Church Disrupted

We've had so many Church Scandals in 2024 that people are starting to get scandal fatigue... with the CHURCH!!! This should NEVER BE! If christians want to stop this madness and see real change in the Church, then we HAVE TO LEARN some key lessons from recent scandals like the one at Daystar TV. So, in this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran shares 20 lessons that churches can learn, and SHOULD learn, to return to being above reproach and above scandal. Want to support SAI financially?https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/about/endofyeargiving Roys Report Articles on Daystar Scandal; - https://julieroys.com/former-daystar-tv-executive-wife-accuse-joni-lamb-covering-up-daughters-sexual-abuse/ - https://julieroys.com/podcast/full-audio-of-daystar-meeting/ - https://julieroys.com/suzy-lamb-says-she-was-pressured-to-hide-her-sexual-assault/ Find out more about the Spiritual Abuse Institute and the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/. Join the church disrupted COMMUNITY here: https://discord.gg/nbWwg8Sz6ZPlease Subscribe and Share! Chapters 00:00 Learning from Scandals: The Need for Reform 03:18 Addressing Celebrity Culture in the Church 05:08 Expecting Higher Standards in the Church 07:03 Defining the Church Beyond IRS Labels 08:31 The Church as a Body, Not a Business 10:00 The Power of Community Action 11:27 Disqualification of Leaders through Intimidation 12:53 The Importance of Documentation 16:18 Standing Against Spiritual Bullies 18:41 Severance Policies and Church Staff Rights 22:05 Whistleblower Protection in Churches 23:33 Proactive Policies for Investigations 25:56 Ethics of Tithes and Legal Fees 27:49 The Dangers of Nepotism 30:13 The Harm of NDAs in Churches 31:13 The Need for Independent Church Boards 33:07 Transparency and Accountability as Non-Negotiables 34:34 Understanding Leadership Accountability 35:58 Recognizing and Preventing Spiritual Abuse 37:55 Setting the Standard: Above Reproach

On today's episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran reveals the actual NDA that Daystar TV tried to force Jonathan Lamb to sign. In this video, Jeff compares the NDA to what Joni said about it, and breaks down where things don't line up with her statement, the red flags of the NDA, and what christians can learn from this document about NDA use and its dangers in the Church! Roys Report Articles on Daystar Scandal; - https://julieroys.com/former-daystar-tv-executive-wife-accuse-joni-lamb-covering-up-daughters-sexual-abuse/ - https://julieroys.com/podcast/full-audio-of-daystar-meeting/ - https://julieroys.com/suzy-lamb-says-she-was-pressured-to-hide-her-sexual-assault/ Boz Tchividjian Video- https://youtu.be/A2wtT6s3qqg?si=LoFsMFa9aiMv21Qq John Ferrell Video - https://youtu.be/VgPRPxriwm4?si=g9mBFhEqlKBpH0Hi Chapters 00:00 Unpacking the Daystar TV Scandal 02:58 Understanding NDAs in Church Contexts 06:06 The Pressure to Sign: A Closer Look at the NDA 08:57 Legal Perspectives on NDAs 11:47 Analyzing the Daystar NDA 15:11 Red Flags in Non-Disclosure Agreements 18:04 The Dangers of Non-Disparagement Clauses 20:57 Trade Secrets vs. Confidentiality in Churches 36:31 Understanding Confidential Information 39:50 Evaluating the NDA's Structure 41:15 Identifying Red Flags in the NDA 46:32 Analyzing Non-Disparagement and Non-Compete Clauses 52:51 Assessing the Reasonableness of Confidentiality Definitions 01:00:25 Concluding Thoughts on NDAs in Church Contexts

Should Joni Lamb be removed or resign from leadership at Daystar? We think so, and in this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran shares a long list of reasons why. 22 reasons, to be exact. Roys Report Articles on Daystar Scandal; - https://julieroys.com/former-daystar-tv-executive-wife-accuse-joni-lamb-covering-up-daughters-sexual-abuse/ - https://julieroys.com/podcast/full-audio-of-daystar-meeting/ - https://julieroys.com/suzy-lamb-says-she-was-pressured-to-hide-her-sexual-assault/ Chapters 00:00 The Daystar TV Scandal Unfolds 03:11 Reasons for Joni Lamb's Removal 05:58 Concerns Over NDAs and Legal Threats 08:46 The Use of Darvo and Lack of Transparency 12:08 Investigations and Accountability Issues 14:55 Behavioral Concerns and Spiritual Abuse 17:48 Celebrity Culture and Leadership Integrity 21:09 The Impact of Allegations on Family Dynamics 23:57 Character Concerns and Public Perception 27:01 Final Thoughts on Leadership and Accountability

Just when you thought the Daystar scandal couldn't get any worse, Joni Lamb made a statement that made it worse. In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran breaks down the DARVO like responses in Joni Lamb's official statement and in a recent Daystar TV interview. And sadly, just like many church scandals this year, DARVO reared its ugly head. DARVO is deeply damaging and is the worst response ministries and faith leaders could make to allegations of sin and abuse, yet it seems to be the go to response. We talk about why and how to recognize it in this episode. Roys Report Articles on Daystar Scandal;- https://julieroys.com/former-daystar-tv-executive-wife-accuse-joni-lamb-covering-up-daughters-sexual-abuse/- https://julieroys.com/podcast/full-audio-of-daystar-meeting/- https://julieroys.com/suzy-lamb-says-she-was-pressured-to-hide-her-sexual-assault/Chapters00:00 Allegations Against Daystar TV and Initial Reactions02:52 The Importance of Independent Investigations06:12 Analyzing Joni Lamb's Response09:01 Understanding DARVO in Church Responses11:48 The Role of Tone and Language in Responses15:04 The Impact of Spiritual Abuse Allegations17:52 The Need for Transparency and Accountability21:03 Examining the Interview Dynamics24:12 The Consequences of Denial and Attacks26:59 Final Thoughts on Trust and Credibility42:56 Discrediting and Dehumanization in Media Responses49:03 Family Dynamics and Allegations of Control56:04 The Ethics of Recording Conversations01:01:14 Authority and Accountability in Leadership01:07:43 The Impact of Darvo on Credibility01:13:45 The Role of NDAs in Church Organizations01:20:20 Concluding Thoughts on Transparency and Trust

For this week's episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, we are re-airing our docu-style expose on miracle offering season (episode 13) in churches from 2023. Miracle offering season in the mega-church ramps up every Fall as celebrity pastors and their churches manipulate people into giving millions of dollars in a single weekend. Under the guise of "missions" and "outreach," big churches scam people out of more money to expand their existing ministries, grow their revenue, and get even bigger. In this video, we expose the common money manipulation tactics of churches and the playbook churches use to pull off miracle offerings every year. We also discuss the selling of miracles and the strategies toxic churches use to get church members to give sacrificially beyond what they can afford. We also arm you with questions to ask to know whether your church can be trusted financially and to help you know whether an offering is legit or a scam. IWant to support SAI financially? https://donorbox.org/sai-initial-funding-campaign Find out more about the Spiritual Abuse Institute and the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/. Join the church disrupted COMMUNITY here: https://discord.gg/nbWwg8Sz6Z Please Subscribe and Share! Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Miracle Offering Season 06:08 C3 Church Case Study 11:53 Manipulative Tactics in Miracle Offerings 18:04 Stories of Sacrificial Giving 24:09 The Broader Evangelical Landscape 41:31 Miracle Offering Season: Timing and Strategy 47:43 Subtle Manipulation: Elevation Church's Approach 53:28 Legacy and Generosity: The Church of the Highlands 01:01:17 The Pressure to Give: Guilt and Fear Tactics 01:21:24 The Role of Prayer in Church Offerings 01:27:34 Understanding the Prosperity Gospel 01:33:39 The Modern Church's Approach to Offerings 01:42:58 Biblical Theology of Offerings 01:49:39 Red Flags in Modern Church Offerings 02:02:51 The Financial Goals of Modern Churches 02:12:05 The Revenue and Assets of Mega Churches 02:22:28 Manipulative Money Systems in Church Offerings 02:30:39 Celebrity Preaching and Financial Scandals 02:41:20 Questions to Consider About Church Offerings

In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran interviews author and pastor Tommy Preson Phillips about his new book "Invisible Jesus." They ask the question, what if people aren't deconstructing and leaving the church because they don't want Jesus? But what if they are leaving the church to find Him? This conversation will challenge what you think you know about the church, following Jesus, and the deconstruction movement. It's a can't miss conversation for Christians in the moment in time we find ourselves in today. Want to support SAI financially? https://donorbox.org/sai-initial-funding-campaign Get Tommy's NEW BOOK, "Invisible Jesus," here: https://www.amazon.com/Invisible-Jesus-Leaving-Church-Looking-ebook/dp/B0CW1MS88W THANK YOU to our podcast partner, the East TN Mentorship Association! Find out more information about what they do or connect with them at https://earnyoursanctuary.com/ . TELL THEM WE SENT YOU for a special rate that is ONLY for Church Disrupted Podcast listeners. Find out more about the Spiritual Abuse Institute and the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/. Join the church disrupted COMMUNITY here: https://discord.gg/nbWwg8Sz6Z Please Subscribe and Share! Chapters 00:00 Intro 03:04 Deconstruction: A Prophetic Movement 05:57 The Role of Pastors in Deconstruction 08:50 Power Dynamics in the Church 12:12 Rummage Sale: Reassessing Church Practices 15:06 The Impact of Technology on Faith 18:02 Love as the Foundation of Faith 21:09 Navigating Differences in Beliefs 24:00 The Future of the Church: Embracing Change 30:34 Transformative Love and Acceptance 35:10 Navigating Differences in Faith 40:54 The Role of the Church: From Performance to Community 54:17 Deconstruction and the Journey Back to Faith

In this episode of the Church Disrupted podcast, host Jeff Cochran talks with author and theologian Scott McKnight about his new book 'Invisible Jesus.' They explore the concept of deconstruction within the church, discussing its prophetic nature and the reasons behind people seeking a more authentic connection with Jesus. The conversation emphasizes the importance of rebuilding trust in the church and understanding the painful journey many face during deconstruction. What if deconstruction is not merely a trend but a necessary process for many believers seeking truth and authenticity in their faith. Want to support SAI financially?https://donorbox.org/sai-initial-funding-campaign THANK YOU to our podcast partner, the East TN Mentorship Association! Find out more information about what they do or connect with them at https://earnyoursanctuary.com/ . TELL THEM WE SENT YOU for a special rate that is ONLY for Church Disrupted Podcast listeners. Find out more about the Spiritual Abuse Institute and the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/. Join the church disrupted COMMUNITY here: https://discord.gg/nbWwg8Sz6Z Please Subscribe and Share!

Navigating the journey to find a safe church after experiencing hurt can be daunting. Learn how to spot red flags by evaluating church governance and financial practices. The hosts review two mega churches, comparing their transparency and accountability. Discover essential questions to ask and indicators to look for, from leadership structures to sermon originality. This insightful discussion empowers listeners to assess church environments and ensure a supportive community for healing.

Arresting Dissenters, removing critics, threatening whistleblowers, and trying to silence critics and destroy their reputations. This sounds like mob-type behavior... but what if we told you this all describes large and well-known CHURCHES?!? That's right, in unsafe and unhealthy churches, questions, criticism, and any allegations of sin and immoral behavior are met with bully tactics like these. While this is not the case at all churches, it should NOT be the case in ANY CHURCH. In this episode of the Church Disrupted Podcast, Jeff Cochran takes a look at concerning mob style behavior by four large church bodies in recent months. As well as how to recognize the red flags that lead up to this type of behavior. Want to support SAI financially? https://donorbox.org/sai-initial-funding-campaign THANK YOU to our podcast partner, the East TN Mentorship Association! Find out more information about what they do or connect with them at https://earnyoursanctuary.com/ . TELL THEM WE SENT YOU for a special rate that is ONLY for Church Disrupted Podcast listeners. Find out more about the Spiritual Abuse Institute and the Church Disrupted Podcast at https://www.spiritualabuse.institute/. Join the church disrupted COMMUNITY here: https://discord.gg/nbWwg8Sz6Z Please Subscribe and Share! Chapters: 00:01 - When churches act like mobsters 02:53 - Fellowship Church & Pastor Ed Young ARRESTS film-maker and donor for asking financial questions. 29:13 - Immanuel Baptist Church Revises its BYLAWS to RESTRICT FREE SPEECH and SILENCE DETRACTORS. 37:21 - Troll Account Uses DECEASED MAN’S Obituary Picture on Account Used to Silence Detractors, Former Staff Members, and Former Congregants of Faith Promise Church. 57:22 - D.C. Area Mega Church With Celebrity Pastor ARRESTS and EXCOMMUNICATES Members Who Ask Questions!!!

Chelsea Brooke Cole, a bestselling author and expert on narcissism, joins the discussion to unpack the complexities of narcissistic behavior in church settings. They explore the weaponization of forgiveness, stressing the importance of boundaries. Cole explains the DARVO technique—deny, attack, reverse victim and offender—highlighting its role in manipulative interactions. The conversation encourages listeners to recognize spiritual narcissism and provides strategies for healing and maintaining emotional well-being in toxic relationships.