

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
Welcome to “Let’s Talk Attachments”, a podcast all about ATTACHMENT THEORY! My name is Jessica Da Silva and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Attachment Coach helping you transform the way you experience love by teaching you the ins and outs of your attachment style in a practical and relatable way.
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Episodes
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Jul 31, 2024 • 1h 11min
A Males Perspective on Having an Anxious Attachment Style With Jason Berry
Today on the podcast, we have Jason Berry. He is a podcaster, entrepreneur, and amateur Hyrax athlete. A few months ago, I was a guest speaker on his podcast @awakenoutofcontext, where we discussed attachment styles. I loved his vulnerability and personal insights so much that I invited him onto my podcast to talk more about his experience with having an anxious attachment style.
In this episode, he shares:
-A male's perspective on having an anxious attachment style.
-Dating as an anxious attacher.
-The anxious attachments' natural inclination and attraction to people with an avoidant attachment style.
-His experience with shifting from anxious to avoidant attachment after heartbreak.
-How alcohol exacerbated his insecurities as an anxious attachment style.
-How he better navigates his insecurities as someone who aims to be more secure.
Find Jason here:
linktr.ee/awakenoutofjason
Instagram: @awakenoutofjason
Attachment Coaching with Jessica:
www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Jul 24, 2024 • 24min
The Attachment Styles and Taking Things Personally
If you have an anxious, dismissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant attachment style, it’s most likely you are self-conscious and therefore take things personally. This can be problematic as we can distort the reality of a situation and therefore engage in self-sabotaging behaviors.
In this episode, I share how each insecure attachment style takes things personally, the implications, and how to stop.
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My Secure Self Group Coaching Program: https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-case-study

Jun 23, 2024 • 28min
How the Attachment Styles Experience Being Single
In this weeks podcast episode I talk about how anxious, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant and secure attachments experience single-hood and ways to navigate these often challenging phases with more ease.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Jun 3, 2024 • 20min
Recovering From Heartbreak (Through a Secure Lens)
In this episode, I share my personal experience of recovering from my recent breakup of almost 7 years (from a secure approach).
Is the grass greener on the other side? Tune in to learn more :)
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1-1 Attachment Coaching With Me: https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2

May 27, 2024 • 13min
How to Communicate With Someone Who Has Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style
Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn helpful tips on how to communicate with someone who has a fearful avoidant attachment style.——— 1-1 Attachment Coaching: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

May 14, 2024 • 20min
How to Communicate With Someone Who Has a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style
Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn what these emotional needs are for the dismissive avoidant attachment style, how to address them, and helpful tips for effective communication.
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1-1 Attachment Coaching: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

May 8, 2024 • 33min
How to Communicate With Someone Who Has an Anxious Attachment Style
Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn what these emotional needs are, how to address them with those you love, and helpful tips on how to communicate effectively to create emotional intimacy.
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Attachment Coaching (for individual’s and couples) - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Apr 24, 2024 • 19min
Four Steps to Connect to Your “Secure Self”
In this week's podcast episode, I share four practical ways to connect to your “secure self” so that you can make decisions from a place of authenticity versus insecurity.
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Attachment Coaching - Let’s work together - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Apr 4, 2024 • 35min
To Stay or Break-up? Leaving My Relationship of Six Years (Personal Share)
Many of you know I was in a relationship for over six years. Though it was a beautiful relationship and healthy in many ways, some major core differences and incompatibilities made it challenging. In this episode, I share the struggle with navigating fear versus truth in our decisions and the importance of trusting yourself.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Mar 14, 2024 • 44min
Overcoming Relationship Jealousy With Shanenn Bryant
Today on the podcast, we have Shanenn Bryant, a relationship confidence expert, and the host of the Top Self podcast. Shanenn has inspired thousands to break up with bogus beliefs, crack the control code, and overhaul their insecure habits.
We talk about:
-How jealousy can manifest in your relationships.
-How to change your relationship to jealousy.
-Viewing jealousy as a symptom and solution to your underlying attachment wounds.
-Steps to navigate jealousy in a healthy, secure way.
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Find Shanenn:
Website- www.topself.com
Instagram- @topselfcoach
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Find Jessica:
Website- www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram- @thejessicadasilva