Parenting with Impact

Rebuilding trust within a family is no small feat, especially when past hurts linger. In this episode, Elaine and Diane tackle the complexities of mending relationships and navigating emotional barriers. They share practical insights and a transformative strategy -- cleaning-the-slate conversations -- to guide families in clearing old wounds and creating space for growth and connection.What to expect in this episode:How to acknowledge and address lingering resentments that hinder communicationThe “clean the slate” approach to resetting relationships and moving forwardStrategies for creating alignment and building trust with children of all agesThe importance of focusing on what you want to create in a relationshipHow parents can foster a collaborative environment, even when emotions run high Related Links:RESENTMENT! Understanding, Managing, & Overcoming It: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-066-resentment-understanding-managing-overcoming-it/id1565976964?i=1000569736937Pushing the Reset Button to Solve Problems Collaboratively: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-092-pushing-the-reset-button-to-solve-problems/id1565976964?i=1000593625796How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-138-how-do-i-get-my-kids-to-talk-to-me-4-communication-tools/id1565976964?i=1000636865856Shifting from Nagging to Collaborative Solutions: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-147-shifting-from-nagging-to-collaborative-solutions/id1565976964?i=1000643612846When you Assume… Assume Best Intention by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCC: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/what-don-knotts-can-teach-us-about-communication/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents Sponsors "Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out" – A New ADHD InterventionDo you recognize current ADHD interventions fall short? At DIG Coaching, we've developed a groundbreaking field of engineering called Cognitive Ergonomics from the Inside Out. Discover a fresh approach to ADHD care that looks beyond traditional methods.Learn more at www.cognitive-ergonomics.com

In this conversation, Kristen Pressner, a global leader in people and culture, explores the transformative journey of understanding neurodiversity, especially ADHD. She shares compelling insights on the concept of being a 'brain friend,' emphasizing empathy and strengths over deficits. Kristen offers practical strategies for supporting neurodivergent individuals at home and in the workplace, highlighting the importance of creating inclusive environments. Her personal anecdotes illustrate the impact of compassion and the value of diverse cognitive approaches.

Discover how embracing imperfection and redefining beauty can transform self-image and strengthen family bonds. Bridgett Brown, founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, shares her personal journey and offers fresh insights into representation, self-trust, and self-acceptance. Together, we’ll explore how we can empower parents and children to build confidence, resilience, and a healthier relationship with their bodies and minds! This is an inspiring conversation. Tune in now and find out how you can support yourself and your kids on this journey.What to expect in this episode:How societal ‘beauty’ standards impact self-esteem and emotional well-beingPressures parents face and how to embrace grace and imperfectionNavigating feelings of betrayal by your body and finding peace in life’s changesThe importance of seeing diverse bodies and brains in media and societyPractical ways to focus on the next step in parenting and self-careAbout Bridgett BrownBridgett is the CEO and founder of the Beyond Beauty Project, offering keynotes, workshops, and one-on-one coaching for individuals from preteens to adults. She empowers people to embrace their self-worth beyond societal expectations. With more than two decades of experience as a professional model, Bridgett combines her industry insights with curated studies in holistic health, body image, and eating disorders. She holds certifications as an Integrated Nutrition Health Coach from IIN, a Body Image Coach from the Institute for Body Image, an Eating Disorder Intuitive Therapy Practitioner from EDIT, and a physical Personal Trainer from WITS. An advocate for women's issues, mental health, and body diversity, she is also the host of Beyond Beauty Project: The Podcast. Connect with Bridgett:Website: Beyond Beauty ProjectInstagram: @beyond.beauty.projectLinkedIn: Bridgett Burrick BrownPodcast: Beyond Beauty Project: The PodcastRelated Links:Good Parenting Is Damage Control:https://tinyurl.com/mumeeru8Parenting With Humility: A Mom’s Journey:https://tinyurl.com/wtncdxmkChanging What Kids Believe About Themselves:https://tinyurl.com/4zje4k8pThis Too Shall Pass by Elaine Taylor-Klaus, MCC, CPCChttps://tinyurl.com/7c8b5yuzThis is Your Period in 2 Minuteshttps://tinyurl.com/33fhcra7Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

Could food be the missing piece in your child's development? Learn the answer in this episode with nutrition expert Kelly Dorfman, M.S., who explores the hidden connection between diet and neurodiversity. Listen until the end for practical strategies to support your neurodiverse child through targeted nutrition!What to expect in this episode:The relationship between brain chemistry and nutrition for neurodiverse kidsHow to identify and address potential dietary irritantsThe role of essential nutrients in supporting cognitive function and learningPractical ways to reduce the “toxic load” on the brain and enhance learning potentialWhy parents’ instincts are often a valuable guide in navigating complex challengesAbout Kelly Dorfman, M.S.Kelly is a leading expert on therapeutic nutrition for brain function, energy, and mood. She collaborates with medical professionals to create individualized programs for complex conditions and is known for synthesizing diverse research. Her award-winning book, Cure Your Child With Food, received praise from Publishers Weekly and The Washington Post. Dorfman holds a master’s degree in nutrition/biology, is a licensed nutritionist dietitian, and lives in Maryland with her husband.Connect with Kelly:Website: https://kellydorfman.com/ Related Links:Two Articles written by Elaine about Going Gluten Free https://impactparents.com/books/going-gluten-free/Elaine's Two Attention Magazine Articles about Very Complex Kids with ADHD & Autism https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/adhd-autism-attention-articlesArticles by Kelly Dorfman on the ImpactParents.com websitehttps://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/is-gluten-taking-the-blame-for-an-herbicid-problem/ https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/best-kept-secret-for-treating-adhd-vitamin-m/Kelly Dorfman’s Book: Cure Your Child With Food https://impactparents.com/books/cure-child-food-hidden-connection-nutrition-childhood-ailments/Other Articleshttps://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/complex-kids-with-no-clear-diagnosis/https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/school-success-with-less-stress https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/a-healthy-approach-to-adhd/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

What if perfectionism is actually holding you back? In this episode, Elaine and Diane discuss how to shift your focus from impossible standards to steady improvement. Learn why striving for “perfect” often backfires and how you can find more freedom and growth by choosing progress instead.Here's what to expect in this episode:The different forms of perfectionismImportance of a growth mindset vs. a fixed mindset in parentingStrategies for helping kids overcome the fear of failureHow parents’ own perfectionist tendencies can influence their children’s behaviorBenefits of celebrating progress and small victories Related Links:Recovering Perfectionist Article: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/im-a-recovering-perfectionist-want-to-join-me/Gremlin Article: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/model-self-respect-for-your-kids-tame-the-bully-within/Growth vs. Fixed Mindset Article: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/growth-vs-fixed-mindset-in-kids/Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-114-success-curiosity-the-coach-approach/id1565976964?i=1000616932094Asking For Help: Why Is It So Difficult?: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-129-asking-for-help-why-is-it-so-difficult/id1565976964?i=1000629290954Trusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-153-trusting-complex-kids-helping-them-trust-us/id1565976964?i=1000648999971 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

If you're living with ADHD or love someone who is, you know it's more than just forgetting keys. This episode dives deep into the emotional realities of ADHD with Ari Tuckman, Psy.D., exploring self-acceptance, family dynamics, and the power of community. Get ready for a conversation that finally "gets it." Listen now!Here's what to expect in this episode:A deep dive into the emotional landscape of ADHDPractical strategies for managing ADHD in daily lifeThe significance of community support and connection for individuals and families affected by ADHDGuidance for individuals with ADHD on recognizing their own values and strengthsValuable information for individuals with ADHD, their families, and anyone seeking to understand neurodiversity betterAbout Ari Tuckman, Psy.D.Ari Tuckman, Psy.D., is a psychologist, author, and expert in ADHD, couples therapy, and sexual health. A recognized thought leader, he has contributed to major media outlets such as CNN, NPR, and The New York Times. Dr. Tuckman is a former board member and conference committee co-chair for CHADD, the national ADHD advocacy organization, and he received its 2023 Hall of Fame award. He maintains a private practice in West Chester, Pa.Connect with Ari Tuckman, Psy.D.Website: Ari TuckmanPodcast: More Attention, Less Deficit PodcastRelated LinksWhat Support do ADHD’ers Need? Book Smart or Street Smart?:https://tinyurl.com/mr37erj2From Undiagnosed ADHD to Dope Black Dad:https://tinyurl.com/2hj4adbvShame Resilience: A Key Component in ADHD Wellness:https://tinyurl.com/ynbys4xaParadox: High Achieving Adults with ADHD:https://tinyurl.com/5n7avywaMedical Bias vs ADHD: The History of a Smear Campaign:https://tinyurl.com/mpup4ktmBlack Woman Psychotherapist & Coach on ADHD, Resilience & Community:https://tinyurl.com/3jjxmb4hAri's blogs on ImpactParents: https://impactparents.com/author/ari-tuckman/Annual International Conference on ADHD: https://chadd.org/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentsLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

Parenting in today’s world can feel more complex than ever, especially for those raising neurodivergent kids. In this episode, we engage in an inspiring conversation with Peter Fitzpatrick, the co-founder of Fawn Friends, to explore innovative ways parents can cultivate emotional trust, safety, and intelligence in their children. Tune into this episode to discover fresh perspectives on enhancing your child’s emotional and social development.Here is what to expect in this episodeHow technology can create safe spaces for children to express themselvesThe role of emotional trust and how it bridges the gap between parents and neurodivergent childrenInsights from groundbreaking research on how to improve social communication in kidsThe power of “putting truth first” and how parental regulation impacts a child’s emotional well-beingPractical ways to balance screen time with meaningful connections in modern parentingAbout Peter FitzpatrickPeter is the co-founder and CEO of Fawn, a company dedicated to supporting families raising neurodiverse children through innovative technology. Drawing from his personal experience growing up with ADHD and navigating a challenging home environment, Peter has channeled his journey into creating Fawn's Magical Companion, an AI-driven, cuddly tool designed to foster emotional connection and social development.Connect with Peter:Website: https://www.fawnfriends.com/pages/robot-for-adhdLinkedIn: Peter Joseph Fitzpatrick | Fawn FriendsInstagram: @impossible.creator | Fawn Friends  Related Links:The Power of Emotional Intelligence in Parenting:https://tinyurl.com/5dax89wpInternational Conference on ADHD 2022 Part 1: Emotional Awareness and Insights about ADHD https://tinyurl.com/5xe6meyjAutism & Anxiety In Girls:https://tinyurl.com/4vsxshbbAutism, PDA & Combative Behaviors: https://tinyurl.com/mpaetzceParent Time Spent Researchhttps://tinyurl.com/bdhphu82Yale Research:https://tinyurl.com/9f2dryhkCerulean Chronicles by TJ Klune | Kindle and PaperbackGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift. Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

We're celebrating 200 episodes of the Parenting with Impact podcast with a deep dive into what it really takes to create lasting change. In this special episode, we explore the first step of our proven Impact Model: Take Aim. Learn how to cut through the noise and pinpoint the one area you want to focus on to achieve actionable change. Tune in now to reduce stress, increase family harmony, and start seeing real progress! Here's what to expect in this episode:Why “taking aim” is essential for managing complex parenting challengesHow to distinguish between macro and micro goalsImportance of identifying what change you want to see rather than defaulting to solutionsActionable ways to reduce parenting stress and overwhelmHow small, targeted efforts can lead to meaningful progressRelated Links:Video Tip: Take Aim: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/take-aim/Are You Stuck in Informationland?:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-123-are-you-stuck-in-informationland/id1565976964?i=1000624601674It’s All About Control: Are You Ready?:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-135-its-all-about-control-are-you-ready/id1565976964?i=1000634092094When It Feels Like It’s Just Too Much:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-161-when-it-feels-like-its-just-too-much/id1565976964?i=1000654881099The Parent Paradox: Avoid 'Fix-It Mode' for Better Problem-Solving: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-172-the-parent-paradox-avoid-fix-it-mode-for/id1565976964?i=1000663157748The 3A's: A Framework for Parenting Complex Kids: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep-185-the-3as-a-framework-for-parenting-complex-kids/id1565976964?i=1000674098054Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents

Ryan Wexelblatt, known as the ADHD Dude, is a licensed clinical social worker with over 20 years in special education, specializing in strategies for kids with ADHD. He discusses empowering resilience by encouraging children to tolerate discomfort without over-accommodation. The conversation emphasizes fostering independence through visual aids and patience, while also addressing the importance of social skills training. Wexelblatt highlights the communal support necessary for raising children, reminding us that a village truly helps in nurturing their potential.

Bedtime battles for younger kids, sleep schedules for older kids, and morning chaos for everyone are some challenging transitions for parents and kids alike! In this episode of Parenting with Impact, Elaine Taylor-Klaus and Diane Dempster return to tackle sleep challenges in part two of their discussion. They explore how parents can apply the coach approach to foster collaboration, problem-solving, and resilience during these tricky times. From addressing executive function challenges to experimenting with creative wake-up solutions, this episode is packed with practical insights to help families transition smoothly in (and out) of sleep routines.Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Why transitions like going to bed and waking up are especially hard for kidsHow to identify the real problem behind sleep struggles and where to beginThe importance of collaboration: involving your kids in finding solutionsMindset shifts: moving from “won’t” to “can’t” and assuming best intentionsCreative and effective experiments to address sleep and wake-up challengesRelated Links:Articles by Ari Tuckman, Roberto Olivardía, Dr. David Pomeroy, and Dr. Lisa Shives on the ImpactParents.com websitehttps://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/it-all-starts-with-sleep/ https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/kid-with-adhd-cant-sleep/ https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/child-need-sleep-doctor/ https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/adhd-sleep-trouble/ An article written by Elaine, "Why can't I put myself to sleep?" http://touchstonecoaching.com/blog/2010/3/15/why-cant-i-put-myself-to-bed.html EP196: Why Sleep Is SO Hard for Neurospicy People (& what to DO about it)https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/ep196-why-sleep-is-so-hard-for-neurospicy-people-what/id1565976964?i=1000683159184Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools for Parents at https://impactparents.com/gift.Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparentsX: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents