Behavioral Grooves Podcast

Iris Bohnet, a Professor at Harvard Kennedy School and co-author of "Make Work Fair," discusses how biases affect workplace fairness. She insights into implicit biases and explores the success of blind auditions and clear communication to promote equity. The conversation delves into studies on hiring reforms, particularly in the NYC Fire Department, and emphasizes the importance of removing application fees for underrepresented groups. Bohnet highlights the need for structured incentives that support diversity and offers strategies to foster inclusive workplaces.

In this discussion, executive coach Melody Wilding, an expert in workplace dynamics, reveals the ten key conversations everyone should master at work. She emphasizes that managing up isn't about flattery but about setting boundaries and advocating for oneself. Melody shares insights on communication styles, negotiating raises, and diplomatically pushing back on low-value tasks. With practical scripts and psychological strategies, she empowers listeners to navigate office politics and refine their career paths.

Oliver Burkeman, the author of "Meditations for Mortals" and "Four Thousand Weeks," shares his enlightening views on the pitfalls of perfectionism. He argues that waiting for the perfect moment often leads to inaction and stifles personal growth. The conversation dives into the concept of 'imperfectionism' and how small, imperfect actions can bring fulfillment. Burkeman highlights the importance of embracing life’s messiness, letting go of control, and taking immediate steps toward meaningful change.

Explore the vices that hold us back, from overworking to doomscrolling, as the trio shares their personal struggles. Discover how indulgence can improve well-being rather than breed guilt. Unpack the paradox of vices, navigating the fine line between self-care and excess. Delve into the connection between self-doubt and achievement, questioning the true sources of satisfaction. This engaging conversation encourages listeners to reflect on their own indulgences and the balance between enjoyment and personal growth.

Dr. Adam Dorsay, a clinical psychologist from Silicon Valley and author of "Super Psyched," dives into meaningful connections in the digital age. He discusses the four types of connection we need—self, others, the world, and something greater. Adam shares insights on rekindling friendships, the importance of being present, and how music can deepen bonds. He emphasizes the necessity of emotional discernment in relationships and encourages simple gestures, like a phone call, to brighten someone's day, revealing how these actions foster joy and fulfillment.

Eli Finkel and Paul Eastwick are relationship scientists with a keen focus on how love is portrayed in popular culture. They dissect the inaccuracies of romantic comedies, revealing how these films can mislead our expectations of love. The duo explores the balance between societal norms and personal experiences in relationships, highlighting surprising insights that films can offer about real intimacy. They also touch on persistence in romance narratives and the role of music in shaping emotional connections.

Join therapist Rachel Glik, an expert in couples counseling and author of "A Soulful Marriage," as she dives into the essence of nurturing relationships. She discusses the 'duck effect' of social media, offering insights on how to recognize and combat unrealistic expectations. Rachel emphasizes the importance of personal growth, shared purpose, and embracing conflict as opportunities for connection. Drawing from Kabbalistic wisdom, she shares practical tips for enhancing communication and responsibility to transform struggling relationships into thriving partnerships.

Kurt Gray, a psychology professor known for his work on moral psychology and author of "Outrage," dives into the fascinating world of moral typecasting. He discusses how our evolutionary instincts shape perceptions of victims and villains, influencing debates on issues like immigration and gun rights. Gray highlights the power of personal stories in bridging divides and offers practical strategies for navigating moral discussions. His insights shed light on the complexities of human outrage and the importance of empathy in fostering understanding.

In this engaging discussion, Jenny Wood, a former Google executive and author of the thought-provoking book Wild Courage, redefines negative traits as hidden strengths. She highlights how 'nosiness' can facilitate connections and 'brutal honesty' can create necessary boundaries. Jenny shares actionable insights on how to leverage traits typically seen as weaknesses, such as 'manipulativeness,' into powerful assets for personal and professional success. With humor and even a surprising oatmeal cookie recipe, she encourages everyone to embrace their unique traits.

John Bargh, a music enthusiast and expert on classic rock, takes us on a thrilling journey through iconic recording sessions. He shares insights on the artistry behind classics like Led Zeppelin's 'Stairway to Heaven' and Jethro Tull's 'Aqualung'. Delving into the contrasting studio environments of the 1970s, Bargh reveals fascinating stories of collaboration between legendary artists. He even touches on the intriguing synchronicity of 'Dark Side of the Moon' with 'The Wizard of Oz', showcasing the magic that defines rock's golden moments.