Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

HAPPY PRIDE MONTH!! This episode was short and sweet where we talk about what’s going on this month, what events we will be attending as well as some events YOU should attend as well! Below are some events happening in NJ/Philly/NYC and LA!  6/6/23 - 6/11/23 - LA - 7 Exclusive Events For Women Who Love Women @taste.ent @tasteofficial_  6/9/23 - Haddon Township Pride @haddontownshipequityinitiative 6/10/23 - Sip City Queer Prom @sipcitymixer (Tickets can be found here: https://linktr.ee/leschat - use promo code "leschatpodcast" 6/10/23 - Queer Mixer in Jersey City with @jerseycityconnects 6/10/23 - Philly Pride Run @phillypriderun  6/10/23 - Brooklyn Pride @brooklyn_pride 6/10/23 - Montclair, NJ Pride @outmontclair 6/10/23 - Red Bank, NJ Pride In The Park @redbank_nj 6/10/23 - LA HoodRave @hoodravela 6/11/23 - LA Pride Village Parade @hollywoodpartnership 6/11/23 - Drag Brunch Canopy in NJ @jerseycitypride 6/15/23 - Trans Pride in Philly @sipcitymixer 6/17, 6/24 & 6/25 - Pride Party Cruise: Sparkle in the Dark @eventcruises_nyc 6/21/23 - NYC Yankees Pride Night @nycpride 6/22/23 - 6/24/23 NYC Party with @edennycpride 6/23/23 - 6/24/23 - NYC Pride Drag Brunch Cruise @eventcruises_nyc 6/24/23 - Pride 5K  6/25/23 NYC Pride Grand Finale @slateny with @nydreamgyrl 6/25/23 - NY Pride Island @brooklynarmyterminal  6/23/23 - NYC Pride  NJ Drag Queen Entertainment Shows @dragqueenentertainment Jersey City Drag Shows on Fridays & Saturdays with @six26_lounge Family Meeting Questions “I’ve fallen for a straight girl!” "What would you choose? you find a girl you have an out of this world emotional connection, but zero physical attraction OR you have another girl that connects with you on every sexual level, but you can't show your true self outside the bedroom.” “I’m 21 and I’m dating a 26 year old, but I wasn’t being honest with myself” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

It's no secret that in lesbian culture we find ourselves befriending exes or maybe even getting involved with close friends! While it seems cool and convenient at first, it can be quite the MESS. Sharing a friend group with your partner can be ideal for many reasons.. For example, you understand the friendship dynamic, you share most of the same interests, you reciprocate one another's energy, and have the same ideas of what boundaries are. However, dating someone in your friend group or befriending an ex can also be weird and create instability in your shared friend group.  We share some tips on dating someone in your friend group and tips on what to if you breakup with someone who has the same friend group as you. Family Meeting Q&A: 1. "Can you be friends with an EX?" 2. "My girlfriend won't tell me why she stopped talking to her "bestie"." 3. "My girlfriend went out and broke my trust." IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

Instagram is full of insightful post that we can all relate to so this week’s episode we leave the topic of discussion to instagram. We chose 2 popular IG post “7 questions to ask on a first date” and “7 first date ideas” to share along with our own thoughts about them. Family Meeting Story - "She has slept with over 100 people". IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

Why are there so many stigmas towards the LGBTQ+ community? I’m sure we’ve all heard the following statements... “Homosexuality is a choice” “You can’t be queer and religious” “All bisexuals are promiscuous” And many more! Before the 1970s, most stereotypes about the LGBTQ+ community were extremely negative, doctors believed if you were gay, you suffered from a mental disorder. In 1973, the American Psychiatric Association removed homosexuality as a mental disorder, but then replaced it with "sexual orientation disturbance." Then in 1987, the (DSM) Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders removed homosexuality from their list. We also dive into stigmas regarding HIV. For as long as HIV has existed in the public eye, it has been associated with the LGBTQ+ community. We are excited to share that we are partnering up with The Black Aids Institute.  The Black Aids institute is dedicated to ending the HIV/AIDS epidemic in the Black community. Some of you may be thinking to yourself “HIV doesn’t affect me because I’m a lesbian who dates women only”. However, today there are more than 1.1 million people living with HIV in the U.S and 23% of them are women. HIV affects women of color, especially black women. This is an important reminder to get tested and to get that HIV vaccine once it comes out, we’re manifesting it will be very soon!  Family Meeting Q&A “I can’t get over my ex-girlfriend”. “How long would you be willing to wait for a marriage proposal before calling it quits?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

You don't have to be famous or be known by the world to leave behind a legacy that will live beyond our existence. We all play a part in the impact and influence we have on one another's lives. It’s up to you on what you want to be remembered for. In this episode we talk about the people we looked up to that have shaped us into who we've become leading up to adulthood. We dive into how in creating this platform, we'll leave that legacy behind us and how we want to be remembered as a couple as well as an individual. Family Meeting “I’m straight but I think I’m in love with my BFF” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

A vacation is good for the soul and for the relationship. In episode #63 we dive into BAECATIONS! Listen, WE NEED A BAECATION so we’re just gonna reminisce but we also want to talk about our travel experience as a queer couple and everything you need to know before booking that baecation. We dive into our traveling personality, when it’s too early to book that baecation, how often couples should go on vacation, as well as. Safe places to travel for LGBTQ couples - Link The worst places to travel for LGBTQ couples (There are 64 countries that have laws that criminalize homosexuality, and nearly half of these are in Africa. - link) Family Meeting Q&A’s Christianity/Religion & being LGBTQ+: My partner feels as if she cannot be bisexual and also a Christian. Are we breaking up? “Lately I’ve been feeling like I want to break up with my girlfriend”. FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  .GAY Domain Link The #DotGayDomain is on a mission to support LGBTQ+ communities by donating 20% of each domain name registration to grassroots organizations and banning hateful sites.  Head over to www.LesChatPodcast.gay and grab your FREE .gay domain and join us in creating an internet where everyone can be themselves proudly! 🏳️‍🌈✨

When we were younger, making new friends was easy and having a larger group of friends was normal. However, as we get older having only two or three close friends becomes the norm because life just seems to get in the way. In this episode we talk about how work, parenting, home chores, relationships and even the pandemic made friendships harder to maintain as an adult. We also dive into how friendships look after coming out and what it's like to be the only gay friend in the group. Family meeting: 1. My GF and I work for the same company she’s a HR manger and i’m a supervisor but we work in different buildings.The issue is that when i am venting to her about work or some gossip it always turns into a argument because her HR comes out but i have to remind her that I am venting to my GF not HR. 2. I’ve been with my girl for a year and half. She has a daughter who has ADHD. This wasn’t told to me upfront and it has caused some difficulties in the relationship. We’re good overall, but the child is an issue due to lack of respect. How do you find a middle ground or do you walk away? IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ PRECIOSA NIGHT/LGBTQ BROOKLYN PARTY ON 05/13 - TICKETS SipCity Mixer (Philly) Melamixin Sip City (Philly) Philly Gay Girls SipCitySouthJersey TheHouseOfQueers Geneva APP OutLoudSports Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

What’s your fight style? Similar to “love languages” we also have “fighting styles”. Relationships are often associated with the idea of love and happiness.. How do I keep my partner happy? How do I show them I care and understand? How can we “fight” without it turning into a screaming match? There are SO many different online articles and online quizzes on fight styles but we focused on the top 3 by Jay Shetty, “Venting, Hiding, or Exploding”. We also dive into other popular fighting styles/languages and how you can find neutrality and peace. Family Meeting:  ”I’m an 18 year old fem lesbian and she’s a 21 year old bi fem, is the age difference an issue?” "Hello,I’m a closeted bisexual and really want to come out. But I’m afraid that my friends will look differently at me. “ FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/  FIGHT STYLES QUIZ https://what-is-your-fight-style.scoreapp.com/?fbclid=PAAaZ4Nd872HcXNhv0xj6WBRQsJmTP4oUdDqlMbYPUP4Tv_G5qv-y7El4dmN4  SOURCES https://www.yourtango.com/love/six-fight-languages https://www.thehealthjournals.com/5-anger-languages/ TOPIC ON NASHVILLE SHOOTING https://www.reuters.com/world/us/after-school-shooting-some-trans-tennesseans-face-backlash-2023-03-31/ https://www.instagram.com/teachingisintellectual/?hl=en

Nairobi, also known as Robi is a middle school art teacher who has gone viral on TikTok for the way they manage their classroom, funny conversations with students, tiktok dances, outfit of the day and more!  Pronouns are not something we’ve touched on in this podcast because we wanted someone to come in and educate us and talk about their experience. Robi identifies as non-binary and goes by they/them. So what are pronouns?! It’s what you use to address other people when you’re not using names. The most common pronouns are she/her/hers, they/them/theirs, and he/him/his.  It’s important to respect pronouns because you wouldn’t call someone a different name other than the one they have. In this episode we dive into  💜Robi’s teaching experience/why they became a teacher 💛What students address them as and how Robi corrects them or doesn’t correct them when they say the wrong pronoun, such as “Ms Robi” 💗And more! Family Meeting:  We don’t have any family meeting/Q&A in this episode.  Robi’s Social Media Handles https://linktr.ee/robigotsoles  FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

This episode was a little different, we introduced our "Love without limits" merch and the journey it took to get to this point. While it is still Women's History Month we talked about queer Hispanic history and some badass queer women we should all know about. Also, played one our favorite card games, “We’re not really strangers” where we both answer relationship and couple questions. Special Announcement: Merch goes on SALE to Patreon members on Monday, March 20th and everyone else can shop on Tuesday, March 21st at 12PM EST. Family Meeting:  “I have a gf I love her to death but when she's going through something she pushes me away “ “How can I deal with my gf when it’s that time of the month?” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON: IG: ⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠⁠ TIKTOK: ⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠⁠ YOUTUBE: ⁠⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠⁠ PATREON: ⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod⁠⁠ Our website: ⁠⁠https://leschatpod.com/⁠⁠ Link tree: ⁠⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/⁠ - ⁠PROMO CODE: LES10 LES CHAT MERCH: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ QUEEN V: https://amzn.to/3ZQugjx