
Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Latest episodes

Jul 18, 2022 • 1h
26. Coping with Grief
Grief is expressed differently across different cultures. Some people like to be expressive and public with their emotions, while others like to keep grief private. In this episode we talk about our personal experiences with grief and how we coped with it.
We discuss,
- How can grief help/ allow us to grow?
- When should you seek help for your grief?
- How to cope with grief?
Family Meeting Questions
1. When is there a “good time” to ask about grooming habits before we take that step and get intimate- while not offending her or killing the mood.
2.Dating tips and what it's like now to date?
3. Where am I supposed to meet someone special if all the dating apps are just for hooking up?
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Jul 11, 2022 • 55min
25. Lesbians W/ Anxiety FT Jaime Filer
LGBTQ+ individuals are more than twice as likely as heterosexual men and women to have a mental health disorder in their lifetime… In this episode we talk about mental and physical health with personal coach/trainer Jaime Filer who has over 118,000 followers on social media! Jaime helps LGBTQ+ women integrate their physical and mental health to decrease anxiety.. We discuss living with anxiety as an LGBTQ+ person and what we can do to support a loved one who suffers from anxiety. We dive into…
Therapy and our experience with it.
How do you even begin a regimen when you struggle with anxiety?
Books/podcasts Jaime recommends that help with mental health.
You can follow Jaime Filer on IG/Tiktok
IG: @jaim91
Tiktok:@jaimefiler
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/teamjaim91
Jaime’s Personal Website: https://linktr.ee/jaim91
RESOURCES: LGBTQ+ Crisis/Suicide Prevention Hotlines
https://www.hrc.org/resources/mental-health-resources-in-the-lgbtq-community
A Family Meeting YOUTUBE video will be posted this week!
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Jun 27, 2022 • 1h 4min
24. Life Without Rights
As pride month is coming to an end we give a quick recap on all the gay festivities we got into as well as the awesome queer guests we were able to have on the podcast as a pride month special. Following our exciting recap we speak up on the political catastrophe of Roe v. Wade recently passing the ban of abortions. Not only as a woman but women of the LGBTQ+ community & apart of the minority community we express how absolutely destructive it is to have passed this law. The pass of this ban has also brought officials to shed light on potentially reversing the legalization of same sex marriage!
Family Meeting
1. My daughter is 28 years old and has been with her gf for 7 years who cheated on her..
2. As a masc fem I love using $traps but my gf is a Virgin
3. “Should I break up w my girlfriend? I made a friend 3 years into our relationship but she doesn’t like her at all..”
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JoJo's TikTok:@JoDiddy & Instagram @LovePeaceBlissss
Dayra's TikTok: @Dear.Dayra & Instagram: @Dear.Dayra
https://anchor.fm/leschatpodcast1322/...
Thank you for all the love and support!!
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Jun 20, 2022 • 1h 25min
23. IVF Baby Making Journey FT EdenxJay
This week Les Chat are joined with Eden & Jay. A latina queer married couple from Los Angeles! They’ve appeared on the Today Show, the Jubilees Spectrum Show, and Cara Delevigne's Hulu's Documentary "Planet Sex", they’ve also modeled for Play Boy & Fenty, and were Dinah Shore influencers! In this episode we dive into how same sex couples have babies, and what to start thinking about if you’re in your 20’s and wish to have kids in the future. In this episode you can expect to learn more about:
How did Eden & Jay met.
Healthy relationship tips from Eden & Jay.
Social media couples/relationships.
IUI vs IVF (Intrauterine Insemination VS In vitro fertilisation).
What is mini IVF.
Choosing a sperm donor.
Can you pick the gender of a baby?
Family Meeting Questions
1. What was it like coming to terms with your sexuality before and even after coming out? Because even after telling people i still struggle with the entire concept im gay
2. Have either of you ever been stressed or have so much going on that sex kinda took a backseat? And if so did you cut and run or did you work it out?
EDENXJAY SOCIAL MEDIA:
YOUTUBE: https://youtube.com/c/EdenxJay
IG: https://instagram.com/edenxjay?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTdKoPdSx/
LINKTREE: https://linktr.ee/Edenxjay
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Jun 13, 2022 • 58min
22. Coming Out Later In Life Ft Kristin
It's never too late to do the things that make you happy even if you have to take a few losses along the way. We invited Kristin Holden on to the podcast to share her experience in what it’s like coming out in her 30's. Although it hasn’t been an easy process with telling family and friends, she still manages to find her peace and courage to live as her truest self. Kristin also shares some super helpful tips on what it take to live life on the road as a van lifer herself!
Family Meeting Questions
“I guess you can count me as a “baby gay”. I’m starting to date again but it’s been hard. My level of experience puts people off. Do you have any advice on how to overcome this?”
“Should I confront my homophobic mother?”
https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/ - https://www.wheretheroadforks.net/van-life
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Jun 6, 2022 • 1h 1min
21. HAPPY PRIDE MONTH
Pride month is here and in full effect!!! Excited to celebrate an entire month full of gay festivities where we get to be our gayest selves, share an abundant amount of love, meet new fellow queer friends and give all the "YASSS BITCHHH" compliments until our voice is gone. We can't forget the people who fought the fight that got us to this point. In this episode we give a little bit of the story behind pride and how it all started as well as share how pride impacts us today.
Family meeting Q&A:
1. “Allowing your partner to heal after a traumatic experience”
2. “Have you guys talked about wanting kids? And if so, who would carry the baby?”
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May 30, 2022 • 1h 9min
20. Best/Worst Scenes Of The Original L-Word
In this episode we talk about THE L-WORD! We focus on some scenes from the Original L-Word (2004-2009). You don’t need to watch the L-Word to understand what we’re talking about in this podcast episode.
Is there such a thing as “coming out too late” in life? Listen/watch Phyllis ask Bette if it’s too late for her to come out (she’s an older married woman with kids)...
Imagine coming out in front of your Latinx family? Remember when Carmen comes out? Or when Bette goes off on the homophobe or when Kit (the biggest Ally) disagrees with Max’s transgender “decisions”?
Family Q&A
Do y'all think you can have a successful relationship with someone who is "straight"?
In a relationship with a girl who loves and respects me, but her friends have no boundaries and I feel uncomfortable.
I can’t get an 0rga$m from p0rn but I can when I watch some tiktoks…
How We Stay Updated with the NEWS!
BadQueersPod - Podcast
ShaunKing IG
Impact IG
Matt Bernstein IG

May 23, 2022 • 1h
19. Types Of Intimacy
Sex may be the most desirable type of intimacy to share with a partner but it certainly isn’t the only form!! Dayra and I share our top form of intimacy followed by some research on “12 different types of intimacy to experience with you partner”. We also go over the 5 E’s to help improve intimacy in a short time span from Jay Shetty’s Podcast!
We discuss our definition of intimacy and how we experience it in our own relationship.
We also go over the 3 following family meeting questions!
1. Thoughts on breaking up & making up..
2. “Feeling lost when it comes to relationships, I haven’t dated anyone in 4 years”
3. “Where do you find queer friends/ queer people to mingle with?! As a fem, how do I signal that I’m gay in public?”

May 16, 2022 • 1h 7min
18. Unpacking The U-haul
Lesbians are known to u-haul in a short time span! However, when is it an appropriate time to move in together?
What are the common problems couples encounter after moving in together? How does living together affect the relationship? In this episode we discuss OUR story of living together. We talk about finances, chores, boundaries, pet peeves, alone time, etc!
We end it with family Q&A’s and would you rather!
“I got married to a woman and my family didn’t congratulate me, they texted me saying I was making the worst mistake of my life by committing this sin.”
“How should someone who had trust issues feel about her girlfriend making ONLY lesbian/bi friends?”
“Have you ever gotten into a situationship with one of your friends and lost the friendship because of it.”
“I am 51 years old & now after 15 years of being with my wife she has decided she’s no longer in love with me and has left.”

May 2, 2022 • 58min
16. Unpopular Opinions
We all have our own personal opinions but we don't always choose to voice them. Sometimes the subject can be a little more touchy so people shy away from those discussions in fear of being judged. However, in this episode we are choosing to STIR the pot and go over some of the most commonly controversial unpopular opinions about relationships. Some are.. is marriage only for business purposes? Do fems run the relationship? Is it okay to go through your partners phone? Is it healthy to argue?
FAMILY Q&A:
1. How do you “come out” as a stemme? I have been femme presenting all my life but I’m having trouble finding my masculine style. I’m also afraid of not attracting stemmes myself if I am dressed masculine.
2. My partner had sex with their best friend in high school, but hangs out with them all the time and walks around half naked. Should that make me mad or should I get over it.
3. What can I do when my gf is frustrated?
4. So my partner of almost 2yrs has a bestfriend that doesn’t like me. Her bestfriend has NEVER met me and she claims that she dislikes me bc my gf is always with me and she’s changed her ways bc of me. Would you be mad at your gf for still talking to her best friend?