

Sniffies' Cruising Confessions
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Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a third season — and this time, we’re getting very, very intimate. Season 3 finds our hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso chopping it up with their favorite queer comedians, cruising experts, porn stars and pastors, sharing personal stories and practical sex advice in conversations that are equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot. This season, Gabe and Chris tackle timely topics like AI, religious homophobia, disability and access, trans and non-binary approaches to cruising and sex, as well as tips for cruising smart in a shifting political landscape. Plus, the wildest, wettest, weirdest cruising confessions you’ve ever heard, from guests like Ryheim Shabazz, Jay Jurden, James Tom, Brandon Kyle Goodman, Leo Herrera, and of course, our listeners. Think you can squeeze in a third season? Just push play.
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Jul 10, 2025 • 39min
9-1-1? There’s a Woman In the Dark Room!
It seems like every year there’s another nasty social media debate about the presence of women in gay bars and darkrooms. But Gabe and Chris are sick of gay bros who think gay bars should be exclusively gay boy spaces. In this hilariously filthy episode, Crush and Frankie, a bisexual M-F content creator couple who go cruising together, make a case for why women should be welcomed, not shunned, in gay bars, and yes, even sex spaces, then offer tips and tricks for respectful interactions on both sides. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Crush & Frankie: https://www.instagram.com/crushinfrankie/ Music: Django Stewart: instagram.com/djangjames/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jul 3, 2025 • 33min
Cruising 201 with Professor Pig
Can cruising actually lead us towards queer liberation? Professor João Florencio thinks so, and this week he’s joining Gabe and Chris to talk about the politics of cruising, and offer tips for how to cruise while the world is entering its fascist flop era. He’ll also talk about what cruising was like four centuries ago, the connections between Gen-Z sex-phobia and conservative gays like Andrew Sullivan, and what he really thinks about RFK Jr.’s “War on Poppers”. A provocative masterclass on cruising with one of the world’s foremost sexpigs and scholars. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: João Florêncio: instagram.com/detournement___/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Jun 26, 2025 • 35min
Sex on the Beach
Join actor and comedian Joseph Lymous, known for his roles in 'The Other Two' and 'Awkwafina's Nora from Queens', as he shares his love for nude beach cruising! He reveals hilarious tales and personal stories about the liberating joy of embracing nudity. Get practical tips on etiquette and navigating intimate encounters, plus insights on body confidence and social interactions in these vibrant spaces. Discover how to enhance your nude beach experience while enjoying the sun and community!

Jun 19, 2025 • 34min
Cruising for Daddies
Hey Daddy! In this week’s episode, Chris and Gabe interview Judson Morrow, the co-host of the Dads And Daddies podcast, about what it means to be a daddy, how PrEP played a role in igniting the daddy craze, and how Judson navigates his own daddy/son relationships. He’ll also offer expert tips on cruising, dating, and hooking up that both daddies and sons can use. Then, one of our listeners shares a jaw-dropping cruising confession about a daddy encounter in a secluded park bathroom. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Judson Morrow: https://www.instagram.com/dadsanddaddiespod/ Music: Chris Conde: chrisconde.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Jun 12, 2025 • 40min
Locked & Loving It
In this insightful discussion, Peter Cage, an artist and lifestyle submissive known for hosting NYC's kink events, and Jasper Reid, a kink enthusiast focused on rubber and power dynamics, delve into the intriguing world of chastity. They explore how this fetish enhances sexual pleasure and fosters deeper connections, while sharing personal anecdotes about the complexities of BDSM relationships. With a touch of humor, they also highlight the importance of community spaces and the evolving dynamics of kink culture. Tune in for a captivating exploration of desires and connections!

Jun 5, 2025 • 51sec
Welcome Back to Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions
Your favorite queer sex podcast is BACK for more hot and hilarious conversations with cruisers, kinksters, and for the first time: our listeners! Every week on Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions, hosts Gabe Gonzalez and Chris Patterson-Rosso explore the sublime world of queer sex, cruising and relationships. Premiering June 12th! Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulifeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Dec 12, 2024 • 42min
The Holiday Special With Kandy Muse
The holidays can be super stressful for queers, which is why Gabe and Chris are back for a special episode full of tips for how to stay safe, sane, and sexually active over the season with the help of Sniffies! First up, RuPaul’s Drag Race icon Kandy Muse spills some very hot tea about her most outrageous Sniffies experiences while touring the globe. Then, for anyone thinking of throwing their own holiday party, the co-founder of NYC’s beloved Papi Juice nightlife and art collective, Oscar Nñ, shares the lessons he’s learned creating positive, uplifting spaces for QTPOC to come together over the past 11 years. Finally, Gabe heads over to Animal in Brooklyn on the wildest gay night of the year - Thanksgiving Eve - to hear hot and heartwarming home-for-the-holidays hookup stories. Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com Try Sniffies: sniffies.com Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife Guests featured in this episode: Kandy Muse instagram.com/thekandymuse https://thekandymuse.com/ Oscar Nn instagram.com/oscarnn instagram.com/papijuicebk soundcloud.com/oscarnn Animal instagram.com/animal.nycSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Aug 22, 2024 • 37min
That’s So Degrading!
Bobby Box, a submissive pleasure educator, and Dominion Onyx, a dominant pleasure educator, dive deep into the kink world. They discuss how bullying in queer youth impacts sexual identities and kinks. Personal stories reveal a journey from trauma to empowerment through consensual domination and humiliation play. The duo also explore the reclamation of language, emphasizing trust and communication in redefining terms like 'fag.' Listeners will gain insights into the dynamics of kink relationships and the transformative power of pleasure.

Aug 15, 2024 • 32min
Queer Utopia 2069
What does a queer utopia look like in 2069? Past guests share their dreams of a world where diversity is celebrated and stigma fades away. The conversation dives into community, consent, and how technology could revolutionize queer interactions. Insights on societal shifts, innovative social spaces, and stunning personal anecdotes paint a vivid picture of hope. Expect a blend of optimism and realism as diverse voices weigh in on what the future can hold for the queer community.

Aug 8, 2024 • 36min
Couples Who Cruise Together
Gabe, an expert in couples cruising dynamics, and Chris, a relationship navigator in sexual adventures, explore the thrilling world of couples who cruise together. They discuss managing jealousy and the unique experiences of attending sex parties as a duo. Insights on the ups and downs of non-monogamous relationships highlight the importance of communication and trust. Plus, they share entertaining stories from Brooklyn's hottest queer hangout, revealing the humorous and sometimes awkward moments of hooking up with couples.


