

Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
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Aug 29, 2022 • 1h 20min
32.Bi Wife Energy
We introduce our favorite fellow podcast friends/couple Travis and Stephanie from the Westilllikeeachother podcast. In Episode 3 of their podcast, Steph talked about identifying as bisexual and they were open to introducing a third in their relationship but said “it never worked” yet they still had some sexual experiences… we get deep with Travis and Steph asking them the most common yet important questions like...
Why did you introduce a third in your relationship? Was this a “third” as in you wanted it to be a poly relationship or it was just a threesome?
Who brought it up first? How did you communicate that you wanted to bring someone into the bedroom?
What boundaries were set when you brought in a third? Were they allowed to stay the night? Were cuddles allowed?
How do you bring up wanting a threesome? For example, a cis woman and guy want to bring in another girl
https://westilllikeeachother.com/
IG: https://www.instagram.com/westilllikeeachother/
Family Meeting Questions:
I’ve been in a 12 year relationship the love we have for each other is there but her mother has been in control of the relationship since it started….
How do y’all go about splitting bills? I understand the 50/50 but that doesn’t work with my girlfriend and I because I make more than she does.
TROVATRIP LINK:
https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/email/les-chat
How couples can split bills article: https://hermoney.com/connect/love/how-couples-can-split-their-money-to-be-fair/
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ - videos are posted on Monday @ 6PM EST

Aug 22, 2022 • 1h 23min
31. Interracial Dating FT Brennah
Happy Monday everyone! In this episode we feature Brennah, 25-year-old owner and chef of LesbiVeggies, a Black-owned, LGBTQ+ friendly, all-vegan restaurant in Audubon, NJ! We talk a little bit about her entrepreneur journey but we also get into some interesting topics on dating outside our race, dating stories, zodiac signs, pronouns and lesbian stereotypes!
We also discuss,
- How our home background/environment affected us being comfortable with our sexuality.
- Some differences we learned in dating/being friends with people of other ethnicities/races
- Do lesbian recruit straight women?
- Are most lesbians are vegans?
- Are marcs the better cooks?
Check out this article by Edible Philly on LesbiVeggies! - https://ediblephilly.ediblecommunities.com/eat/brennah-lambert-expanding-vegan-lifestyle-lesbiveggies
https://www.veganrestaurantaudubon.com/
IG: @brennahlambert_
@lesbiveggies
Family Meeting Questions:
"What should I do if I really love my girlfriend but I don’t like eating her out because sometimes I don’t like the way she tastes?"
"I am a baby gay who’s been on many dates with a woman but has never kissed or got sexually involved with a woman. How soon should I share that I’m inexperienced? "

Aug 15, 2022 • 1h 13min
30. Leschat About Boundaries
Leschat about setting boundaries and what makes setting boundaries so difficult? Jojo & Dayra go over examples of how they've had to set boundaries in the past with partners, family, friends, the workplace, etc..
We’ve all been in situations where we find it difficult to set boundaries with a friend because we’re worried about coming off rude or offensive. Dayra is the queen of boundaries!
Setting boundaries is about taking care of your own needs. Setting boundaries might mean you might lose people, most people don't like boundaries because they like having power, give that power back to yourself instead.. Setting boundaries is a form of self respect and you deserve to be respected.
Family Meeting Questions
1. "I have a girlfriend who was in an open relationship with her boyfriend. They broke up and now it’s just us, she lied & ...."
2. "My fiance's family is super catholic and they don’t know she’s gay..."
3. "Is it always this emotional being with a woman? If so, Idk if I want this anymore"
Don't forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe! DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us.
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Aug 8, 2022 • 1h 13min
29. Attachment Styles
Jojo & Dayra go over the 4 attachment styles and why it’s important to know them and how it may be affecting your relationship.
Ask yourself..
⁃ Do you get too clingy or jealous?
⁃ Or do you always seem to be more involved in the relationship than your partner?
⁃ Or maybe you want to be with someone, but as soon as things get serious, you back off?
If any of these relate, you may have an anxious, avoidant, or fearful-avoidant attachment style.
We also go over,
⁃ What ways can women's attachment styles interact with their experience of compulsory heterosexuality aka the idea that heterosexuality is the expected norm?
We finish the episode with how your attachment style can change with a lot of work, patience and intention.
Family Meeting Questions
⁃ “My partners co-worker gave her $100 in singles for her birthday, should I be worried?”
⁃ “My co worker claims she’s straight but she sends me mixed signals.” - TRAVEL SURVEY: https://my.trovatrip.com/public/l/survey/les-chat

Aug 1, 2022 • 1h 15min
28. Public VS. Queer Spaces
Public spaces hold more heternomative expectations making it difficult for lgbtq+ to be open or authentic..
What was your first experience in a nightclub or a gay nightclub? Should straight people be allowed in gay clubs? We invite Jasmine to the podcast AGAIN and we talk about our experiences in nightlife.
Why are lesbian bars disappearing? Why are queer spaces important? We go into some fun facts based on The Lesbian Bar Project documentary.
Lesbian Bars on the East Coast
CUBBYHOLE - NYC
HENRIETTA HUDSON - NYC
GINGER’S - BROOKLYN
MY SISTER’S ROOM - ATLANTA
A League of Her Own - Washington, DC
BABES OF CARYTOWN - RICHMOND, VA
Family Meeting Questions
1. I gained weight and my partner told me they are not sexually attracted to me anymore.
2. I was married for 17 years in a straight relationship and now I am newly single and exploring my sexuality but I’m scared of “coming out”
3. How do you make your partner believe that you aren’t going to leave them for a man if you are bisexual.
Dont forget to like, comment, share, and rate!
DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us.
JoJo's TikTok: @JoDiddy &
Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss
Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra &
Instagram: @Dear.Dayra
Thank you for all the love and support!!
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

Jul 18, 2022 • 1h
26. Coping with Grief
Grief is expressed differently across different cultures. Some people like to be expressive and public with their emotions, while others like to keep grief private. In this episode we talk about our personal experiences with grief and how we coped with it.
We discuss,
- How can grief help/ allow us to grow?
- When should you seek help for your grief?
- How to cope with grief?
Family Meeting Questions
1. When is there a “good time” to ask about grooming habits before we take that step and get intimate- while not offending her or killing the mood.
2.Dating tips and what it's like now to date?
3. Where am I supposed to meet someone special if all the dating apps are just for hooking up?
Dont forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe!
Follow us on instagram and tiktok @Les.ChatPodcast for more content!
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

Jul 11, 2022 • 55min
25. Lesbians W/ Anxiety FT Jaime Filer
LGBTQ+ individuals are more than twice as likely as heterosexual men and women to have a mental health disorder in their lifetime… In this episode we talk about mental and physical health with personal coach/trainer Jaime Filer who has over 118,000 followers on social media! Jaime helps LGBTQ+ women integrate their physical and mental health to decrease anxiety.. We discuss living with anxiety as an LGBTQ+ person and what we can do to support a loved one who suffers from anxiety. We dive into…
Therapy and our experience with it.
How do you even begin a regimen when you struggle with anxiety?
Books/podcasts Jaime recommends that help with mental health.
You can follow Jaime Filer on IG/Tiktok
IG: @jaim91
Tiktok:@jaimefiler
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/teamjaim91
Jaime’s Personal Website: https://linktr.ee/jaim91
RESOURCES: LGBTQ+ Crisis/Suicide Prevention Hotlines
https://www.hrc.org/resources/mental-health-resources-in-the-lgbtq-community
A Family Meeting YOUTUBE video will be posted this week!
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

Jun 27, 2022 • 1h 4min
24. Life Without Rights
As pride month is coming to an end we give a quick recap on all the gay festivities we got into as well as the awesome queer guests we were able to have on the podcast as a pride month special. Following our exciting recap we speak up on the political catastrophe of Roe v. Wade recently passing the ban of abortions. Not only as a woman but women of the LGBTQ+ community & apart of the minority community we express how absolutely destructive it is to have passed this law. The pass of this ban has also brought officials to shed light on potentially reversing the legalization of same sex marriage!
Family Meeting
1. My daughter is 28 years old and has been with her gf for 7 years who cheated on her..
2. As a masc fem I love using $traps but my gf is a Virgin
3. “Should I break up w my girlfriend? I made a friend 3 years into our relationship but she doesn’t like her at all..”
Dont forget to like, comment, share, and subscribe!
Follow us on instagram and tiktok @Les.ChatPodcast for more content!
DM/Email us for any questions or topics discussion you'd like to hear from us.
JoJo's TikTok:@JoDiddy & Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss
Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra & Instagram: @Dear.Dayra
https://anchor.fm/leschatpodcast1322/...
Thank you for all the love and support!!
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

Jun 13, 2022 • 58min
22. Coming Out Later In Life Ft Kristin
It's never too late to do the things that make you happy even if you have to take a few losses along the way. We invited Kristin Holden on to the podcast to share her experience in what it’s like coming out in her 30's. Although it hasn’t been an easy process with telling family and friends, she still manages to find her peace and courage to live as her truest self. Kristin also shares some super helpful tips on what it take to live life on the road as a van lifer herself!
Family Meeting Questions
“I guess you can count me as a “baby gay”. I’m starting to date again but it’s been hard. My level of experience puts people off. Do you have any advice on how to overcome this?”
“Should I confront my homophobic mother?”
https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/ - https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/van-life
IG: https://www.instagram.com/wheretheroadforks__/
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YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/channel/UCD9hhixfHxSfcGZQFUw6CAQ

Jun 6, 2022 • 1h 1min
21. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH
Pride month is here and in full effect!!! Excited to celebrate an entire month full of gay festivities where we get to be our gayest selves, share an abundant amount of love, meet new fellow queer friends and give all the "YASSS BITCHHH" compliments until our voice is gone. We can't forget the people who fought the fight that got us to this point. In this episode we give a little bit of the story behind pride and how it all started as well as share how pride impacts us today.
Family meeting Q&A:
1. “Allowing your partner to heal after a traumatic experience”
2. “Have you guys talked about wanting kids? And if so, who would carry the baby?”
3. “My brother wants my gf, what should I do??” —————————————————————
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