

Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
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Dec 19, 2022 • 60min
46. Soft Girl Era
Jojo and Dayra get real RAW in this episode and have some difficult conversations. We show the reality of relationship issues and common disagreements between couples. We dive into the "soft girl era" and the following topics,
What IS the "soft girl era"?
Who started the "soft girl era" trend?
Why are people changing their lifestyles to this "soft girl era"?
Do you think it's hard to be in your "soft girl" era as a Latina?
What is the first step to enter your soft girl era in a relationship where you're both "hard"?
We finish off with how we will personally go into our "soft girl era" and how we will hold ourselves accountable in 2023!
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FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:
Can you be friends with an ex?
“My teacher kissed me…”
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Our website: https://leschatpod.com/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
Soft Girl Era Link: https://www.glam.com/1090415/heres-why-black-girls-on-tiktok-are-entering-a-soft-girl-era/

Dec 12, 2022 • 57min
45. Society's Beauty Standards
40 percent of America’s lgbtq+ community say they've been rejected by family members or close friends at some point in their lives due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. In this weeks episode we get into beauty and how we see ourselves. We also dive into… - Plastic surgery - Influence culture and how social media affects our idea of beauty. - Self esteem/confidence
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LESCHAT FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS * “I recently came out as lesbian in 2018. I started dating a girl the same year and we have been together for 4 years now, which is my first girl relationship. I love her but I’m not in love with her.“ * “Some people just lie so much they cant keep up with their own lies”
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FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: * IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= * TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/ * YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ TROVATRIP LINK: - https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023 https://linktr.ee/leschat

Dec 5, 2022 • 1h 5min
44. Creative Living Ft Toushai
We invite Shaina Negron aka Toushai, a tattoo artist, painter and singer who displays her artwork to more than 200,000 followers on her social media.
We talk about how her creative career started, what body painting is like and what inspired her to write her newest song “Tu no me amas”.
We also talk about false narratives the internet has about Toushai and her dating “standards.” Dayra mentions a “gay icon” towards the end and we get the scoop on the reality of dating a celebrity.
Toushai’s Tiktok 1900’s Video Reference: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR45Ykgc/
FOLLOW TOUSHAI ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
https://www.instagram.com/toushai/?hl=en
@shaishaikoolaid
@toushaink
@toushaiart
linktr.ee/toushai
FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS
I was in a situationship where I was putting in more effort than them. How should I move forward w/this person?
I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with someone who I thought was my friend.
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FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/
YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
TROVATRIP LINK:
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Nov 28, 2022 • 1h 5min
43. Life Under Pressure
Dayra and Jojo dive into the pressures they face in life from society, work, & even family. Society has taught us that as women, not only are we held to a specific standard but we also have to work a thousand times harder than the norm just to be “good enough” in the work field.
While trying to fight through society’s barriers, our families remind us daily that coming from a cultured background means nothing in life is meant to be easy for us. No matter how much we think we’ve succeeded we’ll always have to keep working harder and be held at the highest standards.
Family Meeting Questions
“I’ve been with my gf almost 2 years we started off very sexually active but this last year NOTHING, she gets mad at me for bringing it up…”
“So I just recently got broken up with and I’m having trouble moving on. We met online and the girl was living with her husband...”
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TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/
YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
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Nov 21, 2022 • 1h 4min
42. Latina Mami
The holidays are coming and we need to talk about our hispanic culture! In this episode Jojo & Dayra talk about what it means to be hispanic and gay. We talk about our relationships with our parents and grandparents. We also talk about what it’s like being a child of immigrant parents and being the only hispanic woman in a room full white people.
Family Meeting Questions
“Is it okay to walk past an ex? Baby gay, dated 1st gf for 2 yrs & broke up with her. I don’t hate her, I want to be respectful and I hope she’s been okay but I don’t want to be friends tbh.”
“I love my GF and we have been together for 15 yrs, we are planning to get married in the near future, however I just found out she wants to be a trans.”
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FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
IG: https://instagram.com/les.chatpodcast? igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/
YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
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Our website: leschatpod.com
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Nov 14, 2022 • 41min
41. Serial Lover
Dating around is necessary in the early stages when trying to figure out what you want in a partner. Although people don’t find “dating around” fun, there are some who actually love the idea of the dating stages. Jojo & Dayra define what a serial dater is as well as some potential signs to look for in a serial dater.. For those who love the idea of love and romantic relationships we introduced “serial monogamy” & the signs of those who can’t just stay single.
Family Meeting Questions
So I’ve already asked you guys the question about a strap on your last video but to follow that up what if she did like it in the past from other people and she has told you about it but still won’t do that with you ?
I was talking to someone & I really liked her but then she made a r@pe joke so I cut her off. I have only known her for 2 months. It hurt me to stop talking to her but I felt it was a boundary I had to set. Would you have cut someone off for that?
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
TROVATRIP LINK:
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Nov 7, 2022 • 1h 18min
40. Queen Of The Switch Up FT Ke'Alohilani
Jojo and Dayra welcome Ke'Alohilani AKA the viral queen of switch ups and transitions on Tiktok!! Ke'Alohilani gives us the back story of how she became the queen of switching her look between fem/masc. Although, finding it difficult in her earlier stages to find a happy medium in presenting both masc and fem (due to past relationships experiences) Ke'Alohilani didn't let it discourage her. Choosing to continue her self love journey of owning her style as well as enjoying her time being single by just dating herself. CHECK OUT HER TRANSITIONS HERE: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTRxSJk8A/
Ke’Alohilani Social Media
IG: https://instagram.com/kdnaonecarterr?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kdnaonecarter?_t=8X46H4ovNVr&_r=1
Family Meeting Questions
1. I recently got out of a short relationship...Am I wrong for holding expectations for the people I date?
2. I feel like a phase after a 7 year relationship since my ex is now dating men.
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* YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
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Oct 31, 2022 • 1h 29min
39. Les Trick Or Treat
Happy Halloween friends!! 🎃 Dayra and Jojo welcome two of social media’s favorite lgbtq+ creators! Yes, it’s sexy Lexie & our favorite baby gay from ep.22 Kristin! Dayra sets the tone with a les question card game as an ice breaker to get the juices flowing. Leading the conversations straight into the spicy stuff. Speaking on topics of sex parties, open relationships, dating straight women, spiritual journeys, conquering the fem/masc energy, & how the art of seduction as a dancer can affect potential relationships.
Lexie’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/lexiepeterss/?hl=en & https://www.instagram.com/peterssperspective/?hl=en
Kristin’s IG: https://www.instagram.com/wheretheroadforks__/?hl=en
Family Meeting Questions
“I’ve been with my girlfriend for a year and she won’t let me use a strap on her but she has with other people”
“Recently decided to go out on the “dating scene”. went out for the 1st time with a girl I met online, she got drunk then ghosted me…”
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/
YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023
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Oct 24, 2022 • 54min
38. Do You Remember Your First Time?
Happy Monday! In today’s episode we talk about our first times!
Dayra & Jojo talk about the first time they ever kissed someone, first time they had “sexy time” with a woman, and the first time we ever got drunk or high! Dayra talks about her experience when she took an edible and how horrible her trip went.
Family Meeting Questions
1. My gf is now working with her ex, how should I feel about this?
2. The person I was dating is not okay with their sexuality.
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKotfRe/
YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
TROVATRIP LINK: https://trips.trovatrip.com/trips/costa-rica-with-les-chat-mar-2023
https://linktr.ee/leschat

Oct 17, 2022 • 1h 1min
37. Sexuality Is Fluid
Jojo & Dayra welcome Kenny on this week's episode to discuss how sexuality can actually be fluid! For some, labels allow them to be seen & approached by the public with what they self- identity but for others, labels can feel like a box, not flexible enough for growth. Kenny shares with us her coming out stories at a young age, the history of her romantic relationships with women, how therapy helped her to set the boundaries necessary in a way where nothing could hinder her growth, and lastly what encouraged her to be open minded about allowing a male to potentially pursue her romantically.
Family Meeting Questions
I’m not sure if my co-worker is gay, I want to ask her our but I don’t want to make things weird at work.
How do I get over the fear that my bisexual girlfriend is going to leave me for a guy?
Follow Kenny on IG
https://instagram.com/thebestkenever?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= @thebestkenever
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
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