

Cara Says It All
Cara Alwill
Welcome to Cara Says It All! Formerly known as Style Your Mind, this podcast has empowered millions worldwide with over 11 million downloads and features in Forbes and Oprah. I’m Cara Alwill, your host and go-to for unfiltered conversations on life, love, creativity, and everything that shapes us. I’m here to remind you that the power to create your own story starts now—boldly, unapologetically, and without limits. Whether you’re here for inspiration, a laugh, or a perspective shift, buckle up because we’re going deep and keeping it real. Welcome to the conversation!
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Aug 29, 2022 • 38min
Hot Tips for Dating with More Confidence with Expert Dating Coach, Adelle Kelleher
In today's episode, I'm chatting with Adelle Kelleher, expert dating coach, about how to date more confidently. She's dishing her 4 C's to dating: Connect, Communicate, Confidence and Comfortability. If you've been dreading first dates, or if you feel like you've lost your way, this episode will help you take your power back! Grab a glass of wine and get ready to dig in. ABOUT ADELLE: Adelle is an Expert Dating Coach for the modern world. Through years of being a professional matchmaker, creating countless marriages and long term relationships, plus decades of personal dating experiences, she has developed a personalized approach to coaching. Adelle focuses on identifying patterns, finding quality partners, uncovering your authentic needs, and how to establish a happy and healthy relationship. It's time to find the love you've been missing. Find Adelle at CoachingHearts.com

Aug 9, 2022 • 12min
How to Stop a Negative Thought Spiral
Has your mind ever felt like a runaway train, creating worst-case scenarios and letting fear take center stage? In today's episode, I'm sharing my best practices for stopping a spiral in it's tracks so you can get back to your best life.

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Jun 15, 2022 • 11min
How to Stop Waiting + Start Creating Opportunities
When is the last time you created a real opportunity for yourself? Do you find yourself watching others live their best lives and build their dream businesses, wishing you could do the same for yourself? In today's episode, I'm talking about why it's so important to stop waiting and start putting yourself out there when it comes to your goals. Powerful women choose themselves, but it takes a mindset shift and a new perspective to do it. This conversation will show you how.

May 15, 2022 • 17min
Life (and Love) is Not Linear
In today's episode, I'm talking about: How life doesn't always play out the way we expect it to, but always the way we need it to What to do when things don't go as planned How my biggest heartbreak led me to where I am today

Apr 14, 2022 • 14min
How to Stop Overthinking
How many times have you found yourself in a spiral of overthinking? Do you often create stories in your head about things, overanalyze conversations or situations, and get stuck in your mind? In today's episode, I'm helping you stop the cycle of overthinking and master your thoughts so you can live better. Thank you to our sponsor, Whatskin! Download the Whatskin app now to get a free skincare analysis and a customized shop just for you so that you can find the right products to make your skin more radiant, healthy and flawless. Use code CARA20 to get 20% off (no minimum purchase required!)

Apr 9, 2022 • 15min
How to Trust the Timing of Your Life
If you've ever struggled with understanding why things are happening in your life, why something is taking so long to work out, or why you've had to face certain challenges, this episode is for you! Thank you to our sponsor, Whatskin! Download the Whatskin app now to get a free skincare analysis and a customized shop just for you so that you can find the right products to make your skin more radiant, healthy and flawless. Use code CARA20 to get 20% off (no minimum purchase required!)

Mar 30, 2022 • 6min
Don't Lose Your Edge
In a world obsessed with telling women to calm down, hold off, wait for an invitation, lower their voice, let the man lead, be humble, take up less space, and be anything but who they truly are, I’m here to remind you that you’re f*ing perfect. In today's quick pep talk, I'm helping you keep your edge and stop dumbing yourself down - for anyone.

Mar 28, 2022 • 11min
How to Become MAGNETIC + Create Magic in Your Life
Have you ever noticed there is a "je ne sais quoi" about certain women who seem to get everything they want? They appear to move effortlessly through the world, exuding an unapologetic energy that seems to attract the best of the best? These women are confident, happy, and free. They are not burdened by worry or stress; they are simply living, and it's beautiful. In today's episode, I'm going to help you tap into that exact vibe. Get ready to take notes - this is a good one! Don't forget to check out our sponsor, the Whatskin app! Click here to download it now and get your free skincare analysis and regimen in minutes. Be sure to use code CARA20 to recieve 20% off all products in the shop :)

Mar 9, 2022 • 13min
Kill The Old You: Change the Way You Feel to Attract What You Want NOW
Apply for the Girl on Fire Mastermind here. It's impossible to magnetize the things we want when our vibe is off. When we identify with a version of ourselves that never gets what she wants. When we feel low, drained, and disenchanted. In today's episode, I'm sharing tangible tips and shifts you can use right now to "kill the old you" and start attracting what you want now.

Mar 1, 2022 • 11min
Your New Life Will Cost You Your Old One
Have you ever felt paralyzed at the thought of making changes in your life? No matter how badly we want something, it can be challenging to see ourselves as the person who can actually make it happen. So we wait. We put our success in the hands of "fate" or someone else who can give us our big break. Then, when it doesn't happen, we tell our old tired story of how we're "unlucky", we're not worthy, and that we'll never have the life we want. In today's episode, I'm sharing my best tips and my own personal process on how to see things differently, and release the thoughts and things that are keeping you stuck. Grab a notebook, you'll want to take notes for this one.