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This week revisit a Best Of epsiode from the vault. A husband and wife will usually incorporate the use of a vibrator during their sexual encounters together. But when the husband goes to retrieve the toy it often is in another place. His wife says she isn’t moving it. What’s going on? A husband wants to use a toy for prostate play. They tried it once and now the wife is unwilling to try it again. On the Xtended Version ... A wife is bored in her sex life, even though her husband is very caring and attentive. To further complicate things, she doesn’t know what would liven up her sex life. What can she do? Sponsors ... Honey Love: Treat yourself to the best bras. Get up to 60% OFF your entire order with our exclusive link – https://honeylove.com/SMR SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Best of SMR: Unilateral Moves #704 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

This week Pam and I discuss the complexities of intimacy, particularly focusing on oral sex and the impact of past trauma on current relationships. The conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding, and presence in sexual encounters, while also addressing the challenges faced by individuals with traumatic histories. We hope to encourage listeners to navigate their sexual relationships with empathy and openness, highlighting the journey of healing and connection between spouses. Takeaways Relationships are constantly evolving and require adaptation. Communication is key in navigating sexual intimacy. Past trauma can significantly impact present relationships. It's important to approach intimacy with empathy and understanding. Presence and engagement matter more than technique in intimacy. Self-image issues can affect sexual confidence and performance. Creating a comfortable environment can enhance intimacy. Learning about each other's bodies is a continuous journey. Facing past traumas can lead to healing in relationships. The willingness to confront challenges can strengthen partnerships. On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I cover an email from a husband who misses the sex they had before his wife went through menopause. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift, head over to https://uncommonoods.com/passion SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Oral Sex and Trauma #703 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode, I'm joined by Alex and Kadi Dutton, founders of EveryLove Intimates.  We talk about their journey in creating their company aimed at enhancing intimacy in marriages. They discuss the challenges couples face in maintaining intimacy, the importance of variety and exploration in relationships, and how their products provide couples with the tools and permission to try new things together. We emphasize the significance of communication and intentionality in nurturing a healthy marriage. Take advantage of their special offer to the SMR Nation by getting $20 off each Date Night Box with our code, SMR.  Get yours here - https://smr.fm/everylove Takeaways Communication is key to improving intimacy in relationships. Couples often need resources to enhance their intimate lives. Spicing things up shows your partner they are important. The box provides a framework for couples to explore intimacy. It's important to make intimacy a priority in marriage. The scenarios in the box allow for flexibility and personalization. On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I talk through the differences between a goal of desire for sex vs desire during sex. What does this actually mean? Listen to find out. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Honey Love: Treat yourself to the best bras. Get up to 50% OFF your entire order with our exclusive link – https://honeylove.com/SMR SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Intimate Desire | Alex and Kadi Dutton #702 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Dr. Emily Jamea joins me as we discuss her new book, 'Anatomy of Desire,' focusing on the concept of flow state in sexual experiences. She outlines five key aspects that contribute to achieving flow: sensuality, curiosity, adaptability, vulnerability, and attunement. We explore each aspect in depth, emphasizing the importance of reconnecting with innate qualities to enhance intimacy and emotional connection in relationships. Plus our discussion highlights practical strategies for couples to cultivate these qualities and improve their sexual experiences. Learn more about Dr Emily here - https://emilyjamea.com/ Takeaways Flow state is a state of total absorption and focus during sexual experiences. Sensuality involves fully inhabiting the body and engaging the senses. Curiosity is essential for keeping the erotic experience alive in long-term relationships. Adaptability is necessary to navigate changes in sexual dynamics over time. Vulnerability allows for deeper emotional connections during intimacy. Attunement is crucial for synchronizing partners' experiences in the bedroom. Prioritizing sex is important for maintaining a healthy relationship. Trying new things together can reignite passion and excitement. Emotional connection is vital for a fulfilling sexual experience. Co-regulation of arousal can enhance pleasure and intimacy. On the Xtended Version ... Dr Emily and I go through the research she conducted to write this book. What surprised her? What's the biggest takeaway? And more. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift, head over to https://uncommonoods.com/passion Paired App for Couples: Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Anatomy Of Desire | Dr Emily Jamea #701 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this milestone 700th episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we reflect on the journey of the podcast, celebrating its impact on relationships and personal growth. Join us as we share listener voicemails and highlight key takeaways from our years of experience on the show.  Plus, we explore the act of the hug from behind. Is it ever non-sexual?  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Honey Love: Treat yourself to the best bras. Get 20% Off your entire order with our exclusive link - https://honeylove.com/SMR SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Celebrating 700 Episodes With Hugs From Behind #700 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this conversation, I'm joined by a colleague and friend Dr. Dave Jenkins as we dive deep into the concept of regression, particularly in the context of emotional states and relationships. We discuss how regression manifests as a brain state, the contagious nature of it in interpersonal dynamics, and the metaphor of the Mariana Trench to illustrate the depths of emotional regression. Our conversation also goes through strategies for recognizing and managing regression, the impact of intimacy on emotional states, and the importance of self-soothing and increasing one's buoyancy to navigate life's challenges effectively. Connect more with Dr Dave here - https://www.linkedin.com/in/davemjenkins/ Takeaways Regression is a brain state, not just an emotion. We all experience regression, regardless of intelligence. Regression can be contagious in relationships. Understanding regression helps in managing emotional responses. The Mariana Trench metaphor illustrates the depths of regression. Intimacy can trigger regression due to vulnerability. Self-soothing is essential for managing regression. Recognizing regression in oneself and others is crucial. Feelings are important and should not be ignored. Increasing buoyancy requires intentional strategies. On the Xtended Version ... Pam and I go through a story that depicts more about the tensions of differentiation in relationships. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy The post Navigating The Depths | Dr Dave Jenkins #699 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode I'm joined by Casey and Meygan Caston of Marriage 365 - we discuss the challenges couples face in maintaining healthy marriages. We dive into the importance of intentionality, self-reflection, and personal responsibility in relationships. And highlight the unrealistic expectations set by societal norms and media portrayals of marriage, and the need for couples to focus on their own growth to foster a better partnership. Our conversation also touches on the significance of emotional connections and the fleeting nature of material success in achieving true happiness.  There is an importance of empowerment in marriage, emphasizing that individuals should focus on self-improvement rather than solely relying on their partners. We believe that most marriage problems are fixable with the right tools and mindset, and hope to encourage couples to engage in meaningful communication and self-discovery. Learn more about Casey and Meygan at their site - https://marriage365.com Takeaways People desire healthy marriages but often lack a plan. Many couples are winging it and using hope as a strategy. Loneliness in marriage can lead to a ticking time bomb. Society's portrayal of marriage creates unrealistic expectations. Happiness is often sought in external factors rather than within. Self-reflection is crucial for personal and relational growth. Healthy relationships are built on emotional connections. Couples often put their relationships on pause during busy seasons. True happiness comes from meaningful connections with others. It's about the couple working on the marriage together. Marriages are about working on yourself. Your marriage is working on you more than you ever could on it. Nothing that matters in life is a quick fix. Most marriage problems are fixable. Curiosity unlocks conversations within a relationship. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Uncommon Goods: Get 15% off your next gift, head over to https://uncommonoods.com/passion Honey Love: Treat yourself to the best bras. Get 20% Off your entire order with our exclusive link - https://honeylove.com/SMR SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Problems Are Fixable | Casey and Meygan Caston #698 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

Life transitions can strain marriages, creating emotional challenges for couples. Balancing family responsibilities, like caring for aging parents, is a common struggle. The importance of maintaining connection through intentionality is emphasized, particularly with dedicated time for discussions. Effective communication is highlighted as crucial for understanding one another's perspectives. Small gestures and regular check-ins can significantly enhance relationship dynamics. Community engagement also offers valuable support for couples during tough times.

In this call-in show, I address the challenges faced by Julie - who has been married for over 30 years but have lost intimacy in the relationship. We discuss the complexities of rekindling their sexual life, the dynamics of desire, and the impact of erection issues on their intimacy. Our conversation emphasizes the importance of communication, understanding each other's needs, and embracing the awkwardness that comes with trying to reconnect. Ultimately, intimacy is not solely defined by sexual performance but also by emotional connection and mutual support. Takeaways Intimacy can fade over time due to various life circumstances. Open communication about desires and needs is crucial. Initiating intimacy can be challenging when past experiences create hesitation. Foreplay should be a continuous process, not limited to the bedroom. Understanding each other's sexual drives can help bridge gaps in intimacy. Erection issues can create pressure and anxiety in sexual encounters. It's important to reassure each other during intimate moments, regardless of the outcome. Embracing awkwardness can lead to growth and deeper connection. Intimacy is about more than just sexual performance; it's about connection. Recognizing that both partners have different needs and desires is essential for a healthy relationship. On the Xtended Version ... We continue the Power Moves conversation by focusing even more on our own part in the dynamics of marital communication and moves.  Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Green Chef: Eat healthier and get 50% off your first box + 50 FREE Credits with ClassPass https://greenchef.com/passionclass SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy The post How Do I Initiate In A Sexless Marriage? #696 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Dr. Corey and Pam discuss the dynamics of power in marriage, exploring how couples navigate desires and tensions. Our conversation highlights the complexity of perception in relationships, particularly in high meaning situations, and the impact of family dynamics. We stress the importance of making effective moves in conversations and understanding each partner's actions. The conversation concludes with insights on the nature of alliances in marriage and how to respond to patterns in marriage. Takeaways Understanding power dynamics is crucial in marriage. Couples often flounder in gridlock due to unclear perceptions. High meaning situations can exacerbate stress in relationships. Family dynamics play a significant role in marital issues. Effective communication is key to resolving conflicts. Observing your partner's moves can lead to better understanding. Recognizing the nature of your alliance can improve collaboration. Collusion in marriage can perpetuate unresolved issues. On the Xtended Version ... We pivot from seeing our spouse's moves better to understanding our own. Too often we make premature moves - or don't go far enough. Today we dive into common errors to watch out for and additional suggestions for improvement. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper with us, and get more support all along the way.https://smr.fm/academy The post Power Moves #695 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.