
Zachthinkshare Podcast
I make a bunch of short form educational/personal life story-telling, and my friend told me after listening to me on someone else's podcast that some of my longer form ideas would be really valuable for people to hear in this form, so I'm trusting Frank knows...
Latest episodes

Apr 11, 2025 • 34min
Ep 85: Dr. Morgan Cutlip - A Better Share comparison with Fair Play
SummaryIn this conversation, Dr. Morgan discusses the concept of mental load in relationships, particularly focusing on how it affects communication and dynamics between partners. She contrasts her approach with the Fair Play method, emphasizing the relational aspects of mental load and the importance of understanding emotional labor. The discussion also touches on the evolving nature of parenting and the pressures modern families face, advocating for a shift in how we perceive value and contribution within the home.For Her book:https://drmorgancutlip.com/bs-preorder/

Apr 4, 2025 • 36min
Ep 84: The Vagina Business with Marina Gerner
Get the book:https://www.marinagerner.com/SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Zach and Marina delve into the importance of language in women's health, the challenges of discussing female anatomy, and the role of supportive partners in navigating the mental load of parenthood. They explore the concept of FemTech, the need for accurate terminology, and the impact of societal norms on both women and men. The discussion emphasizes the significance of open communication and the power of the pause in parenting, ultimately advocating for a more inclusive and understanding approach to women's health and empowerment.TakeawaysThe importance of using accurate terms in discussions about women's health.Children who know the correct anatomical terms are more likely to report abuse.Women are often burdened with the responsibility of contraception.Supportive partners can significantly impact women's health experiences.The normalization of side effects for women in healthcare needs to change.Men are ready to take on more responsibility in contraception.The mental load of parenting is a shared responsibility.Open communication about pain and health is crucial for both genders.The power of the pause can enhance parenting experiences.Changing societal perceptions about women's health is essential.

Mar 28, 2025 • 52min
Ep 83: Navigating Emotional Fluency as a Man with Elijah Runyan
Elijah's Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/elijahjrunyan/?hl=enChapters00:00 Introduction to Connection Codes Coaching01:46 Elijah's Journey in Mental and Emotional Health04:34 The Core Emotion Wheel Explained07:08 Real-Life Applications of Emotional Awareness09:46 Navigating Personal Experiences with Emotions12:47 The Importance of Holding Space for Emotions15:34 Sharing Emotions: A Practical Exercise18:04 Understanding Core Emotions in Relationships20:20 Creating Safety in Emotional Sharing22:01 The Importance of Curiosity in Relationships27:52 Building Emotional Awareness and Habits34:08 Understanding Emotions: Fear, Shame, and Anger45:14 Core Level Anger vs. Secondary Anger49:02 Holding Space for Others' Experiences

Mar 19, 2025 • 44min
Ep 82: Fighting Micro-Agressions for our Self Care - Tami Hackbarth
Takeawayshttps://www.tamihackbarth.com/care-clubSelf-care is often viewed as selfish, but it's essential for well-being.Microaggressions from friends and family can undermine women's self-care efforts.Redistributing domestic labor is crucial for equitable partnerships.Finding 'unicorn space' is about pursuing passions outside of caregiving roles.Guilt around self-care can be deprogrammed through awareness and practice.Time management is key to achieving a balanced life.Self-care should be a non-negotiable part of life, not a luxury.Communication about household responsibilities can enhance relationships.Women often feel societal pressure to prioritize others' needs over their own.Coaching can help individuals reclaim their time and energy for personal growth.

Mar 6, 2025 • 46min
Ep 81: Mama Needs a Minute (@momlifecomics) w/ Mary Catherine (
SummaryIn this engaging conversation, Zach and Mary discuss the complexities of mental load in parenting, the creation of Mom Life Comics, and the societal expectations placed on mothers. They explore the emotional labor involved in relationships, the impact of pregnancy on mental load, and the challenges of being a female content creator. The discussion also touches on the double standards in parenting, the creative process behind comics, and the importance of visibility in addressing these issues. Mary shares her experiences with societal pressures and the significance of her upcoming book launch.https://www.instagram.com/momlife_comics/

Feb 14, 2025 • 37min
Ep 80: Breaking through Misogyny with Paige Connell (@shesapaigeturner)
https://www.instagram.com/sheisapaigeturner/reels/ In this conversation, Zach and Paige Turner discuss the systemic double standards in society, particularly regarding gender roles in parenting and the invisible labor associated with childcare. Paige shares her experiences with viral content and the backlash she receives, emphasizing the need for advocacy in childcare and gun violence prevention. They explore the economic impact of the childcare crisis and the importance of understanding the value of care work. The discussion also touches on the significance of asking disqualifying questions when interviewing childcare providers and the difference between micro acts of feminism and more vocal advocacy for gender equality.

Jan 31, 2025 • 28min
Ep 79: Community Spotlight - Jake and Katie
Takeaways
Emotional labor is often overlooked but crucial in relationships.
Acknowledging each other's contributions fosters a healthier dynamic.
Community support can significantly enhance personal growth.
Identifying personal passions is essential for individual fulfillment.
Practicing gratitude can improve relationship satisfaction.
Communication is key to resolving conflicts effectively.
Engaging in challenges can lead to meaningful insights.
Self-reflection helps in recognizing one's emotional state.
Accountability within a community encourages progress.
Practical relationship coaching can lead to substantial improvements.

Jan 13, 2025 • 41min
Ep 78: Neha Ruch - Mother Untitled and the Power of Pause
Summary
Get your book: https://www.motheruntitled.com/
In this conversation, Neha Ruch discusses her journey as a mother and career woman, emphasizing the importance of intentional pauses in one's career to focus on family life. She explores the societal perceptions of motherhood and career, the need for support and help in parenting, and the evolving dynamics of the workforce post-pandemic. Neha advocates for redefining success and contribution beyond traditional metrics, highlighting the value of emotional labor and communication in partnerships.

Jan 6, 2025 • 49min
Ep 77: Tidy Dad - Tyler Moore Practicing what you Preach
Get the book: https://thetidydad.com/book
In this conversation, Zachary Watson and Tyler Moore discuss the journey of tidying up both physical spaces and mental health. Tyler shares his experiences as a dad influencer, the challenges of writing his book, and the importance of emotional labor in relationships. They explore themes of privilege, the impact of societal norms on household work, and the messages of hope and connection that arise from their work. The conversation emphasizes the need for vulnerability and understanding in navigating life's messes.

Dec 2, 2024 • 30min
Ep 76: SOLO - Breaking down the Misogyny of Bussin with the Boys and Paige Connel
Summary
In this episode, Zach Watson discusses the backlash surrounding a podcast clip from Will Compton and Taylor Lewin, co-hosts of 'Bustin with the Boys.' The clip, which features Compton discussing his experiences as a new father, sparked criticism for its perceived misogyny and lack of accountability. Watson reflects on the responses from various commentators, including Paige Connell, and delves into the broader implications of such discussions on social media, gender roles, and the responsibilities of fathers. He emphasizes the need for men to recognize their impact and the importance of fostering a supportive environment for women.