The holidays can be super stressful for queers, which is why Gabe and Chris are back for a special episode full of tips for how to stay safe, sane, and sexually active over the season with the help of Sniffies! First up, RuPaul’s Drag Race icon Kandy Muse spills some very hot tea about her most outrageous Sniffies experiences while touring the globe. Then, for anyone thinking of throwing their own holiday party, the co-founder of NYC’s beloved Papi Juice nightlife and art collective, Oscar Nñ, shares the lessons he’s learned creating positive, uplifting spaces for QTPOC to come together over the past 11 years. Finally, Gabe heads over to Animal in Brooklyn on the wildest gay night of the year - Thanksgiving Eve - to hear hot and heartwarming home-for-the-holidays hookup stories.    Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife   Guests featured in this episode:   Kandy Muse instagram.com/thekandymuse https://thekandymuse.com/   Oscar Nn instagram.com/oscarnn instagram.com/papijuicebk soundcloud.com/oscarnn   Animal instagram.com/animal.nycSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Bobby Box, a submissive pleasure educator, and Dominion Onyx, a dominant pleasure educator, dive deep into the kink world. They discuss how bullying in queer youth impacts sexual identities and kinks. Personal stories reveal a journey from trauma to empowerment through consensual domination and humiliation play. The duo also explore the reclamation of language, emphasizing trust and communication in redefining terms like 'fag.' Listeners will gain insights into the dynamics of kink relationships and the transformative power of pleasure.

What does a queer utopia look like in 2069? Past guests share their dreams of a world where diversity is celebrated and stigma fades away. The conversation dives into community, consent, and how technology could revolutionize queer interactions. Insights on societal shifts, innovative social spaces, and stunning personal anecdotes paint a vivid picture of hope. Expect a blend of optimism and realism as diverse voices weigh in on what the future can hold for the queer community.

Gabe, an expert in couples cruising dynamics, and Chris, a relationship navigator in sexual adventures, explore the thrilling world of couples who cruise together. They discuss managing jealousy and the unique experiences of attending sex parties as a duo. Insights on the ups and downs of non-monogamous relationships highlight the importance of communication and trust. Plus, they share entertaining stories from Brooklyn's hottest queer hangout, revealing the humorous and sometimes awkward moments of hooking up with couples.

Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”   Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife   Guests featured in this episode:   BATEBANDIT XL x.com/batebanditxl   BBXL BATE BROS bbxlbatebros.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Tomik Dash, a sex work guru known for enhancing intimate communication, joins author Dale Corvino, who has documented his sexual journey through decades of sex journals. They discuss vocal intimacy and how it can transform sexual experiences, emphasizing the interplay between verbal and nonverbal cues. Dale shares insights from his new book, inspired by his journaling, focusing on authentic narratives in queer storytelling. Together, they explore how effective communication can unlock deeper connections and promote healthier sexual encounters.

Cruising in person or on the apps is never easy, but trans masculine people often have a more difficult time in both spaces. In this probing episode, Gabe and Chris talk to filmmaker Jules Rosskam about his new documentary DESIRE LINES, which explores the sexual lives and histories of gay trans men. Then Transferno co-organizer Santos J. Arce stops by to talk about his cruising experiences and what every curious cis guy needs to know to before hitting up gay trans men for dates or hookups.   Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife   Guests featured in this episode: Jules Rosskam instagram.com/julesrosskamfilms www.desirelinesfilm.com Donald C. Shorter Jr instagram.com/donxmenSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Puppy Trainer Chipper and Leather Boy Donald explore radical kink practices, queer sex communities, HIV prevention, impact play in BDSM, and the fluidity of roles in the leather scene. They discuss personal journeys, safety, consent, digital networking, and the therapeutic aspects of kink dynamics.

NYC's famed butt doctor Evan Goldstein and LA's acclaimed dick doctor Joshua Gonzalez dive into the world of bedroom biohacking, discussing spunk supplements, bussy botox, penis fillers, and more. They explore sexual health issues like erectile dysfunction, anal health, safe sex practices, and myths surrounding sexual anatomy. The episode emphasizes the importance of seeking experienced healthcare providers and enhancing sexual health for improved relationships and overall well-being.

This week, Xavier Blanco, an escort and adult content creator, shares his journey from childhood fantasies to the realities of sex work. He candidly discusses the hard work behind the scenes and what newcomers should know about hiring sex workers. The conversation challenges societal stigma and highlights the emotional labor involved in the profession. Xavier also emphasizes the importance of safety, health practices like PrEP, and the diverse experiences within the industry, all while keeping things lighthearted with some humorous banter.