Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

“Does my partner hate me?” Has this thought ever crossed your mind? why does everything you say upset your partner? This could be because your partner is stuck in negative sentiment override. In this episode we dive into feeling disconnected with your partner emotionally and tips/questions on how to reconnect with your partner. We also talk about our experience and recent discussions when feeling disconnected. Links: https://celebrateagain.org/feeling-disconnected-from-your-partner/ https://www.regain.us/advice/general/how-to-recognize-emotional-disconnect-in-your-relationship-and-what-to-do-to-reconnect/ Questions to ask your partner to reconnect 1. Is there anything I used to do that you loved that I don’t do anymore? 2. What’s the number one cause of tension or disconnection in our relationship right now? 3. How can I be a better partner? 4. What dream of yours could I support you with, and what would that support look like? 5. What kind of date night activities could we plan to experience more joy in our relationship? Family Meeting Questions 💖 “Met my wife on tiktok. Everything moved fast and we got married in less than a year, but things have quickly changed” 💛 “I been involved a girl for 7 months and it doesn’t seem to escalate to anything further” BEDUCATED LINK: https://beducate.me/pd2332-leschat Code: LESCHAT No risk: 14-Day Money-Back Guarantee 1 day free trial 40% off the yearly pass with our LESCHAT coupon code FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  * IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   * TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  * YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  * PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  * Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  * Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In today’s episode, we talk about the good things that come after breakups. Breaking up can be quite devastating, especially for the person who doesn’t expect it, but believe it or not, it's not as awful once we redirect our energy into the things that make us feel whole again. Family Meeting: 1. "I have a friend and we’ve been flirting and everything, now her family is in the way ….so i’m confused idk what to think what should i do?" 2. "I've been in the closet for 30 years! And I’ve finally started dating..." 3. "I’ve had the same best friend for over 20 years but I don’t like her current partner..." Sources: https://markmanson.net/how-to-break-up-with-someone https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-psychology-relationships/202203/breakup-doesn-t-have-leave-you-broken YOUTUBE VIDEO: https://youtu.be/Cw2qD87KDHc - Breakups don’t have to leave you broken FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this week's episode we answer some relationship questions submitted by our fellow listeners.. 1. Being loved bombed by partners that aren’t ready to commit. 2. “Partners” that aren’t ready to commit but want you to meet their friends and do things for you. 3. Talking to other people while also figuring out your dating goals with the person you’re talking to.4. Why do partners feel the need to overspend on you fresh out the gate? Family meeting: 1. "I've been talking to a girl for 6 months but she isn't ready for a relationship. Should I wait for her?" 2. "How do I continue to grow with the person I'm talking to when I always feel second to their deceased ex?" FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

As adults we get busy with life and we tend to grow apart from those we love. If you’re a loyal listener you know we focus on lgbtq+ topics, however, in this episode we talk a little bit about family. We dive into the following… Describing our relationship with our siblings How we came out to our siblings and how that relationship was like after coming out Sibling drama/fighting for our parents attention/favoritism, etc! We also dive into why siblings grow apart over time. Family Meeting Questions “I was talking to a married lesbian for 2 months and her wife found out” “My girlfriend has an ex who has a son and my gf is very attached to him, not sure what to do”. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Les Chat about cheating again! There are no “universal rules” around cheating, what is cheating and what is not cheating is up to you and your partner. In this episode we go over this TikTok video where she goes over “cheating” scenarios (video link: https://www.tiktok.com/@kristy.ca/video/7239822376970587398 - for queer couples) and we go over it in this episode.  If you would like to listen to our last cheating episode (The Cheater & The Cheated) tune into episode 8. Below are some questions we go over.. IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner still listens to a playlist that their ex made them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner STILL hangs out with an ex that still has feelings for them? IS IT CHEATING IF: Your partner uses a strap that used to belong to them and their ex Family Meeting Story “My gf cheated on me emotionally..” “I cheated on my BF and I am GAY AF." PRECIOSA NIGHT TICKETS: https://www.preciosanight.com/tix Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/ TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com

We couldn't let pride month go by without out deep diving into the most popular Netflix queer reality series "THE ULTIMATUM: QUEER LOVE"!! Yes, we FINALLY discuss our thoughts on the original 5 couples, the trail couples, and the all the drama in between up until the reunion. DISCLAIMER this episode is a huge spoiler alert so if you have not yet watched or finished watching this series we suggest you do that first and tune back into this episode. Also, if you're looking to close out this pride month with a night to remember then come join us in NYC for the very last pride month celebration!! Click the link below for details on the NYC Pride Event! Link to NYC Pride Party: CLICK HERE Family meeting: 1. "I've been with my girlfriend for 2 years but we haven't be sexually intimate". 2. "My girlfriend recently told me that she want to experiment with other people and that she may never want to come out". Please rate, review, and subscribe to or follow the podcast on Apple, Spotify, or wherever you get your podcasts. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well! Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA!  6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_  6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative 6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast" 6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects 6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun  6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride 6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair 6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj 6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela 6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership 6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride 6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer 6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc 6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride 6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride 6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc 6/24/23 - Pride 5K  6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl 6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal  6/23/23 - NYC Pride  NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge Family Meeting Questions “I’ve fallen for a straight girl!” "What would you choose? you find a girl you have an out of this world emotional connection, but zero physical attraction OR you have another girl that connects with you on every sexual level, but you can't show your true self outside the bedroom.” “I’m 21 and I’m dating a 26 year old, but I wasn’t being honest with myself” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons.. For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group.  We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you. Family Meeting Q&A: 1. "Can you be friends with an EX?" 2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"." 3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust." IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them. Family Meeting Story - "She has slept with over 100 people". IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Why are there so many stigmas towards the LGBTQ+ community? I’m sure we’ve all heard the following statements... “Homosexuality is a choice” “You can’t be queer and religious” “All bisexuals are promiscuous” And many more! Before the 1970s, most stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community were extremely negative, doctors believed if you were gay, you suffered from a mental disorder. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a mental disorder, but then replaced it with "sexual orientation disturbance." Then in 1987, the (DSM) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders removed homosexuality from their list. We also dive into stigmas regarding HIV. For as long as HIV has existed in the public eye, it has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We are excited to share that we are partnering up with The Black Aids Institute.  The Black Aids institute is dedicated to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the Black community. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “HIV doesn’t affect me because I’m a lesbian who dates women only”. However, today there are more than 1.1 million people living with HIV in the U.S and 23% of them are women. HIV affects women of color, especially black women. This is an important reminder to get tested and to get that HIV vaccine once it comes out, we’re manifesting it will be very soon!  Family Meeting Q&A “I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend”. “How long would you be willing to wait for a marriage proposal before calling it quits?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/