Sniffies' Cruising Confessions Heaux Church
Oct 30, 2025
Brandon Kyle Goodman, a writer and sexual wellness advocate known for his role in Big Mouth and the podcast Tell Me Something Messy, brings a unique perspective to the table. He discusses his theatrical show, Heaux Church, reimagining a sex-positive space for queer individuals to overcome religious trauma. Topics include the intersection of religion and sexual shame, the importance of communication in intimate experiences, and the power of vulnerability on stage. Expect vibrant anecdotes, including a wild Madrid Pride story, and insights on reclaiming pleasure and autonomy.
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Nostalgic Format Lowers Sexual Shame
- Brandon Kyle Goodman reframes adult sex education using nostalgic children's-show aesthetics to remove shame.
- That framing makes discussions about bodies and desire feel safe and normal.
Rebuilding Faith After Familial Rupture
- Brandon's ruptured relationship with his mother after her return to fire-and-brimstone faith sparked Ho Church.
- The show invites audiences to question inherited teachings and keep what serves them.
Curate The Vibe, Don't Wing It
- Curate your sexual environment intentionally: set mood, scents, and aftercare like a cookie.
- Avoid letting sex happen by chance; design the vibe you want for better experiences.
