
LET’S TALK ATTACHMENTS
Welcome to “Let’s Talk Attachments”, a podcast all about ATTACHMENT THEORY! My name is Jessica Da Silva and I’m a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist & Attachment Coach helping you transform the way you experience love by teaching you the ins and outs of your attachment style in a practical and relatable way.
Website: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com/
Instagram: @thejessicadasilva
Tiktok: @jessicadasilvacoaching
Email: hello@jessicadasilvacoaching.com
Latest episodes

Jan 5, 2024 • 12min
Difference Between Needs and Expectations
In this week's podcast episode, I talk about the difference between needs and expectations. Understanding this distinction can alleviate anxiety and create more fulfilling relationships.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2
My Secure Self E-Course - https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course

Dec 27, 2023 • 16min
How To Stop Attracting Toxic People
In this week's podcast episode, I address the fear many of us hold about why we attract toxic people and the real (transformative) questions we need to be asking ourselves instead.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2
My Secure Self E-Course - https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course

Dec 18, 2023 • 19min
How Alcoholic Parent(s) Influence the Development of Our Attachment Style
PODCAST
In this week's podcast episode, I share how having alcoholic parents (one or both) can influence the development of anxious, dismissive avoidant or fearful avoidant attachment style, as well as steps you can take to shift these patterns and learned identity.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2
My Secure Self - https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course

Dec 8, 2023 • 27min
How I Navigate the Distance in My Relationship (Anxious - Avoidant Dynamic)
In this week's podcast episode, I share my personal experience with navigating the distance in my relationship, as we tend to spend long periods apart due to the nature of his work. I also talk about the challenges of anxious-avoidant dynamics and how we make it work.
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1:1 Attachment Coaching - https://www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com/coach-with-me-2
My Secure Self - https://jessicadasilva.mykajabi.com/my-secure-self-e-course

Nov 29, 2023 • 17min
How To Navigate Relationship Ambivalence (Aka, Confusion and Indecision)
Relationship ambivalence (aka, confusion or indecision) is very common for those of us who have an anxious, dismissive avoidant, or fearful avoidant attachment style. In this episode, I help you understand your ambivalence and give you steps to take on how to navigate these complexities with more clarity.

Nov 24, 2023 • 48min
Putting Myself First with Alicia (Client Stories)
Today on the podcast we have a special guest. Alicia is a former attachment coaching client of mine sharing her experience with having an anxious attachment style, learning to let go of control, prioritizing herself and her needs, healing from heartache and abandonment trauma, and understanding how her attachment style impacts so many significant areas of her life.
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Nov 16, 2023 • 11min
How to Measure Your Progress in Developing a Secure Attachment Style
Dismantle misconceptions about developing a secure attachment style and learn how to measure your progress accurately.
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Coach with me: jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 26, 2023 • 22min
How Each Attachment Style Experiences 5 Stages of a Relationship
Learn about how each attachment style moves through the 5 relationship stages. This episode focuses highly on the insecure attachment styles (anxious, dismissive avoidant and fearful avoidant).
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Coach with me: jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 10, 2023 • 50min
Normalizing “The Icks” in Dating and Relationships with Kelsey Wonderlin
Today on the podcast, we have Kelsey Wonderlin. Kelsey is a licensed therapist and a dating and relationship coach. She helps women who struggle with anxiety attract & HOLD ONTO a healthy relationship. She is also passionate about debunking the myths many of us have been taught about what a healthy relationship looks like.
In this episode, we dive deep into relationship anxiety, the realities of dating, and how to better differentiate what is our insecurity versus what is our truth.
Kelsey Wonderlin: https://coaching.kelseywonderlin.com/
—— Jessica Da Silva: https://jessicadasilvacoaching.com

Oct 2, 2023 • 51min
Navigating a Break-Up As Someone With an Anxious Attachment Style with Alexa (Client Stories)
Today we have a special guest, Alexa. She is a mother, a humanitarian, a leader, a former client of mine, and just a beautiful soul who was willing to come onto the podcast and share her story of navigating love with an anxious attachment style, how understanding attachment theory brought so much clarity to her marriage, the challenges that come with anxious-avoidant relationship dynamics, her grieving process with the recent separation of her marriage and the lessons she has learned through all of it.
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Coach with me: www.jessicadasilvacoaching.com