The Confidence Chronicles

I hear time and time again about how women want to empower women and nothing makes me happier. And because of that I tell you this: you want to empower women? EMPOWER YOUR DAMN SELF. You cannot do what you are not doing for yourself. The way we change the world is by each and every one of us doing it for ourselves first and foremost. Enjoy this one sisx EWant to meet in real life?I’m taking my creating confidence masterclass global! After an absolutely incredible, emotional, wonderful event in Auckland in January 2020, our next stop is Los Angeles in February. Get your tickets here:Follow me on Instagram too for all the updates!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

In today’s episode I’m so happy to introduce you to Amie McNee. She is the incredible talent behind Inspired To Write. Amie is a book doula, an artist, an activist, inspirer of all things and an author. She has written many books and has coached many people in order to achieve their dreams in writing and leaving their mark on the world. Today’s episode is super special because she shares so much on what it is to be an artist and how to get your work out into the world. This episode is for every single woman in the world whether you think you’re an artist or not. I invite you to listen with open ears and an open mind as Aime’s message is completely and utterly inspiring. Aime also talks deeply about journaling and y’all know I love that. So please tune in and enjoy this episode.Links We Mentioned:Aime’s WebsiteInspired To Write InstagramAime’s PodcastThe Journaling CompendiumBook: The Artists WaySeth GodinWant to meet in real life?I’m taking my creating confidence masterclass global! After an absolutely incredible, emotional, wonderful event in Auckland in January 2020, our next stop is Los Angeles in February. Get your tickets here:Follow me on Instagram too for all the updates!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I get so many questions about business and social media use that I thought I’d do a whole Biz series for all you business peeps out there (or maybe you don’t have a business but you are thinking about starting one) I’ll be keeping it real with you and sharing it all. The tools, the tips and the things I did in order to go from can’t buy bread, no clients, starting from zero to making over $300k in 18 months with only my Instagram. Today’s episode is a little ‘How I did it’ intro to this Biz podcast series. As always I am to be the example of what’s possible when you work on yourself, heal your shit and show up in service as your authentic self.Want to meet in real life?I’m taking my creating confidence masterclass global! After an absolutely incredible, emotional, wonderful event in Auckland in January 2020, our next stop is Los Angeles in February. Get your tickets here:Follow me on Instagram too for all the updates!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Listen ladies, we’ve got to stop treating social media like it’s the devil. You know why people say it’s toxic? Because they’re following fake as shit accounts where the grid is perfect, the stories are perfect, the kids look perfect and there’s not a shred of hair out of place. It’s not social media’s fault, it’s our fault. We need to stop putting on this mask that everything is fucking perfect, and just be okay with the fact that it’s not. We’re all real people. We all have real problems. We all poo. You know what I’m saying? Perfection is what is keeping us disconnected from each other, and that’s what I’m coming at you to say today.This is an Instagram live that I did, and I felt it was still so relevant that I had to share it with you on the podcast. So listen up ladies. Stop trying to be something that you’re not to avoid the judgement. People are going to judge you no matter what you do, you’ve just got to work on being okay with it.Want to meet in real life?I’m taking my creating confidence masterclass global! After an absolutely incredible, emotional, wonderful event in Auckland in January 2020, our next stop is Los Angeles in February. Get your tickets here:Follow me on Instagram too for all the updates!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey my loves! It’s been a busy ass few weeks let me tell you right now. While I catch my breath and get my shit organised, I’m sharing a few of my favourite IGTV rants with you. So first up is this. I can’t understand how you ladies who are trying to sell something, create a business, blog, whatever you’re passionate about, are not getting your faces on Instagram. It is so important that you do it, and keep it real as fuck. People buy you. Your brand is YOU. The less perfect you are, the more you will connect and the more confidence you will create for yourself.I cannot believe this our 100th episode! It’s time to celebrate. This podcast started in October 2018 because I wanted to have a place where I could be of service to women all over the world.  I am so freaking excited that you have been so loving and supportive. This 100th episode is a “best of” special. We took all the popular episodes and did a mash up! These episodes are the ones YOU the listener listener to the most, commented and emailed me about. If you’re new here this is a perfect episode to listen to as it will give you some popular ones to go back and binge. I love you I honour you I acknowledge you for being here and letting this information transform your life ????Episodes we mention: How to be more confident- the 5 Cs The sneaky way your EGO is fucking with you How to deal with “Hater”s and critics People don’t trigger you, you get triggered. IGTV Rant You’ve changed Life Lessons Series #4: Losing my husband Taking radical responsibility for where you’re at Numbing out of motherhood with alcohol I am not good enough compared toWant to meet in real life?I’m taking my creating confidence masterclass global! After an absolutely incredible, emotional, wonderful event in Auckland in January 2020, our next stop is Los Angeles in February. Get your tickets here:Follow me on Instagram too for all the updates!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Hey my loves! It’s been a busy ass few weeks let me tell you right now. While I catch my breath and get my shit organised, I’m sharing a few of my favourite IGTV rants with you. So first up is this. I can’t understand how you ladies who are trying to sell something, create a business, blog, whatever you’re passionate about, are not getting your faces on Instagram. It is so important that you do it, and keep it real as fuck. People buy you. Your brand is YOU. The less perfect you are, the more you will connect and the more confidence you will create for yourself.Thank you so much for listening. With all my love x EWant to meet in real life?I’m taking my creating confidence masterclass global! After an absolutely incredible, emotional, wonderful event in Auckland in January 2020, our next stop is Los Angeles in February. Follow me on Instagram for the updates!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Today’s episode is a very emotional one. I hadn’t seen my dad in 20 years. My mother hasn’t seen him in 20 years. I decided to fly him to Australia for New Year’s Eve. This has been one of the most healing things I have ever experienced. I talk about my story with my dad, how he kidnapped me when I was 7. How I got the chance to hear his side of the story which was very different. It’s been incredible to reconnect with my dad after all this time. I hope that this episode empowers you to believe that you can rewrite your past in order to reclaim your future. Thank you so much for listening, with all my love x EWant to meet in real life?I’ll be taking my creating confidence masterclass globally! First stop is Auckland New Zealand on 19 January 2020 if you are around I would love to see you. Tickets are limited but you can grab your space here: https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/registration-page-b7bedbf4-74a5-4fc4-971e-e0420b8048e9Los Angeles, you’re up next in Feb 2020!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I am so pleased to bring you today’s guest she is so incredibly inspiring. I first met Fleassy at the Australian Women’s day event. We were both speaking and when she got on the stage I got the chills. She’s a powerful poet, an activist and trailblazer. We instantly connected and have been friends ever since. You need this woman’s work and message in your life. This episode is so jam-packed with powerful thought-provoking convos. I know you’re going to love it. Please tag us and let us know what you got from this episode. Connect with her below. Enjoy loves! X EWebsite: www.fleassymalay.comRISE Speaker Training: https://coursecraft.net/courses/z9VdEAlso if you use code JINGLEBELLS before the end of the year you get a 35% Christmas discount!The next round begins Jan 22nd.Social media:www.facebook.com/fleassyMwww.instagram.com/fleassymalayWant to meet in real life?I’ll be taking my creating confidence masterclass globally! First stop is Auckland New Zealand on 19 January 2020 if you are around I would love to see you. Tickets are limited but you can grab your space here: https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/registration-page-b7bedbf4-74a5-4fc4-971e-e0420b8048e9Los Angeles, you’re up next in Feb 2020!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Recently the amazing January Harshe shared a VERY IMPORTANT message about TW (trigger warnings) on her post on her @birthwithoutfear Instagram and it really got me thinking.So many of the women I come across will say someone triggered them and I have to tell you right now that how you respond to someone’s behaviour is your choice.Are people rude, hard work and inappropriate sometimes? Yes!  But how you choose to respond is your RESPONSIBILITY. (RESPONSE • ABILITY) your ability to respond.I am not saying it’s ok how people act but I am saying that you choosing your response and working on your stuff when it brings something up for you, is where your power lies.I am and have always been about us taking responsibility back. If there is something showing up for you, it’s an opportunity for you to get to working on it. Getting into the subconscious patterns, thoughts/feelings and beliefs that may be coming up for you.As Byron Katie says “An unquestioned mind is a world of suffering” I hope this serves you my love  x EWant to meet in real life?I’ll be taking my creating confidence masterclass globally! First stop is Auckland New Zealand on 19 January 2020 if you are around I would love to see you. Tickets are limited but you can grab your space here: https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/registration-page-b7bedbf4-74a5-4fc4-971e-e0420b8048e9Los Angeles, you’re up next in Feb 2020!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

I am and have always been a bold stand. I speak freely and share my truth (with love always) but there are times when someone may not agree with me.  There are definitely times where I get feedback about how much I swear or how strongly I speak my voice about certain topics, but I have a choice as to how I respond. I recently shared a post on Instagram speaking about triggering and I got a lot of feedback on that post. I share in today’s episode about how I don’t take things personally and why it’s been such an amazing and freeing way to live. If you are someone out there who takes things personally and finds it difficult not to, this is definitely the episode for you. Enjoy it my love and as always, please feel free to reach out, share it with me, tag me on Instagram and let me know how this information has helped you!Want to meet in real life?I’ll be taking my creating confidence masterclass globally! First stop is Auckland New Zealand on 19 January 2020 if you are around I would love to see you. Tickets are limited but you can grab your space here: https://erika-cramer.mykajabi.com/registration-page-b7bedbf4-74a5-4fc4-971e-e0420b8048e9Los Angeles, you’re up next in Feb 2020!👑 Want to request a podcast? Have a question for me? Click here to request a podcast!👑 Loving this podcast? Please leave me a review so other women who needs this can find this show 👑 Are we friends on Instagram? If not come say hello @thequeenofconfidence Lastly - THANK YOU for listening, I APPRECIATE YOU! Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.