,” Dr. Ellis empowers complex kids and their parents to find the right college fit without the stress.Connect with Dr. PamelaWebsite: Compass College Advisory LinkedIn: Pamela Ellis, PhD, MBA Get Dr. Pamela Ellis’s free College Confidence Blueprint by messaging “blueprint25” on LinkedIn. Related Links:It’s All About Control: Are You Ready? https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-135-its-all-about-control-are-you-ready/id1565976964?i=1000634092094Helping Young Adults get back on Track   https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620Parenting & Hope: Helping Kids Navigate an Uncertain Future https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-186-parenting-hope-helping-kids-navigate-an/id1565976964?i=1000674953062 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/college-confidence-for-complex-teens-finding-the-right-fit Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

They’re adults now, but they’re still stuck—and nothing you try seems to help. You push, they resist. You back off, they stall. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells and unsure how to actually support your young adult, this episode is for you. We’re talking about what really gets in the way, and how a small shift in your approach can make a big difference.What to expect in this episode:The hidden reasons your child may appear “lazy” or unmotivatedWhat to do instead of pushing your agenda when they feel stuckRedefining your role from director to collaboratorUnderstanding the 30 percent developmental delay and what it means for your 25-year-oldWhy emotional detachment is not cold and how it helps you parent more effectivelyParenting a stuck young adult? Join the Back on Track Summit live on July 17 and get practical strategies from experts like Jessica McCabe and Dr. Sasha Hamdani.Register free or get the VIP Pass for lifetime access: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/BackOnTrack2025?utm_campaign=imp-back-on-track-2025&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=summit-free-access  Related Links: Parenting Emerging Adultshttps://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-008-parenting-emerging-adults/id1565976964?i=1000534651910 Effective Agreements                     https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-044-effective-agreements/id1565976964?i=1000550515513If They Would Just ... Guiding Kids to Take Ownership of Their Own Agenda  https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-132-if-they-would-just-guiding-kids-to-take-ownership/id1565976964?i=1000631685807Helping Young Adults get back on Track  https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/parenting-tips-when-emerging-adults-feel-stuckConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

What if imagination could build real-world skills? In this episode, we will explore how tabletop role-playing games (RPGs) like D&D help neurodiverse kids develop confidence, communication, and connection. Guests Bex Taylor-Klaus and Mischa Stanton share how these games create powerful opportunities for growth. Ready to rethink what play can do? Hit play and join the adventure. What to expect in this episode:How tabletop games help kids explore emotions in a way that feels safe and empoweringWhy fantasy worlds reveal real-life struggles, your child may not know how to nameHow made-up heroes give kids the language to express who they really areWhat collaborative storytelling teaches about empathy, autonomy, and connectionWhy entering your child’s world can be the bridge to stronger relationshipsAbout Mischa Stanton (xe/they)Mischa is a Los Angeles–based storyteller, sound designer, and game consultant whose acclaimed work spans projects for MARVELS, Netflix, LeVar Burton Reads, and Audible. Mischa specializes in sci-fi, fantasy, and tabletop roleplay. AboutBex Taylor-Klaus (they/them)Bex is a producer, actor, and imaginative force of nature whose voice spans mediums from screen to storytelling. Known for genre-defying creativity and heartfelt performances, Bex brings humor, insight, and bold authenticity to their work.Connect with Mischa and BexWebsite: The Wandering Path Podcast: The Wandering Path YouTube: The Wandering PathInstagram: @wanderingpathpod  Related Links:Yes, You Can Teach Life Skills Through Gaminghttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-075-yes-you-can-teach-life-skills-through-gaming/id1565976964?i=10005794088722022 International Conference on ADHD Takeaways Part 2: Technology & Gaming Addictionhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-096-2022-internl-conf-on-adhd-takeaways-part-2-technology/id1565976964?i=1000598581977Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/tabletop-gaming-social-emotional-skills-for-neurodiverse-kids?preview=trueConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

If you’ve ever sat in a school meeting thinking, “They just don’t get my kid,” this episode is for you. Guest Cindy Goldrich, an ADHD and executive function expert, reveals what most teachers don’t know about ADHD, why school support often misses the mark, and how to advocate with compassion, not conflict. Whether you're a parent seeking support or an educator feeling overwhelmed, Cindy shares a powerful lens on collaboration, stress, and building spaces where complex kids truly thrive. What to expect in this episode:Uncover the surprising gaps in teacher education when it comes to neurodiversityWhy universal design isn’t about special treatment, but smarter teaching for all kidsThe powerful link between anxiety and attentionHow approaching schools with curiosity instead of conflict can make all the differenceWhy your child’s voice might be the most important one in the conversationAbout Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M., ADHD - CCSPCindy is a leading ADHD and executive function expert and the founder of PTS Coaching. She equips parents, educators, and professionals with research-backed tools to support children with ADHD. Through certified training programs, one-on-one coaching, and nationwide teacher workshops, Cindy helps others build practical strategies for success. She's the author of 8 Keys to Parenting Children with ADHD and ADHD, Executive Function & Behavioral Challenges in the Classroom, a CHADD Public Policy Committee member, and a regular contributor to ADDitude magazine.Connect with CindyWebsite: PTS CoachingEmail: cindy@ptscoaching.com Facebook: PTS CoachingInstagram: @ptscoachingLinkedIn: Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M. ADHD-CCSPAdvocate for Teacher Training: https://ptscoaching.com/2024/09/advocate-for-adhd-teacher-training/Train All Teachers about ADHD Challenges:  https://ptscoaching.com/2023/08/train-all-teachers-adhd/Meet the Teacher: How to Build Relationships: https://ptscoaching.com/2022/09/meet-the-teacher/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here: https://impactparents.com/how-to-help-adhd-students-succeed-in-the-classroom Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Family meetings often sound rigid or old-fashioned—but what if they were the key to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork at home? In this episode, Diane and Elaine share a modern, lighthearted approach to turning family meetings into something everyone looks forward to. With practical tips and a focus on communication (not control), you’ll learn how to create a safe space where every voice matters.What to expect in this episode:Why connection, not correction, should be the goal of family meetingsWhat happens when kids feel heard and involved in decision-makingHow rotating leadership empowers kids and builds real-life skillsWhy a celebration and calendar check is all you need to startWhat makes a meeting feel safe, playful, and sustainable Related Links:Effective Agreements With Your Childrenhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-044-effective-agreements/id1565976964?i=1000550515513Navigating Drama Triangles and Family Dynamicshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-120-navigating-drama-triangles-and-family-dynamics/id1565976964?i=1000622354108Reduce Family Stress by Taking Aimhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep200-reduce-family-stress-by-taking-aim/id1565976964?i=1000689309013Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift. Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/family-meetings-for-better-communication-trust-and-connection Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Time Timer" – Because When Time is Visible, It’s ManageableKids with ADHD often struggle to visualize time, making it harder to plan ahead, transition between tasks, or remember important events. Time Timer turns time into something they can see—supporting the brain’s ability to build routines and recall meaningful moments.Visit timetimer.com/ip and use code IP25 for 5% off your order.