Mama Knows

In this conversation, Nina and Mary discuss the complexities of body image, family dynamics, and the importance of setting boundaries, especially during the holiday season. They share personal experiences and practical advice on how to empower children with knowledge about their bodies, navigate family expectations, and communicate effectively about private parts. The discussion emphasizes the significance of fostering a safe environment for children to express their boundaries and the challenges parents face in advocating for their children's autonomy. In this conversation, Mary Van Geffen and Nina discuss the importance of empowering children to set boundaries, the significance of unified parenting, and how to navigate conversations about body image and negative body talk within families. They emphasize the need for open communication, preparation for social situations, and the impact of adult conversations on children's self-esteem and body image.00:00: Navigating Body Image and Family Dynamics05:56: Setting Boundaries with Family11:54: Establishing Healthy Boundaries22:09: Empowering Children to Set Boundaries28:27: Navigating Body Image ConversationsAbout MaryMary Van Geffen is an international parenting coach and parent educator for overwhelmed moms of strong-willed & Spicy Children™. She teaches monthly workshops to help moms gain confidence to choose gentle, respectful parenting especially if they weren’t raised that way. Mary has a ministry on Instagram where she posts an inspiring parenting tip every single day. Just reading her social media will help you delight in your child and remember that you are enough. Mary believes that when a mom realizes how hard she is on herself and cracks the door open for some self-compassion, her entire family is bathed in light! Mary is a certified Simplicity Parenting Counselor® and Professional Co-Active Coach®. Her greatest achievement, however, is cultivating a calm, kind, and firm relationship with her spirited go-getter daughter (17), polar-opposite introverted son (15) and un-Enneagramable hubby.You can find MaryAt www.maryvangeffen.com for classes and www.instagram.com/maryvangeffen.com and for more information visit  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Laura discuss the complexities of neurodivergence, particularly in children. They explore the meaning of neurodivergence, the role of diagnosis, and the challenges parents face in understanding and supporting their neurodivergent children. Laura shares insights from her experience as a pediatric occupational therapist, emphasizing the importance of recognizing individual needs and the benefits of labels in providing support. The discussion also highlights sensory processing challenges and how they manifest in daily life, offering practical advice for parents navigating these issues. In this conversation, Laura Petix and Nina discuss the complexities of parenting neurodivergent children, particularly focusing on sensory processing differences. They explore how environmental factors influence children's sensory needs, the importance of advocating for support and resources, and strategies for setting children up for success in school. The emotional challenges faced by parents are also highlighted, emphasizing the need for self-care and understanding in the parenting journey.00:00: Understanding Neurodivergence05:55: Navigating Labels and Support12:00: Characteristics of Neurodivergent Children18:01: Identifying Neurodivergent Traits in Children27:32: Understanding Sensory Differences in Children36:12: Setting Up Children for Success in School42:54: The Emotional Toll of Parenting Neurodivergent ChildrenLaura Petix is a neurodiverse affirming pediatric Occupational Therapist, podcast host, parent coach, course creator and author who specializes in sensory processing and nervous system regulation for neurodivergent individuals. If there's one thing Laura wants you to know, it's that sensory processing has a direct influence on learning and behavior. She is a neurodivergent parent to a neurodivergent daughter, which is what allows her to be able to talk about neurodiversity in a way that other parents can actually understand and also resonate with.You can find more of her work on instagram @theotbutterfly or her podcast, Sensory W.I.S.E. Solutions for parents. You can find her book, "a kids book about neurodiversity" on amazonFree download: www.theotbutterfly.com/sensoryprofiles101A one page handout to help you understand the different sensory profiles and identify which sensory areas your child may need more support in. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Emma Christmas delve into the concept of love languages, particularly focusing on how understanding these can enhance parenting and strengthen connections with children. They discuss the five love languages—words of affirmation, physical touch, quality time, gifts, and acts of service—and how recognizing a child's love language can improve their emotional well-being and behavior. Emma emphasizes the importance of adapting parenting styles to nurture children's love languages while also addressing the challenges parents face in providing connection amidst busy lives. The discussion highlights the significance of self-awareness in parenting and the impact of early experiences on a child's love language development.00:00: Understanding Love Languages04:12: The Importance of Love Languages for Children08:02: Exploring the Five Love Languages12:32: Adapting Parenting Styles to Love Languages16:26: Navigating Connection and Attention Seeking21:19: Recognizing Signs of Connection Needs25:56: The Development of Love LanguagesEmma Christmas | Founder of Everyday EHCTeacher and parenting bestie specialising in emotional well-being, children’s mental health, behaviour and big feelings. I’m all about helping parents to help their children and this starts with understanding why children think, react and behave like they do. I’ve supported thousands of families online and offline. I offer children’s relaxation audios, quality time ebooks and courses for parents and practitioners.Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/everydayehc/Love Languages Blog Post: https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/post/lovelanguagesFree affirmations eBook: https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/ebook Episode Sponsor:Lume whole body deodorant is the perfect solution for anyone! Lume is baking soda and paraben free and most importantly, ph balanced. As a special offer for our listeners, all new customers can get 15% off all Lume products. Use our code, mamaknows, for 15% off your first purchase at lumedeodorant.com   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Julia Woods delve into the common issue of repetitive conflicts in relationships, exploring the underlying causes and offering insights on how to navigate these challenges. They discuss the importance of self-awareness, the role of tone in communication, and practical techniques for effective dialogue. Julia introduces the concept of viewing conflicts as 'X marks the spot' on a treasure map, emphasizing the potential for growth and healing within these recurring issues. The conversation also highlights the significance of regular relationship check-ins and the need for vulnerability in fostering deeper connections.00:00: Understanding Repetitive Conflicts in Relationships05:04: The Treasure Map of Marriage: X Marks the Spot10:01: Exploring Tone and Validation in Communication15:05: The Role of Self-Awareness in Conflict Resolution19:48: Practical Techniques for Effective Communication26:56: The Importance of Regular Relationship Check-Ins30:09: Navigating Vulnerability and Resistance in ConversationsJulia Woods is a relationship coach, passionate about helping couples communicate well believing that when spouses know how to communicate, they can literally overcome any challenge in life together. Julia offers courses for couples, a couples retreat and 1:1 coaching. Find her on her atInstagram:https://www.instagram.com/everydayehc/Love Languages Blog Post: https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/post/lovelanguagesFree affirmations eBook: https://www.everydayplayideas.co.uk/ebook Episode Sponsor:Element is a zero sugar electrolyte drink. Whether you are a Mom on the go or an athlete, these will be perfect for you. Get your free Element sample pack with any purchase at drinkelement.com. Visit drinkelement.com/mamaknows to try to the new Element Sparkling, a bold 16 ounce can of sparkling electrolyte water. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Cassidy recap the successful Mama Knows Live event, which focused on women's mental health and community building. They discuss the event's highlights, the mission behind the Nurtura Foundation, and the importance of confidence and support among women. The conversation also touches on the challenges of event planning and the key takeaways from the experience, emphasizing the need for connection and vulnerability in motherhood and beyond.00:00: Introduction and Event Overview02:55: Event Highlights and Experiences06:08: Nurtura Foundation and Its Mission09:52: Defining Confidence and Community13:51: Challenges in Event Planning17:10: Key Takeaways and ReflectionsFind us on InstagramMamaknowsliveNurturaFoundation Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

With Halloween quickly approaching we wanted to revisit thoughts on sweets and if we should be limiting their intake and how we can talk to our kids about sweets. Sammie and I talked about how we should approach the topic of sweets and treats when it comes to our kids on this fan favorite episode. We covered: How do we talk about sweets and treats to our kids? How do we limit sweets & treats without causing deprivation and or a complex around certain foods? How much access should the kids have to the pantry that also contains sweets & treats? How controlled should this space be? What do I do if my kid only wants to eat sweets and won't eat their meal? Samantha Gollup is a compassionate and dedicated Registered Dietitian from Madison, Wisconsin. With an extensive background in Surgical Weight Management, she has discovered her true calling within the realm of intuitive eating and founded her private practice, Anti Diet Mama. As the founder of Anti Diet Mama, Sammie is on a mission to empower mamas to heal their relationships with food and their bodies by dismantling the harmful teachings of diet culture.Through Intuitive Eating and Body Image Counseling, Sammie guides mamas to embrace their bodies, cultivate healthful habits, and elevate their overall quality of life while simplifying nutrition. Her personalized approach empowers each mother to break free from the dieting cycle, enabling them to rediscover their authentic selves and raise the next generation without the toxic influence of diet culture. Passionate about helping women find balance amid their busy lives, Sammie encourages mothers to carve out space for self-care and prioritize their own health and well-being so they can model this for their kids. She firmly believes that every woman deserves to nourish both body and soul without guilt or shame.Beyond her professional endeavors, Sammie finds joy in spending cherished moments with her husband and their lively toddlers. Her zest for life extends to exploring various forms of movement, indulging in delectable food with loved ones, and embarking on new adventures through travel. Samantha Gollup's unwavering dedication to promoting body acceptance and intuitive eating has made her a guiding light for countless mothers seeking to transform their relationship with food and themselves. With her warmth, expertise, and wholehearted commitment to empowering others, Sammie is shaping a healthier, more vibrant future for families and communities alike. You can find her on Insta @anti.diet.mama Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Eli Harwood, a licensed therapist and expert in relational trauma, shares insights from over 17 years in the field. He discusses the powerful impact of attachment theory on parenting, emphasizing how early experiences shape adult relationships. Eli reveals different attachment styles and their manifestation in parenting. The conversation dives into emotional regulation, the importance of conflict resolution, and practical strategies for fostering secure attachments. Eli also highlights parental insecurities and encourages authentic connection with children.

In this conversation, Nina interviews Stephen and Erin Mitchell, a couple who run a company called Couples Counseling for Parents. They discuss the common issue of in-laws causing tension in relationships and provide insights on how to navigate this challenge. They emphasize the importance of setting boundaries, validating each other's experiences, and working as a team. The conversation covers topics such as handling sensitive conversations about in-laws, dealing with defensive partners, and finding effective communication strategies. Overall, the conversation normalizes the difficulties of navigating relationships with in-laws and offers practical advice for couples. In this conversation, Stephen and Erin discuss the importance of setting boundaries with in-laws and navigating challenging relationships. They emphasize the need for clear communication and expressing needs in a vulnerable way. They also discuss the distinction between difficult relationships and toxic relationships, highlighting the importance of addressing toxic dynamics. They provide insights on how to have proactive conversations, give positive feedback, and navigate challenging situations with in-laws. They also touch on the topic of cutting out toxic family members and the importance of being on the same page as a couple.00:00: Introduction and Background of the Guests02:00: The Common Issue of In-Laws Causing Tension06:21: Navigating the Complexities of In-Law Relationships08:19: Validating Experiences and Emotions in In-Law Discussions13:03: Setting Boundaries and Expectations with In-Laws19:28: Working as a Team to Navigate In-Law Challenges23:12: Navigating Boundaries with In-Laws27:00: Proactive Communication and Positive Feedback28:15: Setting Boundaries with In-Laws33:05: Differentiating Difficult Relationships and Toxic Relationships44:19: The Serious Decision of Cutting Out Toxic Family MembersAbout Erin and StephenWe are a married couple with three kids and founders of Couples Counseling for Parents. Also, we both have advanced degrees in psychology. Stephen is a psychotherapist and has a PhD in Medical Family Therapy and Erin has a Masters in Counseling Psychology.Just like every couple we want to feel in love and feel deeply connected to one another. As parents we want to give our kids the world, be phenomenal parents, and feel close to our kids.Sometimes in the chaos of parenting it doesn’t feel like you can be close as a couple. Your are too tired, too busy, too overwhelmed, too everything…We have taken all our experience (personal and professional) and education about relational wellness and developed practical tools for couples to connect and stay connected as they parent.Episode SponsorElement is a zero sugar electrolyte drink. Whether you are a mom on the go like me, an athlete, or just trying to live a healthier lifestyle these will be perfect for you! Get your free Element sample pack with any purchase at drinkelement.com/mamaknows  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Rebekka discuss the often-overlooked importance of sleep for adults, particularly for parents. They explore the concept of chronotypes, how understanding one's natural sleep patterns can enhance productivity, and practical tips for adjusting sleep habits. The discussion also addresses common sleep issues, misconceptions about sleep, and the significance of establishing a healthy bedtime routine. Rebekka shares her expertise as an adult sleep consultant, emphasizing the need for realistic and sustainable sleep strategies for busy individuals.00:00: The Importance of Sleep for Adults05:07: Understanding Chronotypes and Their Impact10:15: Adjusting Sleep Patterns: Tips for Night Owls14:50: Common Sleep Issues and Healthy Habits22:39: Debunking Sleep Myths and MisconceptionsRebekka Wall is a certified adolescent and adult sleep consultant with Sleep Wise Consulting and is passionate about helping people prioritize sleep and proper rest. As a wife and a homeschooling mother to three boys, Rebekka knows the ability to live with more energy, less stress, balanced hormones, reduced mental fatigue, and achievable health goals are met through consistent, quality sleep. She has a special interest in how hormonal shifts throughout a woman's life impact sleep and is all about providing realistic and sustainable tools for long-term success. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this conversation, Nina and Danielle discuss the challenges of maintaining friendships, especially in motherhood. They explore the different types of friendships and how to align with different friends. They also discuss the importance of setting boundaries and managing expectations in friendships. Danielle provides tips on how to navigate a perceived lack of balance and reciprocity in a friendship, and how to identify toxic dynamics. They also discuss the impact of social media on female friendships and ways to make and nurture friendships in busy seasons of life.00:00: Introduction03:00: Understanding Different Types of Friendships08:28: Setting Boundaries and Managing Expectations13:15: Dealing with a Lack of Balance and Reciprocity18:48: The Impact of Social Media on Female Friendships29:06: Making and Nurturing Friendships in Busy SeasonsDanielle Bayard Jackson is a female friendship coach and educator who speaks nationally about the science of women’s platonic connections. She is also the author of Fighting for Our Friendships (May 2024).Danielle’s coaching business, Friend Forward, is dedicated to teaching women how to create and maintain better female friendships, and her expertise has been featured in The New York Times, NBC News, Psychology Today, Wall Street Journal, Oprah Magazine, Good Morning America, and a host of other media outlets. A former high school teacher, Danielle now uses her teaching skills and leverages her background to study what the latest research has to say about women’s cooperation, communication, and conflict. As a member of the American Sociological Association, she uses the latest research to create tangible strategies to help women create more depth in their platonic relationships. Companies like TikTok, the NBA, NFL, and Etsy have all booked Danielle as a speaker to address the topic of connection psychology. She’s even served as Bumble’s resident friendship expert and spokesperson for its new app Bumble for Friends.Danielle shares her insight weekly on The Friend Forward Podcast, has several viral videos on social media, and has written for Insider and Harvard Business Review.You can learn more about Danielle and her work by visiting www.betterfemalefriendships.com.Episode Sponsor:Danielle Bayard Jackson is a female friendship coach and educator who speaks nationally about the science of women’s platonic connections. She is also the author of Fighting for Our Friendships (May 2024).Danielle’s coaching business, Friend Forward, is dedicated to teaching women how to create and maintain better female friendships, and her expertise has been featured in The New York Times, NBC News, Psychology Today, Wall Street Journal, Oprah Magazine, Good Morning America, and a host of other media outlets. A former high school teacher, Danielle now uses her teaching skills and leverages her background to study what the latest research has to say about women’s cooperation, communication, and conflict. As a member of the American Sociological Association, she uses the latest research to create tangible strategies to help women create more depth in their platonic relationships. Companies like TikTok, the NBA, NFL, and Etsy have all booked Danielle as a speaker to address the topic of connection psychology. She’s even served as Bumble’s resident friendship expert and spokesperson for its new app Bumble for Friends.Danielle shares her insight weekly on The Friend Forward Podcast, has several viral videos on social media, and has written for Insider and Harvard Business Review.You can learn more about Danielle and her work by visiting www.betterfemalefriendships.com.Episode Sponsor:LumeNew customers get 15% off all Lume products with our exclusive code. Combine this offer with the already 15% off starter pack and you will get 30% off! Use our exclusive code, mamaknows for 15% off your first purchase! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices