

Relationships at Work - a trust-driven leadership podcast
Russel Lolacher
Relationships at Work - the leadership podcast helping you build workplace connection, improve culture, and avoid blind spots. A relatable and honest show on leadership, organizational culture and soft skills, focusing on improving employee engagement and company culture to inspire people to apply, stay and thrive. Because no one wants leadership that fosters toxic environments at work, nor should they.Host, speaker and communications leader Russel Lolacher shares his experience and insights, discussing the leadership and corporate culture topics that matter with global experts help us with the success of our organizations (regardless of industry). This show will give you the information, education, strategies and tips you need to avoid leadership blind spots, better connect with all levels of our organization, and develop the necessary soft skills that are essential to every organization.From leadership development and training to employee satisfaction to diversity, inclusivity, equity and belonging to personalization and engagement... there are so many aspects and opportunities to build great relationships at workThis is THE place to start and nurture our leadership journey and create an amazing workplace.
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Jul 23, 2025 • 10min
Leadership Development Is a Shared Journey
This is part 3 of a 4-part conversation on the context we need for improving leadership development.Great leadership development isn’t done in isolation—it’s done with the team. In this Relationships at Work episode, Dr. Rob Lion explains how leaders can use trust, vulnerability, and shared growth to develop themselves and those around them. Russel Lolacher explores how team engagement and development can be intentional, relational, and central to leadership success.🔍 You’ll learn:How to integrate development into 1:1s and team meetingsWhy vulnerability is key to real engagementHow to grow trust through shared learningWhy leadership development should build your team, not just yourselfAnd connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 22, 2025 • 13min
Leadership Development Starts With Self-Awareness
This is part 2 of a 4-part conversation on the context we need for improving leadership development.You can’t develop as a leader if you don’t understand yourself. In this Relationships at Work episode, Dr. Rob Lion digs into the internal foundation of leadership development—mindset, identity, motivation, and the courage to seek help. With Russel Lolacher, he explores why self-awareness is non-negotiable and how leaders can stop outsourcing responsibility and start owning their growth.🔍 You’ll learn:Why mindset is the foundation of leadership developmentThe difference between motivation and driveWhat coaching (not outsourcing) looks likeHow identity and values shape how we leadAnd connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 21, 2025 • 20min
Why Leadership Development Fails Without Clarity
This is part 1 of a 4-part conversation on the context we need for improving leadership development. Leadership development starts with understanding what leadership actually is—but most organizations skip that step entirely. In this Relationships at Work episode, Dr. Rob Lion joins Russel Lolacher to unpack the leadership confusion so many organizations suffer from. Together, they explore why we conflate productivity with leadership, why style-based development doesn’t work, and how a lack of shared definition breaks everything downstream.🔍 You’ll learn:Why clarity is foundational in leadership developmentThe danger of copying poor role modelsWhere post-secondary education misses the markWhat a strong leadership identity looks likeAnd connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 18, 2025 • 34min
What Inclusion Really Means at Work (And Why We’re Still Getting It Wrong)
Inclusion is one of the most talked-about values in the modern workplace—but also one of the most misunderstood. We say the word, we build strategies around it, but do we actually know what it looks and feels like?In this episode of Relationships at Work, host Russel Lolacher welcomes Peter Andrew Danzig — LSW, MSS, MA, CCPT, CPT — a trauma-informed therapist, inclusion strategist, and performing arts professional, to challenge conventional thinking around workplace inclusion.Together, they explore:Why the “everyone at the table” definition isn’t enoughHow belonging is the true measure of inclusionThe crucial difference between responsibility and accountability in DEIThe cost of conflict avoidance in leadershipWhy HR can’t (and shouldn’t) shoulder inclusion aloneWhat it actually means to bring your full self to workThis conversation isn’t about checking boxes. It’s about redefining inclusion as a lived, evolving, and shared responsibility—and how organizations can move from intention to real impact.Hey! If you're enjoying the insights from our guests, you'll love our R@W Notes Newsletter. It’s packed with guest takeaways, the resources that inspire them, and my own tips on how we as leaders can be better humans for the humans the are responsible for. Go to RelationshipsAtWorkShow.com and Subscribe Now and help the workplace be more human.And connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 17, 2025 • 12min
Belonging Isn’t HR’s Job—It’s Everyone’s Responsibility
This is part 4 of a 4-part conversation on the work leaders need to do to incorporate belonging in the workplace with author and research Dr. Beth Kaplan. Each episode explores a different theme—clarity, self-awareness, team dynamics, and workplace culture. Workplace culture often undermines belonging, even with the best of intentions. In this episode, we explore the difference between performative and real belonging, the disconnect between values and actions, and why DEI and belonging should be treated as distinct (but related) priorities. This is a wake-up call for leaders at every level.🎙️ Featuring the expertise of Dr. Beth Kaplan, belonging and leadership expert.Discussion includes:Why “we’re a family” sends the wrong messageThe problem with outsourcing belonging to HRWhy DEI ≠ belonging (and what to do about it)How to embed belonging in the culture, not just the commsAnd connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 16, 2025 • 11min
Leading with Care: The Everyday Actions That Build Team Belonging
This is part 3 of a 4-part conversation on the work leaders need to do to incorporate belonging in the workplace with author and research Dr. Beth Kaplan. Each episode explores a different theme—clarity, self-awareness, team dynamics, and workplace culture.Belonging doesn’t happen by accident—it’s built through consistent, intentional leadership. In this episode, we explore what care really looks like from a team perspective, how one-on-ones can foster trust, and the key leadership habits that make people feel seen, valued, and supported.🎙️ Featuring expert commentary from belonging researcher Dr. Beth Kaplan.Key takeaways:Why care is the #1 value employees wantHow to lead more meaningful one-on-onesThe power of candor, advocacy, and consistencyHow to show up with both humanity and structureAnd connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 15, 2025 • 11min
You Can’t Create Belonging for Others If You Don’t Have It Yourself
This is part 2 of a 4-part conversation on the work leaders need to do to incorporate belonging in the workplace with author and research Dr. Beth Kaplan. Each episode explores a different theme—clarity, self-awareness, team dynamics, and workplace culture.Before we can lead others into belonging, we need to start with ourselves. This episode explores how self-worth, trauma, and emotional safety play a foundational role in how we show up as leaders. We look at the internal work required to foster belonging—not as a reward for performance, but as a decision to value who we are.🎙️ With personal and research-backed insight from author and researcher Dr. Beth Kaplan.What you’ll hear:A powerful story of burnout and survivalWhy belonging can’t be earned through overworkHow workplace PTSD travels with usThe self-awareness required for true leadershipAnd connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 14, 2025 • 17min
What Belonging Really Means at Work (And Why Most Get It Wrong)
This is part 1 of a 4-part conversation on the work leaders need to do to incorporate belonging in the workplace with author and research Dr. Beth Kaplan. Each episode explores a different theme—clarity, self-awareness, team dynamics, and workplace culture.Belonging isn’t the same as fitting in—and the difference matters. In this episode, we define what belonging truly is and how most organizations misunderstand or misuse the term. We explore why clarity around belonging matters and how vague values and misaligned language can erode trust and workplace culture.🎙️ Featuring expert insight from Dr. Beth Kaplan, author of Braving the Workplace: Belonging at the Breaking Point.Topics covered:What belonging actually meansThe difference between inclusion and belongingWhy performative values harm cultureHow to tell if your organization is doing it rightAnd connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 11, 2025 • 31min
How to Speak Boldly at Work (Without Burning Bridges)
In this episode of Relationships at Work, we explore what it truly means to speak boldly in the workplace—and why it’s more about connection than confrontation.Joining us is Verna Myers, renowned inclusion strategist, author, and former Netflix VP of Inclusion Strategy. She shares powerful lessons on how to challenge harmful behaviors, speak truth to power, and communicate across difference with clarity and courage. From managing emotions to knowing when to pause, Verna offers strategies for bold communication that builds trust—not fear.🗣️ Topics include:The difference between speaking and truly communicatingWhy psychological safety starts with leadershipHow to challenge bias without causing shutdownTips for preparing (and practicing) for high-stakes momentsThe role of curiosity, compassion, and timing in speaking upWhether you're a leader or just finding your voice, Verna’s insight will change how you show up in difficult conversations.Hey! If you're enjoying the insights from our guests, you'll love our R@W Notes Newsletter. It’s packed with guest takeaways, the resources that inspire them, and my own tips on how we as leaders can be better humans for the humans the are responsible for. Go to RelationshipsAtWorkShow.com and Subscribe Now and help the workplace be more human.And connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime

Jul 10, 2025 • 14min
You Can’t Rely on Culture to Save You (But You Can Still Lead Change)
This is part 4 of a 4-part series on leading through high pressure at work, with licensed psychologist Dr. Janna Koretz. Each episode explores a different theme—clarity, self-awareness, team dynamics, and workplace culture.Tired of waiting for HR or leadership to fix your toxic work culture? Dr. Janna Koretz gets real about what organizations won’t do for your mental health—and how you can still thrive. We dig into the power of micro-shifts, how to lead by example, and why “playing the game” sometimes isn’t avoidable. For leaders trying to be human in high-demand workplaces, this episode is a guide to navigating culture without losing yourself.And connect with me for more great content! Sign Up for R@W Notes Subscribe on Youtube Follow on Linkedin Follow on Instagram Follow me on Threads Follow on TikTok Email me anytime


