

Sniffies' Cruising Confessions
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Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a second season — and this time, we’re going deeper. Season 2 brings a wider range of voices, stories, and perspectives on queer sex and cruising. Hosts Gabe and Chris are diving into trending topics, offering practical advice, and sitting down with a rotating cast of queer celebs and sexperts for conversations that are equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot. This year, the show moves beyond NYC to explore what cruising looks like in international cities and off the beaten path, highlighting the diversity of queer experiences. Along the way, they’re also tackling serious topics to help keep the Sniffies community safe — from harm reduction and chemsex education to the latest in PrEP and protection, plus tips for cruising smart in a shifting political landscape. And for the first time ever, the podcast opens the floor to you. Listeners can now call in and share their wildest cruising stories, which Gabe and Chris will react to in a brand-new segment at the end of each episode. More stories. More sex. More confessions. Season 2 starts now — just push play.
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Jul 31, 2025 • 31min
Pop Culture Free-For-All with Ira Madison III
Historically, pop culture has been so important to LGBTQ people, not only because we often experience sexual awakenings to figures in the media we consume, but also because so many of our favorite films, shows, and records have been created by queer people. In this episode, Gabe and Chris have a freewheeling discussion about pop culture, erotic discovery, porn parodies, cruising and Buffy slashfic, with our favorite podcaster and author: Ira Madison III. Then, a cruising confession from a horny French slut has Gabe and Chris saying “sacre bleu!” Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Ira Madison III: https://www.instagram.com/irathethird/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 24, 2025 • 43min
Sex, Drugs, and Harm Reduction
Joss Barton, a poet and performance artist exploring the lives of trans women, shares her compelling journey through chemsex and its intersection with identity. She reflects on her transformative experiences with drugs and sex, highlighting the stigma faced by trans women. Joss also discusses the humorous mishaps of chemsex, like an unforgettable zip tie incident. Alongside a harm reduction expert, they tackle essential tips for safer substance use and the role of community support in navigating these intimate and sometimes perilous spaces.

Jul 17, 2025 • 35min
The PrEPisode
The 2012 FDA approval of PrEP as a tool for HIV prevention gave HIV-negative queers anxiety-free access to the sexual freedoms of the 1970s. But writer Daniel Sanchez Torres says PrEP didn’t exactly make things easier for HIV positive folks who still face stigma, rejection, and fetishization from HIV negative folks. In this episode Chris, Gabe and Daniel discuss the varied impacts of PrEP and U=U on their sex and cruising experiences. Then, a listener shares a cruising confession about an encounter that has our hosts very, very afraid… Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Daniel Sanchez-Torres: https://www.instagram.com/sup_dst/ supdst.com supdst.com/newsletter Everything Matters Press https://www.instagram.com/everythingmatters.press/ https://everythingmatters.press/shop/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 10, 2025 • 39min
9-1-1? There’s a Woman In the Dark Room!
It seems like every year there’s another nasty social media debate about the presence of women in gay bars and darkrooms. But Gabe and Chris are sick of gay bros who think gay bars should be exclusively gay boy spaces. In this hilariously filthy episode, Crush and Frankie, a bisexual M-F content creator couple who go cruising together, make a case for why women should be welcomed, not shunned, in gay bars, and yes, even sex spaces, then offer tips and tricks for respectful interactions on both sides. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Crush & Frankie: https://www.instagram.com/crushinfrankie/ Music: Django Stewart: instagram.com/djangjames/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 3, 2025 • 33min
Cruising 201 with Professor Pig
Can cruising actually lead us towards queer liberation? Professor João Florencio thinks so, and this week he’s joining Gabe and Chris to talk about the politics of cruising, and offer tips for how to cruise while the world is entering its fascist flop era. He’ll also talk about what cruising was like four centuries ago, the connections between Gen-Z sex-phobia and conservative gays like Andrew Sullivan, and what he really thinks about RFK Jr.’s “War on Poppers”. A provocative masterclass on cruising with one of the world’s foremost sexpigs and scholars. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: João Florêncio: instagram.com/detournement___/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 26, 2025 • 35min
Sex on the Beach
Join actor and comedian Joseph Lymous, known for his roles in 'The Other Two' and 'Awkwafina's Nora from Queens', as he shares his love for nude beach cruising! He reveals hilarious tales and personal stories about the liberating joy of embracing nudity. Get practical tips on etiquette and navigating intimate encounters, plus insights on body confidence and social interactions in these vibrant spaces. Discover how to enhance your nude beach experience while enjoying the sun and community!

Jun 19, 2025 • 34min
Cruising for Daddies
Hey Daddy! In this week’s episode, Chris and Gabe interview Judson Morrow, the co-host of the Dads And Daddies podcast, about what it means to be a daddy, how PrEP played a role in igniting the daddy craze, and how Judson navigates his own daddy/son relationships. He’ll also offer expert tips on cruising, dating, and hooking up that both daddies and sons can use. Then, one of our listeners shares a jaw-dropping cruising confession about a daddy encounter in a secluded park bathroom. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Judson Morrow: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod/ Music: Chris Conde: chrisconde.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 12, 2025 • 40min
Locked & Loving It
In this insightful discussion, Peter Cage, an artist and lifestyle submissive known for hosting NYC's kink events, and Jasper Reid, a kink enthusiast focused on rubber and power dynamics, delve into the intriguing world of chastity. They explore how this fetish enhances sexual pleasure and fosters deeper connections, while sharing personal anecdotes about the complexities of BDSM relationships. With a touch of humor, they also highlight the importance of community spaces and the evolving dynamics of kink culture. Tune in for a captivating exploration of desires and connections!

Jun 5, 2025 • 51sec
Welcome Back to Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions
Your favorite queer sex podcast is BACK for more hot and hilarious conversations with cruisers, kinksters, and for the first time: our listeners! Every week on Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions, hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso explore the sublime world of queer sex, cruising and relationships. Premiering June 12th! Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 12, 2024 • 42min
The Holiday Special With Kandy Muse
The holidays can be super stressful for queers, which is why Gabe and Chris are back for a special episode full of tips for how to stay safe, sane, and sexually active over the season with the help of Sniffies! First up, RuPaul’s Drag Race icon Kandy Muse spills some very hot tea about her most outrageous Sniffies experiences while touring the globe. Then, for anyone thinking of throwing their own holiday party, the co-founder of NYC’s beloved Papi Juice nightlife and art collective, Oscar Nñ, shares the lessons he’s learned creating positive, uplifting spaces for QTPOC to come together over the past 11 years. Finally, Gabe heads over to Animal in Brooklyn on the wildest gay night of the year - Thanksgiving Eve - to hear hot and heartwarming home-for-the-holidays hookup stories. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Kandy Muse instagram.com/thekandymuse https://thekandymuse.com/ Oscar Nn instagram.com/oscarnn instagram.com/papijuicebk soundcloud.com/oscarnn Animal instagram.com/animal.nycSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.