
Solo – The Single Person’s Guide to a Remarkable Life
“Solo - The Single Person's Guide to a Remarkable Life” by Dr. Peter McGraw, seeks to celebrate and destigmatize single living. Welcome to the podcast that explores how being single affords you the freedom to be adventurous, start a business, make art, travel the world, get in shape, or simply sleep in when you want to. Join Peter – behavioral scientist, humor researcher, and bachelor – as he interviews happy single men and women and assembles advice from leading experts about health, fitness, money, business, travel, fashion, art, leisure, and of course, sex and dating. For the so-called spinster or bachelor, Solo is the resource for people who are happily single (aka the unapologetically unattached).
Latest episodes

Jun 3, 2025 • 1h 7min
A Rich Remarkable Life (Again)
In this re-release of a thought-provoking episode, Peter McGraw is joined by Dr. Erin Westgate for a lively exploration of what it means to live a psychologically rich life. Moving beyond the usual narratives of happiness and meaning, this episode introduces a third path—one filled with novelty, complexity, and perspective-changing experiences. From solo travel to one-way tickets, Peter and Erin unpack how embracing uncertainty and pursuing the unconventional can lead to a more remarkable life. With so many new members joining the Solo community, this conversation is well worth revisiting. Tune in and start enriching your life—on your own terms!Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.petermcgraw.org/solo

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May 20, 2025 • 1h 5min
Meditations For (Single) Mortals
Oliver Burkeman, an author acclaimed for his works on time management and human limitations, joins to redefine productivity. He discusses the beauty of embracing imperfection and the folly of perfectionism, urging listeners to acknowledge life's limits for a more meaningful existence. Through the concept of 'scruffy hospitality,' Burkeman emphasizes authentic connections over flawless social interactions. He advocates for the '70% principle' to combat procrastination and shares insights on managing life’s inevitable challenges with grace.

May 6, 2025 • 1h 8min
Did The Covid Pandemic Fuel The Solo Movement?
Peter McGraw is joined by Mary Dahm and Shane Mauss to reflect on how the pandemic disrupted everything—and unexpectedly liberated Solos. From lockdown revelations to pandemic breakups, we explore how COVID accelerated a shift toward independence, self-reliance, and living a life off the relationship escalator.Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.petermcgraw.org/solo

Apr 22, 2025 • 1h 15min
Are You A Lone Wolf?
Are you a lone wolf? Live from the HiFi Homestead, Peter McGraw is joined by his good friend—comedian, science communicator, and self-professed lone wolf—Shane Mauss, for a deep dive into solitude, survival, and the myths we tell about ourselves.Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.petermcgraw.org/solo

Apr 15, 2025 • 1h 15min
Friend Breakups
Join dating coach Janice Formichella, known for her insightful breakup strategies, and Julie Nirvelli, an entrepreneur and single mom, as they tackle the often-ignored topic of friend breakups. They discuss the emotional intricacies involved in ending friendships, emphasizing the importance of communication, compassion, and clarity. The duo contrasts fizzling and finalizing breakups while exploring qualities of true friendship, like integrity and support. Packed with real talk and personal stories, it’s a refreshing take on navigating relationships beyond romance.

Mar 28, 2025 • 1h 36min
Relationship Design (Again)
In this re-release of a popular episode, Peter McGraw welcomes Jessalyn Dean into the Solo Studio for a deep dive into Relationship Design—the art of co-creating intentional, customized relationships that truly work for you. Instead of following default scripts, Relationship Design encourages open communication, mutual agreements, and regular check-ins to ensure relationships remain fulfilling and adaptive over time. This conversation is too important not to revisit—especially with so many new members joining the Solo movement. Listen in and start designing!Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.petermcgraw.org/solo

Mar 6, 2025 • 1h 22min
Listener Questions #2
In this AMA episode, Peter McGraw welcomes back familiar guest Julie Nirvelli to tackle questions from the Solo community. From Solo Salons and international moves to personality types and relationship design, they dive into thought-provoking topics about solo living, dating, and self-discovery. Plus, an update on Peter’s latest projects—including the Solo workbook!Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.petermcgraw.org/solo

Feb 18, 2025 • 55min
Creating Your Solo Space
Explore the art of designing a solo space that mirrors your independence and values. Learn how to curate your environment for well-being and creativity. Discover the balance between solitude and welcoming guests in your sanctuary. Understand the importance of location and lifestyle choices for a fulfilling life. Delve into the value of 'third spaces' for social connections and community. Get inspired by innovative living solutions and personalized decor tips that enhance comfort and productivity.

Feb 9, 2025 • 1h 15min
Creative Journeys
How can creativity fuel a remarkable Solo life? Writer and storytelling expert Carrie Osgood joins Peter McGraw in the Solo Studio to explore using storytelling to embrace unconventional choices, alternative narrative frameworks beyond the Hero’s Journey, and how art can be a tool for personal transformation. Listen now and start rewriting your own story!Love the show? Subscribe, rate, review, and share! https://www.petermcgraw.org/solo

Jan 14, 2025 • 60min
Valuing Yourself (Again)
In this engaging discussion, Sarah Stinson shares her personal journey of self-valuation and the power of setting boundaries, while Lawrence Williams emphasizes practical strategies for fostering personal growth. The conversation delves into embracing self-worth in relationships and navigating the complexities of dating with authenticity. They explore the disconnect between expectations and reality in love, alongside insights on the importance of valuing time and making meaningful choices. Ultimately, they inspire listeners to prioritize self-care and invest in their inherent worth.