

LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Jessica Da Silva, LMFT
I’m Jessica Da Silva—a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Attachment Coach, and author—here to help you transform the way you experience love through practical, relatable insight. Along with breaking down attachment styles in an easy-to-understand way, I share my own personal journey of moving toward secure attachment, real client stories, conversations with guest experts, and tools you can use to heal and create healthier relationships.
Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Coaching: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Episodes
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Jun 23, 2024 • 28min
How the Attachment Styles Experience Being Single
In this weeks podcast episode I talk about how anxious, dismissive avoidant, fearful avoidant and secure attachments experience single-hood and ways to navigate these often challenging phases with more ease.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Jun 3, 2024 • 20min
Recovering From Heartbreak (Through a Secure Lens)
In this episode, I share my personal experience of recovering from my recent breakup of almost 7 years (from a secure approach).
Is the grass greener on the other side? Tune in to learn more :)
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1-1 Attachment Coaching With Me: https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2

May 27, 2024 • 13min
How to Communicate With Someone Who Has Fearful Avoidant Attachment Style
Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn helpful tips on how to communicate with someone who has a fearful avoidant attachment style.——— 1-1 Attachment Coaching: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

May 14, 2024 • 20min
How to Communicate With Someone Who Has a Dismissive Avoidant Attachment Style
Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn what these emotional needs are for the dismissive avoidant attachment style, how to address them, and helpful tips for effective communication.
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1-1 Attachment Coaching: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

May 8, 2024 • 33min
How to Communicate With Someone Who Has an Anxious Attachment Style
Communication is important because it meets fundamental emotional needs that are at the root of our challenges. In this episode, you will learn what these emotional needs are, how to address them with those you love, and helpful tips on how to communicate effectively to create emotional intimacy.
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Attachment Coaching (for individual’s and couples) - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Apr 24, 2024 • 19min
Four Steps to Connect to Your “Secure Self”
In this week's podcast episode, I share four practical ways to connect to your “secure self” so that you can make decisions from a place of authenticity versus insecurity.
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Attachment Coaching - Let’s work together - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Apr 4, 2024 • 35min
To Stay or Break-up? Leaving My Relationship of Six Years (Personal Share)
Many of you know I was in a relationship for over six years. Though it was a beautiful relationship and healthy in many ways, some major core differences and incompatibilities made it challenging. In this episode, I share the struggle with navigating fear versus truth in our decisions and the importance of trusting yourself.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Mar 14, 2024 • 44min
Overcoming Relationship Jealousy With Shanenn Bryant
Today on the podcast, we have Shanenn Bryant, a relationship confidence expert, and the host of the Top Self podcast. Shanenn has inspired thousands to break up with bogus beliefs, crack the control code, and overhaul their insecure habits.
We talk about:
-How jealousy can manifest in your relationships.
-How to change your relationship to jealousy.
-Viewing jealousy as a symptom and solution to your underlying attachment wounds.
-Steps to navigate jealousy in a healthy, secure way.
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Find Shanenn:
Website- www.topself.com
Instagram- @topselfcoach
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Find Jessica:
Website- www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram- @thejessicadasilva

Mar 1, 2024 • 51min
Trauma Recovery for Attachment Styles With Rowan Garlow
Today on the podcast, we have Rowan Garlow, a trauma recovery practitioner who utilizes Voice Dialogue, Somatic Experiencing, Inner Child, and Soul Retrieval for healing and integrating unresolved trauma.
We talk about:
-What is trauma recovery work?
-What attachment trauma looks like specifically.
-How trauma manifests in our behaviors.
-Why your “over-reactions” are gateways to your healing.
-How to heal attachment trauma.
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Find Rowan:
Website- www.rowangarlow.com
Instagram- @rowangarlow
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Find Jessica:
Website- www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram- @thejessicadasilva

Feb 19, 2024 • 23min
Why We Tolerate Difficult Relationships
In this episode, I talk about why each attachment style tolerates difficult or painful relationships, why we aren’t stuck to these ways of experiencing love, and tips on how to move beyond our limitations.
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Find me here:
1:1 Attachment Coaching - www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Instagram - @thejessicadasilva


