

Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
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Feb 20, 2023 • 49min
54. Muralist Artist goes on Reality TV - FT Melanie Posner
In today’s episode we have Melanie Posner, muralist and artist. Her name rings a bell because she was part of the reality tv show Tampa Baes from Amazon Prime Video. The show was inspired by The Real L Word! In this episode we talk about.
The REALITY of filming a reality show
Melanie’s dating life during the show
How Melanie got into art/becoming an artist/muralist
Tiktok Reference:https://www.tiktok.com/@therealmelpoz/video/7133654642830953770
Unfortunately, we did not answer any family meeting questions in this episode!
Melanie's Instagram
Amazon Prime Tampa Bae's Show
Tampa Bae's Trailer
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TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Our website: https://leschatpod.com/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

Feb 13, 2023 • 58min
53. Queer Dating Struggles & Tips
In EP 53 we dive into lesbian dating and the struggles of dating when it comes to
Dating apps
Cat fishes
Being ghosted
Finding time to date and more!
We also get into
How do I initiate a conversation with a girl? OR What if I’m awkward or have anxiety?
How do I talk to girls on dating apps?
I'm fem presenting and I’m into fems, how do I flirt with a girl?
How do you know if she likes girls?
Is she flirting or being friendly?
What if you are not receiving the same love you’re giving?
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Family Meeting Questions
“How can I pass the feeling of being scared of having seggs with my s/o?”
“My relationships have mostly been with non-Latinas who I never feel a true connection with.. but I’m too insecure to pursue who I want”
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IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Our website: https://leschatpod.com/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
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Feb 6, 2023 • 1h 12min
52. That First Healthy Relationship
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Why does nobody talk about your first healthy relationships after having so many toxic ones?
It's ideal to want to build a healthy relationship between you and your significant other. However, no one tells you how HARD maintaining a HEALTHY relationship is! Jojo and Dayra dive into the reality of how they transitioned into building a healthy relationship together. Also, how to continue maintaining a healthy relationship by always being intentional and learning new ways to communicate on the same level. Including 5 examples of healthy characteristics/ signs to leading a healthy relationship as well as 4 foundations to maintaining it.
Family Meeting Questions
“Dating a 34 year-old female who’s living at home with her parents and she is not out to them. I love her but it is becoming a turn off”
“Where can I find fems that are into fems?
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Our website: https://leschatpod.com/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
BRUJITA SKINCARE
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Jan 30, 2023 • 49min
51. 10 Things I Wish I Knew Before Coming Out
In EP 51 we talk about 10 things we wish we knew before coming out of the closet! We get into coming out to your family and friends, as well as bisexuality, straight girls, and more!
As always, in each episode, we answer questions from our regular listeners.
FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS
1. "I’ve NEVER been on a date or been with anyone and I don’t know where to start. Any tips?"
2. "I think I'm polyamorous and I have a crush on two girls who happen to be sisters"
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YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Our website: https://leschatpod.com/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

Jan 23, 2023 • 1h 1min
50. Meeting Her Parents: Gay Edition
We all want to be accepted into our partner's family, especially when in a QUEER relationship. In this episode we discuss how important it is to try to have a rapport with your partner's family.
We also talk about the following
How we met each other's parents/family members.
Past experiences when meeting our partner's family.
Uncomfortable situations when meeting family.
Setting boundaries with our family in order to make our partner feel safe and comfortable.
& Steps to getting along with their family (if you’re an awkward person).
Family Meeting Questions
What are your thoughts on girls who refuse to eat out their partners?
“I’m still in love with my ex”
“I came out as a lesbian 3 or 4 years ago and haven’t started dating yet. I'm 19 so I can’t go to bars, any tips on meeting women?”
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FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Our website: https://leschatpod.com/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

Jan 9, 2023 • 38min
48. Tales Of A Lesbian Long Distance Relationship
HAPPY NEW YEAR LES CHAT FAMILY! Can you believe we almost make a year since we started Les Chat? We started our podcast back on January 24th of 2022 and we’re so grateful for all of you!
We are BACK like we never left with Season 2 of Les Chat Podcast and we’re coming in with new segments! This podcast episode is a little different from previous episodes. In this episode, Dayra reads a story submitted by a listener. The story gets JUICY, we talk about
Long-distance relationships
Sharing passwords with your partner
Checking your partners location
Cheating
Let us know what you think about this format, if you like this, we can start sharing more stories in our podcast episodes.
FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:
No question in this episode because we have a full story!
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YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
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Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

Dec 26, 2022 • 60min
47. OUR 2022 RECAP
THE START OF 2022:
Our vision/purpose of this podcast:
- Create a platform for those who didn’t feel represented
- “Be the person you needed” for those in the community who didn't have the necessary support
- Share personal experiences to help those in similar situations gain other perspectives
Things we discuss:
- What have we accomplished?
- What have we learned from the struggle?
- What have we improved on the most?
- What moments were our most/less favorites?
- What do we plan to achieve in the upcoming year?
- What we want to leave behind
- What we would like to take with us into the new year.
FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:
1. “I’m dating a new girl and it’s great, but I’m concerned because we don’t have sex as much as we did in the beginning”
2. “My girlfriend’s best friend is her male ex”
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Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat

Dec 19, 2022 • 60min
46. Soft Girl Era
Jojo and Dayra get real RAW in this episode and have some difficult conversations. We show the reality of relationship issues and common disagreements between couples. We dive into the "soft girl era" and the following topics,
What IS the "soft girl era"?
Who started the "soft girl era" trend?
Why are people changing their lifestyles to this "soft girl era"?
Do you think it's hard to be in your "soft girl" era as a Latina?
What is the first step to enter your soft girl era in a relationship where you're both "hard"?
We finish off with how we will personally go into our "soft girl era" and how we will hold ourselves accountable in 2023!
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FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS:
Can you be friends with an ex?
“My teacher kissed me…”
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Soft Girl Era Link: https://www.glam.com/1090415/heres-why-black-girls-on-tiktok-are-entering-a-soft-girl-era/

Dec 12, 2022 • 57min
45. Society's Beauty Standards
40 percent of America’s lgbtq+ community say they've been rejected by family members or close friends at some point in their lives due to their sexual orientation or gender identity. In this weeks episode we get into beauty and how we see ourselves. We also dive into… - Plastic surgery - Influence culture and how social media affects our idea of beauty. - Self esteem/confidence
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Dec 5, 2022 • 1h 5min
44. Creative Living Ft Toushai
We invite Shaina Negron aka Toushai, a tattoo artist, painter and singer who displays her artwork to more than 200,000 followers on her social media.
We talk about how her creative career started, what body painting is like and what inspired her to write her newest song “Tu no me amas”.
We also talk about false narratives the internet has about Toushai and her dating “standards.” Dayra mentions a “gay icon” towards the end and we get the scoop on the reality of dating a celebrity.
Toushai’s Tiktok 1900’s Video Reference: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR45Ykgc/
FOLLOW TOUSHAI ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
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@shaishaikoolaid
@toushaink
@toushaiart
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FAMILY MEETING QUESTIONS
I was in a situationship where I was putting in more effort than them. How should I move forward w/this person?
I caught my girlfriend cheating on me with someone who I thought was my friend.
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ
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