

Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
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May 1, 2023 • 50min
64. Our Legacy
You don't have to be famous or be known by the world to leave behind a legacy that will live beyond our existence. We all play a part in the impact and influence we have on one another's lives. It’s up to you on what you want to be remembered for.
In this episode we talk about the people we looked up to that have shaped us into who we've become leading up to adulthood. We dive into how in creating this platform, we'll leave that legacy behind us and how we want to be remembered as a couple as well as an individual.
Family Meeting
“I’m straight but I think I’m in love with my BFF”
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Apr 24, 2023 • 56min
63. A Queer Baecation
A vacation is good for the soul and for the relationship. In episode #63 we dive into BAECATIONS! Listen, WE NEED A BAECATION so we’re just gonna reminisce but we also want to talk about our travel experience as a queer couple and everything you need to know before booking that baecation.
We dive into our traveling personality, when it’s too early to book that baecation, how often couples should go on vacation, as well as.
Safe places to travel for LGBTQ couples - Link
The worst places to travel for LGBTQ couples (There are 64 countries that have laws that criminalize homosexuality, and nearly half of these are in Africa. - link)
Family Meeting Q&A’s
Christianity/Religion & being LGBTQ+: My partner feels as if she cannot be bisexual and also a Christian.
Are we breaking up? “Lately I’ve been feeling like I want to break up with my girlfriend”.
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Apr 10, 2023 • 1h 10min
61. Adult Friendships
When we were younger, making new friends was easy and having a larger group of friends was normal. However, as we get older having only two or three close friends becomes the norm because life just seems to get in the way.
In this episode we talk about how work, parenting, home chores, relationships and even the pandemic made friendships harder to maintain as an adult. We also dive into how friendships look after coming out and what it's like to be the only gay friend in the group.
Family meeting:
1. My GF and I work for the same company she’s a HR manger and i’m a supervisor but we work in different buildings.The issue is that when i am venting to her about work or some gossip it always turns into a argument because her HR comes out but i have to remind her that I am venting to my GF not HR.
2. I’ve been with my girl for a year and half. She has a daughter who has ADHD. This wasn’t told to me upfront and it has caused some difficulties in the relationship. We’re good overall, but the child is an issue due to lack of respect. How do you find a middle ground or do you walk away?
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PRECIOSA NIGHT/LGBTQ BROOKLYN PARTY ON 05/13 - TICKETS
SipCity Mixer (Philly)
Melamixin Sip City (Philly)
Philly Gay Girls
SipCitySouthJersey
TheHouseOfQueers
Geneva APP
OutLoudSports
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Apr 3, 2023 • 1h 1min
60. Relationship Fighting Styles
What’s your fight style? Similar to “love languages” we also have “fighting styles”. Relationships are often associated with the idea of love and happiness.. How do I keep my partner happy? How do I show them I care and understand? How can we “fight” without it turning into a screaming match?
There are SO many different online articles and online quizzes on fight styles but we focused on the top 3 by Jay Shetty, “Venting, Hiding, or Exploding”.
We also dive into other popular fighting styles/languages and how you can find neutrality and peace.
Family Meeting:
”I’m an 18 year old fem lesbian and she’s a 21 year old bi fem, is the age difference an issue?”
"Hello,I’m a closeted bisexual and really want to come out. But I’m afraid that my friends will look differently at me. “
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FIGHT STYLES QUIZ
https://what-is-your-fight-style.scoreapp.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ4Nd872HcXNhv0xj6WBRQsJmTP4oUdDqlMbYPUP4Tv_G5qv-y7El4dmN4
SOURCES
https://www.yourtango.com/love/six-fight-languages
https://www.thehealthjournals.com/5-anger-languages/
TOPIC ON NASHVILLE SHOOTING
https://www.reuters.com/world/us/after-school-shooting-some-trans-tennesseans-face-backlash-2023-03-31/
https://www.instagram.com/teachingisintellectual/?hl=en

Mar 27, 2023 • 60min
59. Pronouns With Teacher Robi
Nairobi, also known as Robi is a middle school art teacher who has gone viral on TikTok for the way they manage their classroom, funny conversations with students, tiktok dances, outfit of the day and more!
Pronouns are not something we’ve touched on in this podcast because we wanted someone to come in and educate us and talk about their experience. Robi identifies as non-binary and goes by they/them. So what are pronouns?! It’s what you use to address other people when you’re not using names. The most common pronouns are she/her/hers, they/them/theirs, and he/him/his.
It’s important to respect pronouns because you wouldn’t call someone a different name other than the one they have. In this episode we dive into
💜Robi’s teaching experience/why they became a teacher
💛What students address them as and how Robi corrects them or doesn’t correct them when they say the wrong pronoun, such as “Ms Robi”
💗And more!
Family Meeting:
We don’t have any family meeting/Q&A in this episode.
Robi’s Social Media Handles
https://linktr.ee/robigotsoles
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Mar 20, 2023 • 46min
58. Embracing Our Journey
This episode was a little different, we introduced our "Love without limits" merch and the journey it took to get to this point. While it is still Women's History Month we talked about queer Hispanic history and some badass queer women we should all know about. Also, played one our favorite card games, “We’re not really strangers” where we both answer relationship and couple questions.
Special Announcement: Merch goes on SALE to Patreon members on Monday, March 20th and everyone else can shop on Tuesday, March 21st at 12PM EST.
Family Meeting:
“I have a gf I love her to death but when she's going through something she pushes me away “
“How can I deal with my gf when it’s that time of the month?”
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Mar 13, 2023 • 49min
57. Dating Co-Workers
Most of our daily time is spent at work with fellow coworkers, more than we see our loved ones. Our co-workers are the people who relate the most to us because they work side by side for hours throughout the week. It's unrealistic to think that we won’t ever create a bond or develop potential feelings for at least one co-worker. Whether those feelings are on a romantic level or just a pure deep friendship connection you’ll find it hard to keep the vibes as just “business”. So what are the pro’s and con’s of dating someone within your workplace? Jojo and Dayra run through those pros and cons as well as some "DO'S and DON'TS" in the event that you DO decide to cross that line.
Family Meeting:
1. "My wife got super close with a male coworker. They are texting/calling each other constantly. I told her that it’s too much but she told me that I can’t tell her what to do. "
2. "So my girlfriend has been lying to me about her ex..."
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Mar 6, 2023 • 59min
56. Green Flags
Red flags are the signs telling us to proceed with caution and that we're playing at our own risk. Sometimes those red flags are actually telling us that it maybe it’s time to let the relationship go.
Although it's usually easier to notice all the negative things that we experience, sometimes we just have to remind ourselves of all the positive things too. In this episode Dayra and Jojo tap into that positivity by discussing "Green Flags" when it comes to dating/relationships. They give examples of what they seek as green flags when dating someone such as good family connections, self awareness, acceptance of presentation, respectful of pronouns etc.
Family Meeting:
1. “I caught my girlfriend sexting another girl.”
2. “How do I get over the fear of approaching my crush?”
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PROMO CODE: LES10
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Feb 27, 2023 • 1h 3min
55. Am I A Lesbian? The Master Doc
The “Lesbian Masterdoc” is a google document that asks you to consider if you are a lesbian. This is the same master doc that Kehlani read that made her realize she may be a lesbian. It’s written like a blog post and it goes through bullet points to help you understand the difference between heterosexuality and compulsory heterosexuality which is the idea that heterosexuality is assumed and forced upon women, which may make women feel forced into being attracted to men, even when they might not be. You may not relate OR you may REALLY connect with this google doc.
We review a few sections from the chapter and discuss our thoughts on “Am I Lesbian?”, such as…
Having such high standards that literally no guy meets them – and feeling no spark of attraction to any guy who doesn’t meet them
You’re far more certain about being attracted to women than you are about being attracted to men
Only/mostly being into guys who are gender nonconforming or feminine in some way.
Family Meeting Questions
1. “I've been with my girlfriend for 10 months and I still haven't seen her n@ked or haven't gotten to really be intimate with her. "
2. “I have heard Dayra say that she has a few health problems related to IBS. I’ve been going through similar issues and feel like there are no answers for what is truly wrong with my health."
Copy of “Am I A Lesbian Google Doc” -
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Feb 22, 2023 • 2min
BONUS: Bad Dates Sneak Preview
In this bonus episode we talk about our BAD dates stories! Join our Patreon Family! On Patreon we want to connect with our audience on a deeper level by providing more bonus content, vlogs, behind the scenes, monthly zoom meetings, discord chats, live advice, merch discounts, and more! patreon.com/leschatpod
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