Sex Love Psychedelics

Writer and social justice consultant, Justice Rivera, joins me to tackle the complexities of psychedelic-assisted therapy for trauma survivors. We define and deconstruct sex work and its intersection with race, culture, and power. We explore the debates around decriminalization versus legalization. We also delve into 'chem sex' practices and the importance of consent in contexts combining drugs and kink. In this episode you’ll hear: 00:08 Intro 06:45 Sex work, exploitation, and the potential of psychedelic-assisted therapy 15:08 Deconstructing Definitions and the Three C's Model 24:09 Censorship and the Hidden Costs of Online Regulation 31:12 The Potential Benefits of the Decriminalization of Psychedelics 43:22 Discussion on “Chem-sex”, Psychedelics, and Kink. 48:20 Harm Reduction, Consent, and Sexual Experiences. THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Justice Rivera is a writer and social justice consultant from San Juan, PR, specializing in harm reduction and healing justice. With a focus on challenging societal norms, Justice provides support to sex workers, trafficking survivors, and drug users. She is a Partner at Reframe Health and Justice, a harm reduction consulting company. Justice is also the co-author of "Body Autonomy: Decolonizing Sex Work and Drug Use" and enjoys traveling, cooking, and spending time with loved ones. LINKS FROM THE SHOW https://www.reframehealthandjustice.com/ WANT MORE? Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes: learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undone

Psychotherapist Jonathan Robinson joins me to discuss using MDMA for relationships. We explore how MDMA can enhance intimacy when used safely for therapy. Jonathan shares insights from over 600 sessions helping couples communicate openly. We dive into his groundbreaking work treating relationship issues with psychedelics like MDMA, as well as training therapists in this approach. Explore the ethical considerations and safety protocols surrounding this therapeutic modality, and gain valuable knowledge on how psychedelics like MDMA can foster deeper self-awareness and strengthen the bonds of love. In this episode: 00:27 Intro 03:21 MDMA-assisted therapy for trauma, anxiety, and depression 08:13 Using Zoom for therapy sessions, including MDMA and ketamine 19:40 MDMA use in therapy for couples, including its potential benefits and limitations. 21:25 Psychedelic use for couples therapy and emotional healing.  31:15 Navigating Therapy Challenges and Personal Experiences 40:10 Therapy Experiences, Training Insights, and Cautionary Tales 48:50 Self-Awareness and Accountability in Therapy THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS Jonathan Robinson is a psychotherapist, best-selling author, and professional speaker based in Nevada City, California. With over 35 years of experience, Jonathan explores methods for personal evolution toward a more caring, peaceful, and happy life. His work has been featured in USA TODAY, Newsweek, and the Los Angeles Times. He has appeared on national TV talk shows, including Oprah. Jonathan is the author of nine books, delivering informative presentations on personal development. LINKS FROM THE SHOW XTCasMedicine.com MDMAcouplestraining.com WANT MORE?Join me for my monthly Un.done Classes: learn.sexloveyoga.com/come-undone

Clinical pharmacologist, Stephanie Karzon Abrams joins me to share how ketamine can support our hormonal health. Stephanie walks us through the science + research behind why these compounds and psychedelics can help us towards finding balance when our hormones get out of whack. We dive into treating conditions such as PMDD, menopause symptoms, and the hormonal disturbances caused by autoimmune diseases. In this episode: [01:48] Intro [02:28] Psychedelics' Dance with Hormones and Libido [09:46] Psilocybin and its Potential for Women's Cycles [14:39] Ketamine: A New Hope for Hormone Disorders [29:15] Legal Plant Medicines for Intimacy and Connection [36:36] Microdosing for Creativity, Mood, and Relationships [41:45] Ibogaine Therapy's Promise for Traumatic Brain Injuries THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Stephanie is a clinical pharmacologist, community maker, and entrepreneur in the psychedelic space. Through her consultancy, Beyond the Bench, she provides comprehensive guidance and expert advice, offers open-access education, conducts research, and supports initiatives seeking to make a positive impact, in order to redefine the landscape of healthcare and support access to psychedelics and plant medicines.  LINKS Article about TBI in relationships: https://www.beyondthebench.life/eleusinian-echoes/relationships-after-traumatic-brain-injury-tbi Exhale: Femme Ketamine Retreat: https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale

Writer and philosopher Nate Klemp discusses the impact of cancel culture, digital distractions on relationships, and openness in romantic partnerships. He shares insights on ketamine therapy, personality traits, and the dynamics of relationships. Nate emphasizes the importance of intentional communication and vulnerability in fostering genuine connections.

Craving erotic stories and audio POV boyfriends who will tell you what a good girl you’ve been? Dipsea is a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content. Co-founder of Dipsea, Gina Gutierrez joins me to share about their work. In this episode, you’ll hear: The evolution of the erotic audio industry and Gina's journey of co-founding Dipsea Popular themes within erotic fantasies Establishing emotional bonds with characters The creative process behind crafting erotic narratives and insights into production The impact of unrealistic expectations perpetuated by erotic content on real-life relationships Common “ick” factors that hinder reader engagement + building tension in storytelling The real-life effects of erotic fantasy on dating, relationships, and sexuality Embracing consent as a desirable element of sex Assessing the ethicality of porn or audio erotica Distinguishing Dipsea's storytelling approach amongst others in the industry Exploring hedonism as a positive and empowering facet of women's sexual liberation Envisioning the future of women's sexuality and the roles of platforms like Dipsea and AI technology The influence of sexual expression amid the pandemic THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS Meet Gina Gutierrez, an empathy-driven entrepreneur with her sights set on reimagining and prioritizing female pleasure. As the co-founder and Chief Creative Officer at Dipsea, a people-powered story studio that produces a wide range of erotic, female-focused audio content, she’s passionate about demonstrating why sexual wellness is essential, and how storytelling and imagination are powerful tools that can help women unlock liberating connections with their bodies. Armed with a psychology degree from Duke and a desire to break the stigma that fantasy should be stifled, she’s ready to help women everywhere tap into their sexual powers.  MORE LINKS Exhale Femme Retreat: ⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale Free 30 Day Trial to Dipseahttps://www.dipseastories.com/SEXLOVEYOGA

Dive into the world of psychedelic integration with Dr. Ido Cohen as he discusses eros energy, archetypes, and shadow traits in relationships. Explore the power of self-regulation, processing grief on a somatic level, and the village model of learning. Learn about facilitator abuse, the therapeutic potential of ketamine, and the importance of emotional regulation in relationships.

World renowned meditation teacher, Emily Fletcher joins me to explore how to create a life from the seat of pleasure + desire. Emily is the podcast host of the Why Isn't Everyone Doing This? https://link.chtbl.com/whythis, the founder of Ziva,  bestselling author, + alchemical teacher teaching her practice the Sacred Secret. In this episode, you’ll hear: Manifestation Rituals and the Complexities of Emotional Experience Creating Safe Spaces for Authentic Expression and Emotional Alchemy Balancing Masculine Energy and Nurturing Inner Growth The Growth Edges that come with Publicly Owning your Pleasure Integrating Sexuality into Branding: Understanding Audience Dynamics Making Esoteric Concepts Accessible: Bridging the Gap to Mainstream Understanding Effective Manifestation Practices and Overcoming Common Obstacles Understanding the Influence of Consciousness on Manifestation Exploring Pleasure Science: Nervous System Health and Well-being Manifesting Through Orgasmic States of Consciousness Navigating Skepticism and Misconceptions Surrounding Manifestation Ancient Fertility Rituals Confronting Judgment and Stigma: The Intersection of Spirituality and Experience Exploring AI Influence and its Connection to Natural Networks THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS Emily Fletcher is the founder of Ziva and host of the “Why Isn’t Everyone Doing This?” podcast. She’s an international speaker whose superpower is making esoteric tools accessible to a mainstream audience, teaching over 50k people meditation and manifesting. Emily has spent the past three years creating Sacred Secret, a new movement informed by ancient wisdom and modern science to help you get exactly what you want in life, all by harnessing Embodied Manifesting tools and Emotional Alchemy. Free masterclass on the science of Ziva Meditation: ⁠https://zivameditation.com/podcast⁠ Follow Ziva on Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/zivameditation⁠ Follow Emily Fletcher on Instagram: ⁠instagram.com/emilystellafletcher⁠ MORE LINKS Emily Fletcher's Podcast:  https://link.chtbl.com/whythis Femme Ketamine Retreat: ⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/exhale⁠ Vetting Your Practitioners: ⁠https://learn.sexloveyoga.com/Vetting%20Your%20Guide

Relationship & Intimacy Coach Starielle Hope discusses common relationship mistakes, reprogramming the fantasy of 'happy ever after,' cultivating high-level relational skills, self-responsibility for patterning, somatic practices for healthy attachment patterns, identifying power dynamics, using psychedelics for emotional connection in men, navigating grief in new relationships, and transforming sexual energy without penetration.

Flor Bollini, a plant medicine trailblazer, shares her shamanic perspective on psychedelics and sexuality. Topics include the convergence of ancient cultures, the symbiotic relationship between sexuality and psychedelics, the significance of sexual energy for overall well-being, contrasting underground movements with the current psychedelic renaissance, the synergy between chemical compounds and entheogens, clinical ketamine therapy with ritualistic elements, empowering individuals to be their own shaman, integrating psychedelic experiences and microdosing, empowering women in medicine, and enhancing intuition through accessible techniques.

In this episode with Courtney Watson, we talk about how psychedelics can be a powerful tool for personal exploration in identity, pleasure, + resilience. She shares about her work with Queer BiPOC , as well as, practices + rituals to access inspiration from ancestral wisdom. In this episode, you’ll hear: Building resilience strategies amidst complex trauma Navigating the repercussions of the pandemic and reclaiming a connection to pleasure Courtney's impactful work with Queer BiPOC  How to create a sex-positive environment and educate children about pleasure The significance of intersectionality in therapy, addressing unique challenges in sexual expression and healing Empowering individuals to explore their sexual identities for greater self-acceptance Broadening understanding about bisexuality and queerness beyond societal norms The role of psychedelic therapy, particularly ketamine-assisted therapy, in sex therapy, with a focus on Queer + BIPOC Unpacking the concept of energetic sex and embracing our fullest sexual selves through pleasure Practices for connecting with ancestral guides and the wisdom they offer Tapping into ancestral guidance to navigate sexuality and learn from familial patterns for healing and releasing shame. THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUESTS The dynamic founder of Doorway Therapeutic Services, Courtney, is not just a highly qualified therapist but a passionate advocate for those she serves. Her love for her work is deeply intertwined with her dedication to serving marginalized communities, particularly Black, Indigenous, People of Color, Queer Folx, trans/gnc/non-binary/2 spirit Folx, those exploring non-traditional relationships, and sex workers. Courtney’s passion lies in her service to her community and has led her to transform her solo practice into a group practice of predominantly Queer, BIPOC and TGNC providers offering their therapeutic expertise as a beacon of understanding and guidance to the community. Her goal is not just to help but to champion the healing journey of her clients and the professional development of her employees. As a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, she utilizes her rich educational background to work in tandem with breadth of knowledge that her lived experience provides. Academically speaking, she has a B.S. in Psychology from Xavier University of Louisiana (an HBCU), an M.S. in Marriage and Family Therapy from UNLV, and an M.Ed. in Human Sexuality from Widener University and might finally be finishing her PhD studies in Human Sexuality this fall! Additionally she has trained with MAPS to provide MDMA Assisted Psychotherapy, CIIS to provide Psychedelic Assisted Therapy and Polaris Insight Center to provide Ketamine Assisted Psychotherapy. As these medicines are rescheduled by the FDA and available to the public, Doorways will offer psychedelic therapy in addition to the current Ketamine offering now.