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Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Monika Roots about talking to your teen about pornography.  How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship.  https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Dr. Monika highlights the importance of ongoing communication and guidance when it comes to helping children navigate the digital world safely.Dr. Monika stresses the significance of acknowledging vulnerability, offering genuine apologies, and making efforts to mend connections. By establishing trust, children are more likely to approach their parents with concerns or questions about online experiences.Dr. Monika discusses the importance of being vigilant for signs of mental health changes that could indicate exposure to harmful online content or technology addiction. Related Links: Website:  BendHealth.comLet Go, Control Freak Parent!:  https://impactparents.com/let-go-control-freak-parent5 Steps to Settle Family Politics:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/5-steps-to-settle-family-politics/Confident Parenting – Why Bother?:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/confident-parenting/5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/A Parent’s Guide to Sexting, Texting, and Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/Handling Conflict with Complex Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kidsIPPF Report:  https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdfLearning Network Newsletter:  https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdfSurgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbOpinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbTeaching Kids to be Responsible with Technology:  https://youtu.be/9_NbAkoaZjkIntern'l Conf on ADHD 2022 Takeaway Part 2: Technology & Gaming Research:  https://youtu.be/3OmacXsemNc?si=Avmr_v_c9YIBBVWnTech Overwhelm and the Metaverse:  https://youtu.be/HXN4ShSNbvwSurgeon General Warning on Social Media: How should parents respond?:  https://youtu.be/H67o7CMioCM Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Paul Simon about risks and prevention for children watching adult material online. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:John Paul explains setting controls and initiating early and ongoing conversations about technology use are crucial steps towards fostering a safe digital environment for children.John Paul and Elaine underscore the dual nature of technology, portraying it as both a privilege and a responsibility.John Paul highlights the importance of engaging in complex and continuous dialogues with children about internet safety, sexuality, and instilling values around technology.  Related Links:Website:  https://www.nj4sbergenhub.org5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/A Parent’s Guide to Sexting, Texting, and Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/a-parents-guide-to-sexting-texting-and-teens/Handling Conflict with Complex Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kidsIPPF Report:  https://www.ippf.org/sites/default/files/2016-05/ippf_cse_report_eng_web.pdfVAW Learning Network:  https://gbvlearningnetwork.ca/our-work/issuebased_newsletters/issue-39/Learning-Network-Issue-39.pdfSurgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cbOpinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb  Books:Tap, Click, Read: Growing Readers in a World of Screens:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1119091896/?tag=im0ea3-20iRules: What Every Tech-Healthy Family Needs to Know about Selfies, Sexting, Gaming, and Growing up:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/B00FWT9J1U/?tag=im0ea3-20The Gaming Overload Workbook: A Teen's Guide to Balancing Screen Time, Video Games, and Real Life:  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1684035511/?tag=im0ea3-20The Parent's Guide to Parenting in the Digital Age: An Easy Reference Tool to Support and Empower Parents and Caregivers (The Digital Parent's Toolkit Series):  https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1547146362/?tag=im0ea3-20Raising a Child Responsibly in a Sexually Permissive World:  https://impactparents.com/books/raising-child-responsibly-sexually-permissive-world/ Connect with John Paul Simon:Website:  https://www.nj4sbergenhub.org LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/john-paul-simon-lmft-acs-480237238/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Dr. Supreet Mann about potential psychological and emotional impacts of exposure to pornographic material on children and teens.  How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Dr. Supreet explains it is crucial for parents to engage in open and honest conversations with their teenagers about pornography, consent, and healthy sexual relationships. Creating a safe space for dialogue can help address any misconceptions and provide guidance.Dr. Supreet and Elaine agree parents and caregivers should seek out educational resources and tools to facilitate discussions about pornography and its impact.Dr. Supreet and Elaine explain it's essential to understand that curiosity about sexuality and exposure to explicit content does not make teenagers "bad kids." Parents should refrain from shaming or judgment and instead focus on guiding them towards healthy choices and understanding.Related Links:Research:  CommonSenseMedia.org/ResearchReport:  www.commonsensemedia.org/research/teens-and-pornographyWhat To Do if Your Young Child Sees Pornography:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/what-to-do-if-your-young-child-sees-pornographyTalking with Teens and Preteens About Pornography:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/articles/talking-with-teens-and-preteens-about-pornographyTeens Are Watching Pornography, and It's Time to Talk About It:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/kids-action/articles/teens-are-watching-pornography-and-its-time-to-talk-about-itFull Report:  https://www.commonsensemedia.org/sites/default/files/research/report/2022-teens-and-pornography-final-web.pdfSurgeon General Calls for Warning Labels on Social Media Platforms:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/health/surgeon-general-social-media-warning-label.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb  Opinion:  Surgeon General:  Social Media Platforms Need A Health Warning:  https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/17/opinion/social-media-health-warning.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare&sgrp=c-cb 5 Tips for Having Embarrassing Conversations with Your Kids:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/5-tips-for-having-embarrassing-conversations-with-your-kids/Preventing Risky Behaviors in Kids with ADHD:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/preventing-risky-behaviors-in-kids-with-adhd/Parents are Missing Link to Empower Kids with ADHD:  https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/empower-kids-with-adhd/When Parenting is Scary: Parenting Kids with Depression, Anxiety, and More:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/when-parenting-is-scary-parenting-kids-with-depression-anxiety-and-more/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents X (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss motivation. How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships]Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communication Here is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane explain rather than solely emphasizing external standards, encourage children to tap into their intrinsic motivation and values.Building a foundation of positivity and encouragement in relationships can strengthen trust and communication.Elaine and Diane discuss employing tools such as showing compassion, asking open-ended questions, and acknowledging positive aspects first when offering feedback. Related Links:A Raccoon on Meth:  https://georgemahood.substack.com/p/a-raccoon-on-meth3 Step Method to ACE Communication with Complex Kids & Teens:  https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/3-steps-to-ace-communication-with-complex-kids-teens/How Do I Get My Kids to Talk to Me? 4 Communication Tools:  https://youtu.be/z_sfOuGaEC0Success! Curiosity & the Coach-Approach Transformed the Tone of Her Home:  https://youtu.be/CcHgigVXwFkConnection & Compassion: Parenting Children & Teens in Difficult Times:  https://youtu.be/0pZJhzfTeVUIt's No Mystery: Why Kids Resist Help & How to Change It:  https://youtu.be/LMHWwk0IpiQThe 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Home: Part 1:  https://youtu.be/VpRSaIExzQ4?si=n7OlRbOS9uQXU5XZThe 4 Sources of Conflict in YOUR Home: Part 2:  https://youtu.be/T38c20219ho?si=4TuluF6mgj6j_kTRParenting ADHD Now summer summit -- Encore Package:  https://impactparents.securechkout.com/ParentingADHDNowEncoreR?utm_campaign=imp-purchase&utm_source=show-notes&utm_medium=podcast&utm_content=parenting-adhd-now-summit-2024 Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparents Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent @impactparent LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/ @impactparents Twitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents @impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

John Willson, MS, LRT/CTRS, is Executive Director for SOAR, the world’s premier adventure program serving youth with ADHD (Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder) and LD (Learning Disabilities). SOAR’s outdoor adventure-based programs provide academic instruction, experiential education, and life skills development for youth and young adults ages 8-25. SOAR stands for Success-Oriented, Achievements Realized. With a passion for fostering resilience and nurturing strengths in neurodiverse communities, John is a respected advocate among those who serve individuals with learning differences and attention challenges. Learn more at soarnc.org.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with John Willson about ADHD and outdoor learning.How to Talk to Your Complex Kids [and Other Important Relationships] Strained communication can create a hot mess of misunderstanding and conflict -- whether it's with your kids or any significant relationship in your life. In this FREE guide, you'll discover your role in communication dynamics and 10 simple but effective ways to help you build more trust and calm in your communication with your complex kids -- and any relationship. https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/communication-tools?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=communicationHere is what to expect on this week’s show:John emphasized the effectiveness of outdoor experiential learning in nurturing success and coping mechanisms for kids with ADHD John discusses recognizing and celebrating children's achievements, big or small, can create a positive cycle of confidence and growth, essential for long-term success.John stresses the use of metaphors in the learning process was highlighted as a powerful tool for children to understand and apply lessons from outdoor activities to real-life situations.Related Links:Website: https://soarnc.orgOutdoor Adventure Camp Experiences for Kids with ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/outdoor-adventure-camp-experiences-for-kids-with-adhd/10 Easy Steps to a Tension-Less Home: https://impactparents.com/blog/anxiety/10-easy-steps-to-a-tension-less-home/How to Manage Them, Me and Their ADHD: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/parenting-with-adhd/Motivation Myths & the Magic of P.I.N.C.H.: https://youtu.be/2TkKOif9LrU?si=gJEd8lpgqd7KUd_PWhat Support do ADHD'ers Need? Book Smart or Street Smart?: https://youtu.be/jzaRjHLspjsTrusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_UThe Surprising Challenges of a Strengths-Based Approach: https://youtu.be/QmXPUxNRCGAConnect with John:Website: soarnc.orgGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The sense of urgency in parenting often leads to reactive rather than creative problem-solving, posing unique challenges for both parents and children. Elaine and Diane, drawing from their personal experiences and insights, underscore the importance of recognizing and managing the signs of reactivity, such as hypervigilance or catastrophizing. Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Elaine and Diane as they discuss problem-solving.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/calm-confident-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=calmHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Elaine and Diane understand as parents you must recognize when you are in a reactive state and make a conscious effort to shift towards a calmer mindset before addressing the issue at hand. This allows for more thoughtful and effective problem-solving.Practice pausing in interactions with your children to allow for reflection and emotional regulation. This space enables both parents and children to respond thoughtfully rather than react impulsively.Elaine and Diane stress guiding your children through moments of discomfort instead of immediately rescuing them. By helping them navigate challenging emotions, you empower them to develop emotional self-regulation skills for the future.LinksBeyond Mean Girls: Parenting and Dignity with Rosalind Wiseman: https://youtu.be/GfmkH5HkaS4Effective Agreements: https://youtu.be/1Sf6G37JW80Rules, Boundaries, & Agreements: Balancing Freedom with Responsibility: https://youtu.be/gUQdne8YliMRecognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775s5 Steps to Settle Family Politics: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/5-steps-to-settle-family-politics/Handling Conflicts with Complex Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/handling-conflict-with-complex-kidsWelcome to Parenting With Impact: https://youtu.be/FykSBnaWXhkGet your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsTwitter: https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Parenting With Impact with Elaine Taylor-Klaus Episode 171 Are You Unflappable? Adapting to Parent Stress, Grief, Change and More with Renee ZavislakRenee Zavislak, the host of Psycho Therapist: The Podcast, is a licensed psychotherapist, coach, and nutritionist in private practice; she specializes in treating complex trauma, high conflict families, and anxiety. Renée's homebase is Sonoma County, California, where she lives with her husband and son, and she travels to see clients in Los Angeles, New York City, and San Diego. In addition to weekly therapy sessions, Renée works via multi-day intensives for individuals, couples, and groups that focus on holistic healing. When she isn't working or cooking, she can be found fawning over her Canine-American soulmate, Chili.Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Renee Zavislak about parental stress and grief.Ten Tips for Calm and Confident Parenting of Complex KidsParenting complex kids can be difficult, even mind-numbing at times. In this FREE Guide you’ll find clear, quick guidance to help you calm the chaos and more confidently prepare your child for greater independence and success! Learn techniques parents all over the world are using to reduce friction and (believe it!) rediscover the joy of parenting.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/calm-confident-tipsheet?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=calmHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Renee emphasizes the significance of being comfortable with making mistakes and apologizing to children. Renee highlights the importance of catching kids being good and shifting the focus towards desired behaviors rather than solely addressing negative ones.Renee advocates for parents to approach parenting with wonderment rather than expectation. Connect with Renee:Website:  https://www.reneezavislaktherapy.com/Podcast:  https://www.psychotherapistthepodcast.com/Instagram:  https://www.instagram.com/psycho_therapist_renee/Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/giftConnect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/@impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Marquita Davis, KinderCare’s Chief Academic Officer, discusses the crucial role parents play as a child's first and forever teacher. The podcast explores early childhood education, supporting parents of children with exceptionalities, parent-provider partnerships in child development, and the importance of self-care for parents raising children with challenges like ADHD and autism. It emphasizes the impact parents have on a child's development and the significance of community support.

Listen to this Parenting With Impact episode with Rosalind Wiseman about parenting and dignity.Top 12 Tips To Help Your Complex KidsGot complex kids? Yeah, so do we. Parenting a complex kid can be frustrating, overwhelming, and isolating. It can also be incredibly rewarding -- with the right help and guidance! This FREE insider's guide   from the experts at ImpactParents includes our top 12 tips to help you create a calm, peaceful home and guide your kids to become more independent every day.UTM: https://impactparents.pages.ontraport.net/top-twelve-tips-bonus?utm_campaign=Podcast&utm_source=episode&utm_medium=cta&utm_content=12-tipsHere is what to expect on this week’s show:Rosalind and Elaine discuss how technology and the Internet have changed parent-child communication, highlighting the struggle to find a balance between control and creating a safe environment. Elaine and Rosalind talk about the difficulties parents encounter when communicating with their children, particularly when discussing topics like social dynamics and adolescent development. Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of supporting children and families during tough situations; they discuss treating children with dignity, highlighting the importance of valuing a person's inherent worth.Elaine and Rosalind emphasize the importance of meeting complex kids where they are, understanding their underlying motivations, and respecting their agency in parent-child relationships. Related Links:The Anxious Generation (book): https://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0593655036/?tag=im0ea3-20Improve Relationships with Complex Kids and Teens: https://impactparents.com/blog/complex-kids/improve-relationships-with-complex-kids-and-teensrosalindwiseman.com Redirecting Your Child with ADHD Without Judgment: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/redirecting-adhd-without-judgment/Six Things to STOP Saying to your ADHD Kids: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/six-things-stop-saying-to-your-adhd-kids/How to Pick Your Battles to Achieve Family Peace: https://impactparents.com/blog/adhd/how-to-pick-your-battles-to-achieve-family-peace/ADHD & Depression, ADHD & Anxiety, and All of the Above: https://youtu.be/EsVPRm9RVD4?si=lj3YuBucpK3A6cmNParenting Anxious Childhood Emotions: https://youtu.be/ff5hXtdem5YWhat Story Are You Telling Yourself?: https://youtu.be/a3Pu8irWDR4Recognizing and Managing Stress Triggers as Parents: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y42_YS3w3Is&t=775sUnderstanding Learning Styles: A Curiosity-Driven Approach: https://youtu.be/za5bG6DuN7MTrusting Complex Kids & Helping Them Trust Us: https://youtu.be/ucPpgibyc_UConnect with Rosalind:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/rosalindwiseman/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/rosalind.wiseman.9LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosalind-wiseman-0a369873TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@rosalindwiseman2?_t=8ejF9rJAgtc&_r=1Get your FREE copy of 12 Key Coaching Tools https://impactparents.com/gift Connect with Impact Parents:Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/impactparents/ @impactparentsFacebook: https://www.facebook.com/ImpactParent@impactparentLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/company/impactparents/@impactparentsX (fka Twitter): https://twitter.com/ImpactParents@impactparentsLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Elaine and Diane discuss parents modeling healthy tech habits, importance of open talks with kids about online activities, mindfulness in tech use, and Surgeon General's call for warning labels on social media platforms regarding youth mental health. They highlight the challenges faced by young people in the digital age, risks of excessive social media consumption, and strategies for responsible tech parenting.