Parenting with Impact

When parenting feels like a constant battle, is there another way forward? In this episode, Marina G. shares her powerful shift from stress and control to calm and connection. Listen until the end and discover what happens when, through subtle but meaningful changes, a parent chooses curiosity over command. What to expect in this episode:Why letting go of control might be the most powerful parenting move you makeHow doing nothing changed everything in Marina’s relationship with her daughterWhat shifted when curiosity replaced correctionThe surprising moment Marina realized she wasn’t parenting an extension of herselfHow coaching offered something therapy never quite couldRelated Links:​Parenting Tips When Emerging Adults Feel Stuck https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep221-parenting-tips-when-emerging-adults-feel-stuck/id1565976964?i=1000715430261 Helping Young Adults get back on Trackhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620 Success! The Coach Approach at Work and at Homehttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-087-success-the-coach-approach-at-work-and-at-home/id1565976964?i=1000589151932 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/success-strategies-for-better-relationships-with-complex-teens Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Meltdowns aren’t always what they seem, and your child’s silence might be saying more than you think. In this episode, we explore the hidden connection between communication struggles and emotional blow-ups. Therapist Holly Blanc Moses joins us to unpack the subtle signals parents often miss, the assumptions that can get in the way, and the small shifts that can transform your relationship. If you’ve ever wondered what’s really going on behind the shutdowns, this conversation will make you think twice and inspire you to try something new.What to expect in this episode:Why meltdowns may be signs of unmet needs instead of intentional behaviorHow communication breaks down when a child doesn’t feel safe or understoodThe surprising impact of modeling your own emotions in everyday momentsHow one word like “because” can shift a shutdown into a conversationWhat happens when you stop labeling and start connecting insteadAbout Holly Blanc Moses, M.S., LPA, LCMHCHolly is a Licensed Psychological Associate and Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor, with over 27 years of experience in the field. A neurodivergent psychologist and mom of two, she specializes in supporting children, teens, and families navigating ADHD, autism, anxiety, and emotional regulation. Holly is also the host of The Autism ADHD Podcast and founder of Crossvine Counseling.Connect with Holly Website: Crossvine Counseling | Holly Blanc Moses |  Let's Connect! Podcast: The Autism ADHD PodcastFacebook: Holly Blanc Moses Instagram: @hollyblancmosesLinkedIn: Holly Blanc MosesGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/avoid-meltdowns-shutdowns-with-adhd-communication-tools Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.  Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Getting into college isn’t just about grades. It’s about finding the right fit emotionally, socially, and academically. In this episode, Dr. Pamela Ellis shares how families can approach the high school-to-college transition with more clarity, less stress, and renewed confidence. From building trust with your teen to letting go of outdated expectations, you’ll walk away with a fresh perspective on what success really looks like for them and for you.  What to expect in this episode:The overlooked framework that helps teens find their perfect college fitWhy believing in your kid might matter more than their GPAThe surprising reason parents struggle most with letting goWhat many families get wrong about gap years and how to use them rightHow to support your teen’s independence without losing your influenceAbout Dr. Pamela EllisDr. Pamela is the founder of Compass College Advisory and a Stanford-educated expert in the high school-to-college transition. With decades of experience as a researcher, advisor, and parent, she helps families navigate the college admissions process with confidence, clarity, and heart. Known as “The Education Doctor,” Dr. Ellis empowers complex kids and their parents to find the right college fit without the stress.Connect with Dr. PamelaWebsite: Compass College Advisory LinkedIn: Pamela Ellis, PhD, MBA Get Dr. Pamela Ellis’s free College Confidence Blueprint by messaging “blueprint25” on LinkedIn. Related Links:It’s All About Control: Are You Ready? https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-135-its-all-about-control-are-you-ready/id1565976964?i=1000634092094Helping Young Adults get back on Track   https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620Parenting & Hope: Helping Kids Navigate an Uncertain Future https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-186-parenting-hope-helping-kids-navigate-an/id1565976964?i=1000674953062 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/college-confidence-for-complex-teens-finding-the-right-fit Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

They’re adults now, but they’re still stuck—and nothing you try seems to help. You push, they resist. You back off, they stall. If you’re tired of walking on eggshells and unsure how to actually support your young adult, this episode is for you. We’re talking about what really gets in the way, and how a small shift in your approach can make a big difference.What to expect in this episode:The hidden reasons your child may appear “lazy” or unmotivatedWhat to do instead of pushing your agenda when they feel stuckRedefining your role from director to collaboratorUnderstanding the 30 percent developmental delay and what it means for your 25-year-oldWhy emotional detachment is not cold and how it helps you parent more effectivelyParenting a stuck young adult? Join the Back on Track Summit live on July 17 and get practical strategies from experts like Jessica McCabe and Dr. Sasha Hamdani.Register free or get the VIP Pass for lifetime access: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/BackOnTrack2025?utm_campaign=imp-back-on-track-2025&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=summit-free-access  Related Links: Parenting Emerging Adultshttps://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-008-parenting-emerging-adults/id1565976964?i=1000534651910 Effective Agreements                     https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-044-effective-agreements/id1565976964?i=1000550515513If They Would Just ... Guiding Kids to Take Ownership of Their Own Agenda  https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-132-if-they-would-just-guiding-kids-to-take-ownership/id1565976964?i=1000631685807Helping Young Adults get back on Track  https://podcasts.apple.com/ph/podcast/ep-144-helping-young-adults-get-back-on-track/id1565976964?i=1000641123620 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/parenting-tips-when-emerging-adults-feel-stuckConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

What if imagination could build real-world skills? In this episode, we will explore how tabletop role-playing games (RPGs) like D&D help neurodiverse kids develop confidence, communication, and connection. Guests Bex Taylor-Klaus and Mischa Stanton share how these games create powerful opportunities for growth. Ready to rethink what play can do? Hit play and join the adventure. What to expect in this episode:How tabletop games help kids explore emotions in a way that feels safe and empoweringWhy fantasy worlds reveal real-life struggles, your child may not know how to nameHow made-up heroes give kids the language to express who they really areWhat collaborative storytelling teaches about empathy, autonomy, and connectionWhy entering your child’s world can be the bridge to stronger relationshipsAbout Mischa Stanton (xe/they)Mischa is a Los Angeles–based storyteller, sound designer, and game consultant whose acclaimed work spans projects for MARVELS, Netflix, LeVar Burton Reads, and Audible. Mischa specializes in sci-fi, fantasy, and tabletop roleplay. AboutBex Taylor-Klaus (they/them)Bex is a producer, actor, and imaginative force of nature whose voice spans mediums from screen to storytelling. Known for genre-defying creativity and heartfelt performances, Bex brings humor, insight, and bold authenticity to their work.Connect with Mischa and BexWebsite: The Wandering Path Podcast: The Wandering Path YouTube: The Wandering PathInstagram: @wanderingpathpod  Related Links:Yes, You Can Teach Life Skills Through Gaminghttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-075-yes-you-can-teach-life-skills-through-gaming/id1565976964?i=10005794088722022 International Conference on ADHD Takeaways Part 2: Technology & Gaming Addictionhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-096-2022-internl-conf-on-adhd-takeaways-part-2-technology/id1565976964?i=1000598581977Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/tabletop-gaming-social-emotional-skills-for-neurodiverse-kids?preview=trueConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

If you’ve ever sat in a school meeting thinking, “They just don’t get my kid,” this episode is for you. Guest Cindy Goldrich, an ADHD and executive function expert, reveals what most teachers don’t know about ADHD, why school support often misses the mark, and how to advocate with compassion, not conflict. Whether you're a parent seeking support or an educator feeling overwhelmed, Cindy shares a powerful lens on collaboration, stress, and building spaces where complex kids truly thrive. What to expect in this episode:Uncover the surprising gaps in teacher education when it comes to neurodiversityWhy universal design isn’t about special treatment, but smarter teaching for all kidsThe powerful link between anxiety and attentionHow approaching schools with curiosity instead of conflict can make all the differenceWhy your child’s voice might be the most important one in the conversationAbout Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M., ADHD - CCSPCindy is a leading ADHD and executive function expert and the founder of PTS Coaching. She equips parents, educators, and professionals with research-backed tools to support children with ADHD. Through certified training programs, one-on-one coaching, and nationwide teacher workshops, Cindy helps others build practical strategies for success. She's the author of 8 Keys to Parenting Children with ADHD and ADHD, Executive Function & Behavioral Challenges in the Classroom, a CHADD Public Policy Committee member, and a regular contributor to ADDitude magazine.Connect with CindyWebsite: PTS CoachingEmail: cindy@ptscoaching.com Facebook: PTS CoachingInstagram: @ptscoachingLinkedIn: Cindy Goldrich, Ed.M. ADHD-CCSPAdvocate for Teacher Training: https://ptscoaching.com/2024/09/advocate-for-adhd-teacher-training/Train All Teachers about ADHD Challenges:  https://ptscoaching.com/2023/08/train-all-teachers-adhd/Meet the Teacher: How to Build Relationships: https://ptscoaching.com/2022/09/meet-the-teacher/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here: https://impactparents.com/how-to-help-adhd-students-succeed-in-the-classroom Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

Family meetings often sound rigid or old-fashioned—but what if they were the key to deeper connection, trust, and teamwork at home? In this episode, Diane and Elaine share a modern, lighthearted approach to turning family meetings into something everyone looks forward to. With practical tips and a focus on communication (not control), you’ll learn how to create a safe space where every voice matters.What to expect in this episode:Why connection, not correction, should be the goal of family meetingsWhat happens when kids feel heard and involved in decision-makingHow rotating leadership empowers kids and builds real-life skillsWhy a celebration and calendar check is all you need to startWhat makes a meeting feel safe, playful, and sustainable Related Links:Effective Agreements With Your Childrenhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-044-effective-agreements/id1565976964?i=1000550515513Navigating Drama Triangles and Family Dynamicshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-120-navigating-drama-triangles-and-family-dynamics/id1565976964?i=1000622354108Reduce Family Stress by Taking Aimhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep200-reduce-family-stress-by-taking-aim/id1565976964?i=1000689309013Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift. Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/family-meetings-for-better-communication-trust-and-connection Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Time Timer" – Because When Time is Visible, It’s ManageableKids with ADHD often struggle to visualize time, making it harder to plan ahead, transition between tasks, or remember important events. Time Timer turns time into something they can see—supporting the brain’s ability to build routines and recall meaningful moments.Visit timetimer.com/ip and use code IP25 for 5% off your order.

The world your child plays in is bigger than you think, and it’s changing faster than most parents can track. In this eye-opening episode, Dina Lamdany, a product manager at Roblox, joins us to unpack how the platform is evolving to protect kids and spark healthier digital conversations. But this isn't just about parental controls or privacy settings. It’s about how we stay connected to our kids in a digital world that won’t slow down. If you’ve ever wondered whether “no” is the safest answer, or if there’s a smarter way to say “let’s figure this out together,” this conversation will help you take the next step.What to expect in this episode:What Roblox is doing differently with kids under 13How to block games, limit screen time, and monitor your child’s experienceWhy your child’s input is key to digital safety (how to invite it and avoid trying to control them)About Dina LamdanyDina Lamdany is a product manager at Roblox, where she leads efforts to build safer, more transparent digital experiences for kids and families. With a focus on users under 13, she works across engineering, design, legal, and policy teams to develop parental controls, privacy protections, and age-appropriate content systems. A strong advocate for user safety and digital literacy, Dina brings both technical and legal expertise to her work, drawing from past experience at YouTube, the U.S. Congress, and the Federal Trade Commission.Connect with DinaWebsite: Dina Lamdany LinkedIn: Dina Lamdany For parents looking to understand and support their child’s Roblox experience, roblox.com/family-center offers trusted tools, guides, and resources—all in one place.Related Links:Adult Material Online: Risks & Prevention for Children & Pre-Teenshttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-176-adult-material-online-risks-prevention-for-children/id1565976964?i=1000666070786No Time for Judgment: Talking to Teens About Pornographyhttps://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-177-no-time-for-judgment-talking-to-teens-about/id1565976964?i=1000666857225 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/roblox-safety-tips-for-parents-new-parental-controlsConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors"Time Timer" – Because When Time is Visible, It’s ManageableKids with ADHD often struggle to visualize time, making it harder to plan ahead, transition between tasks, or remember important events. Time Timer turns time into something they can see—supporting the brain’s ability to build routines and recall meaningful moments.Visit timetimer.com/ip and use code IP25 for 5% off your order.

Daniella Karidi, a certified ADHD coach and memory expert with a Ph.D. from Northwestern University, delves into the fascinating relationship between ADHD and memory. She challenges the notion of forgetfulness as a flaw, suggesting it may instead reveal how our brains function. The conversation covers essential memory processes, offers practical strategies for parents and educators, and emphasizes the use of curiosity and creativity in enhancing memory retention. Discover innovative, playful approaches to support children with ADHD and make remembering tasks a team effort!

Sibling tension is a normal part of family life, but when one or more kids are neurodivergent, the challenges can feel even more intense. In this episode, we peel back the layers of comparison, conflict, and misunderstanding to reveal what’s really going on beneath the surface. Join us as we explore how to support every child’s needs, create a sense of fairness, and build stronger sibling connections that last.What to expect in this episode:What if those constant fights are actually your child’s way of learning emotional intelligence?Why does meeting each child’s unique needs build more trust than trying to treat them the same?How humor, honesty, and real conversations can ease sibling tension before it turns toxicWhy stepping back from sibling drama and coaching through conflict leads to stronger, smarter kidsHow to create a family culture where kids lift each other up—even when their needs and personalities clashRelated LinksNavigating Drama Triangles and Family Dynamics https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-120-navigating-drama-triangles-and-family-dynamics/id1565976964?i=1000622354108How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-138-how-do-i-get-my-kids-to-talk-to-me-4-communication-tools/id1565976964?i=1000636865856 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift. Read the full blog here:https://impactparents.com/parenting-siblings-neurodiversity-conflict-fairness Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsSponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com