Sex Love Psychedelics

164: Body Objectification, Agency, + the Paradox of our Desires with Suzannah Weiss

Jul 11, 2024

Suzannah Weiss, a sexologist and author based in Los Angeles, dives into sexual empowerment and the complexities of gender dynamics. She challenges societal norms around body objectification and emphasizes the importance of personal agency. The discussion covers navigating consent and boundaries while advocating for open communication in relationships. Weiss also critiques traditional gender roles, promoting individuality and spirituality in dating, and encourages a deeper understanding of one’s desires for authentic connections.

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Quick takeaways

The podcast highlights the importance of redefining sexual empowerment by centering on personal desire and agency over societal norms.

Suzannah Weiss discusses the complex dynamics of consent and boundaries, emphasizing the need for clear communication in intimate relationships.

Listeners are encouraged to embrace contradictions in their identities, allowing for a fluid understanding of empowerment and vulnerability in sexuality.

Deep dives

The Intersection of Body and Sexuality

Individual relationships with bodies and sexuality are shaped by life experiences, leading to diverse understandings of desires. The struggle to reconcile personal pleasures with societal expectations often results in internal conflict and feelings of inadequacy. Many grapple with the fear of being perceived as 'broken' or contradictory due to differing identities, such as being both a professional and someone who embraces sexual exploration. The podcast emphasizes the importance of self-reflection and rejecting outside influences, encouraging listeners to authentically define their desires.

Intro

3min

Empowerment Through Sensuality

5min

Navigating Desire and Objectification

18min

Navigating Intimidation and Defense in Gender Dynamics

2min

Navigating Consent and Communication

3min

Navigating Body Objectification and Personal Agency

19min

Navigating Gender Dynamics and Spirituality

13min

Exploring Resources for Sexual Liberation and Coaching

2min

Writer and sexologist Suzannah Weiss joins me to explore sexual empowerment, gender dynamics, and spirituality. We discuss reclaiming personal agency, challenging societal norms, and advocating for self-determination. We delve into consent, boundaries, and the limitations of traditional gender roles in relationships, emphasizing the need for balanced approaches and open communication. We also discuss understanding the root of individual behaviors for deeper connection and personal growth.

In this episode you’ll hear:

00:05 Intro

08:13 Objectification vs. subjectification, views from a sexologist.

14:54 Societal pressure on men and women regarding sex and relationships.

24:13 Boundaries and Cultural Conditioning in Sexual Interactions

28:58 Pleasure, and consent in sexual experiences.

37:41 Gender roles, femininity, and individuality in spirituality and dating.

48:05 Reclaiming Agency and Challenging Gender Roles in Relationships

58:37 Embracing contradictions in sexuality and erotic expression.

THE SKINNY ON OUR SEXY GUEST Suzannah Weiss is a writer and sexologist based in Los Angeles. She is the author of Subjectified: Becoming a Sexual Subject, which describes her search for sexual empowerment and her vision for a world where women are subjects, not just objects, of desire. She has written over 8800 articles, which have appeared in publications such as The New York Times and The Washington Post. As a sex educator certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, Suzannah has taught courses and given talks on topics including consent, orgasms, childbirth, non-monogamy, and neurodiversity. She is regularly quoted as an expert in publications like Cosmopolitan and Men's Health as a resident sexologist for Biird and also works as a sex/love coach, birth doula, and sexual assault counselor. She holds a Master of Professional Studies in Sexual Health from the University of Minnesota, a Bachelor of Science in Cognitive Neuroscience from Brown University, and a Bachelor of Arts in Gender & Sexuality Studies and Modern Culture & Media from Brown University. You can reach Suzannah Weiss on her website.

LINKS FROM THE SHOW

https://suzannahweiss.com/book/https://sexloveyoga.mykajabi.com/sensual-awakening

Buy Suzannah's book "Subjectified" here:

https://a.co/d/6zNTC6O

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