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In this conversation, Dean Pohlman of Man Flow Yoga joins me again as we discuss the importance of self-care for men, particularly through yoga and exercise. We explore the resistance many men face in prioritizing their health, the significance of consistency in fitness routines, and how adapting exercise as we age is crucial. We also touch on the mental wellness aspect of creating space in our lives and the ripple effect personal growth can have on those around us. To learn more about Dean check out https://manflowyoga.com/ Takeaways Men often resist self-care due to responsibilities to others. Taking care of oneself is essential for being able to care for others. Exercise can lead to a cascade of positive lifestyle changes. Sticking with an exercise program is challenging due to societal pressures. Setting short-term goals, like 28-day challenges, can help maintain motivation. As we age, we need to adapt our fitness routines to include flexibility and mobility work. Just because something is normal doesn't mean it's acceptable. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … Let's pick up the conversation from Christmas Day episode of is sex an acceptable gift to give? There are two sides to this ... let's explore them both. Sponsors … Factor Meals: Eat smart with Factor. Get started at https://factormeals.com/passion50off to get 50% off your first box! Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Men’s Health Is Vital | Dean Pohlman #713 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss the importance of understanding readiness for penetrative sex. What are the biological markers, communication cues, and the emotional aspects necessary for enjoyable sex for her? And for him? How does this apply particularly in the context of pain and trauma? Our conversation highlights the need for both spouses to be attuned to each other's bodies and desires, fostering a deeper connection and understanding in their sexual relationship. Takeaways Understanding readiness for penetrative sex involves both partners. Biological markers include physical signs of arousal. Communication is key in understanding each other's readiness. Emotional and mental readiness is as important as physical readiness. Pain and trauma can affect sexual experiences and readiness. Exploring one's own body enhances sexual experiences. Both partners should be aware of their own and each other's bodies. Enjoy the show! On the Xtended version … We explore more about the idea of Collaborative Alliances. What makes them more difficult in marriage as opposed to other relationships? Sponsors … Paired: Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post When Is She Ready For Sex? #712 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this conversation pulled from the vault, we revisit a conversation with John Eldredge as we discuss the impact of busyness and unhealed trauma on relationships. John brings up the concept of inner ages and how unresolved childhood trauma can surface in adult relationships. It is important to create space for our younger selves and having honest conversations about the needs and fears that arise. We also discuss the fragility of the world and how it can affect individuals and relationships.  Learn more from John here - https://wildatheart.org/ Takeaways Busyness can take a toll on relationships, leading to a lack of leisure time and personal well-being. Unhealed childhood trauma can resurface in adult relationships, causing emotional challenges and conflicts. Tuning into inner ages and understanding the needs of younger selves can help navigate relationship dynamics. Honesty and open communication about fears and needs can foster intimacy and understanding in relationships. Enjoy the show! Sponsors ... Factor Meals: Eat smart with Factor. Get started at https://factormeals.com/passion50off to get 50% off your first box! Academy: Join the Academy and go deeper. https://smr.fm/academy The post Best Of SMR Busyness and Unhealed Trauma | John Eldredge #711 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

This week we discuss the nuances of married life and sex, emphasizing the importance of reframing conversations around intimacy. We explore practical tips for enhancing sexual experiences in 2025 (but perhaps not in the way you may think intitially), the significance of body confidence, and the deeper understanding of adult desire. Our conversation challenges societal norms and encourages you to embrace your unique sexual journeys. On the Xtended Version ... We continue the theme of the show by looking at bad sex words. What exactly does this mean?  Listen to the XTD to find out. Sponsors ... Everylove Intimates: Get a date night in a box and add flavor and spice to your marriage. Use the code SMR to get 20% off. https://smr.fm/everylove SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Great Sex In 2025 #710 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, Pam and I discuss the complexities oral sex and the impact of past trauma. A listener emails about the challenges faced in their sexual relationship, including feelings of resentment and the influence of past experiences. Which sets the stage for a conversation about the importance of communication, the significance of the 69 position, and the potential for personal growth and healing through intimacy. Ultimately - we all need to face our issues head-on in order to explore new avenues of connection and pleasure. On the Xtended Version ... As we head into 2025, we use 3 words to help frame our new year goals. Listen as we go through ours. Sponsors ... Everylove Intimates: Get a date night in a box and add flavor and spice to your marriage. Use the code SMR to get 20% off. https://smr.fm/everylove SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Let’s Talk 69 #709 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this Christmas Day episode of Sexy Marriage Radio, we discuss a particular nuance of marriage and sex - focusing on the idea of sex as a gift. We explore the dynamics of power in sexual relationships, the importance of self-reflection, and how personal growth can enhance marital satisfaction. Our conversation encourages listeners to consider their motivations and the spirit they bring to their relationships, emphasizing that the best gift one can give to their marriage is to work on themselves. What's your thought? Call us and let us know 214-702-9565 Sponsors ... SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Is Sex An Acceptable Christmas Gift? #708 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode Pam and I discuss the complexities of pressure in marriage, focusing on the nuances of desire dynamics and the importance of collaboration. We explore the challenges faced by higher desire spouses, the role of pressure in relationships, and the significance of maturity and growth in navigating these dynamics. Our conversation emphasizes the need for open communication, understanding, and a commitment to learning from each other to foster a vibrant and fulfilling marriage. On the Xtended Version ... As we head into 2025, there are several truisms we look at that will help us all be better in life and marriage. Sponsors ... Everylove Intimates: Get a date night in a box and add flavor and spice to your marriage. Use the code SMR to get 20% off. https://smr.fm/everylove SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Marriage Is Pressure #707 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode Pam and I discuss the complexities of sexual desires within marriage, particularly focusing on the impact of pornography. We explore the nuances of attraction, the importance of communication in relationships, and the need for maturity in handling desires. Our conversation emphasizes the significance of honoring one's character and the choices made in the context of marriage, while also addressing the challenges posed by societal norms and personal desires. On the Xtended Version ... There is a difference between cutting someone off in family relationships vs walking away from them.  What is this difference you say? Listen to find out. Sponsors ... Paired App for couples: Practice love every day with Paired, the #1 app for couples. Download the app at https://www.paired.com/SMR Everylove Intimates: Get a date night in a box and add flavor and spice to your marriage. https://smr/fm/everylove SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post I Like Naked People #706 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

In this episode, I'm joined again by Sam Jolman as we explore the complexities of male sexuality, emphasizing the importance of understanding and embodying one's sexuality without shame. We believe there is a need for deeper conversations around sexual behavior, relational dynamics, and the impact of maturity on sexual potential. We also touch on the challenges of navigating desire, vulnerability, and the interpretations of lust within a faith context, advocating for a more nuanced approach to sexual education. We explore some common misinterpretations of biblical passages regarding lust, the biological responses to beauty, and the importance of self-awareness in navigating desires. Our dialogue emphasizes the shift from viewing lust negatively to recognizing it as a natural human experience that can lead to deeper emotional connections, especially in marriage. We also touch on the idea of healthy lust and the ongoing journey of intimacy and growth in long-term relationships. Sponsors ... Public Rec: Upgrade your wardrobe instantly and save 20% off with the code passion at https://www.publicrec.com/passion #publicrecpod SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Lust and Desire | Sam Jolman #705 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.

This week revisit a Best Of epsiode from the vault. A husband and wife will usually incorporate the use of a vibrator during their sexual encounters together. But when the husband goes to retrieve the toy it often is in another place. His wife says she isn’t moving it. What’s going on? A husband wants to use a toy for prostate play. They tried it once and now the wife is unwilling to try it again. On the Xtended Version ... A wife is bored in her sex life, even though her husband is very caring and attentive. To further complicate things, she doesn’t know what would liven up her sex life. What can she do? Sponsors ... Honey Love: Treat yourself to the best bras. Get up to 60% OFF your entire order with our exclusive link – https://honeylove.com/SMR SMR Getaway: Come get away with us June 19-21, 2025 in downtown Ft Worth. https://smr.fm/getaway The post Best of SMR: Unilateral Moves #704 first appeared on Sexy Marriage Radio.