

Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
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Oct 14, 2024 • 45min
115. Ex Girlfriend Drama
Join us this week as we recap Dayra's unforgettable birthday festivities and celebrate the WNBA's hot season. We’ll also share highlights from our family meeting questions and end with a fun “Who’s Most Likely To” segment. Tune in for laughs, our regular complaints and some insights.
FAMILY MEETING
“Me and my girlfriend WERE together for almost 6 years, she broke up with me 3 weeks after my father passed away”
“My gf of 3 years recently broke up with me to try things out with her ex, a man”
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Sep 30, 2024 • 41min
114. September Recap
Join us in this catch up episode as we talk about what we’ve been up to, we celebrated JoJo’s birthday in style, we share our unforgettable experiences at a WNBA game (where we spotted Ashlyn Harris) and recount our thrilling helicopter ride over the NYC skyline.
In honor of Hispanic Heritage Month, we dive into the rich cultural contributions of LGBTQ+ Latinas who have paved the way for representation in the media. From trailblazers to modern icons, we quickly highlight their impact and discuss how they've used their platforms to uplift the visibility of LGBTQ+ Latinxs.
FAMILY MEETING
“About 5y ago I met my wife through TikTok . She slid in my dms and it was history after that. So I moved in and a year later we moved out of where she was and got married. Things were good until we hit 3 years”
“I recently broke up with my GF of almost two years. On our first date, I found out she was still legally married to her ex wife.”
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Sep 9, 2024 • 48min
113. Falling For Your Friends
In this week’s episode, Jojo and Dayra dive into the nuanced experience of falling for a friend—or having friends express romantic feelings towards them. Through candid personal stories, they explore the emotional rollercoaster of navigating these complex situations.
Family Meeting:
"My girlfriend and I were dating for a year . She recently found out that when we took a break I cheated on her with my baby’s father..."
"Can we talk about how racism doesn't only apply to white people but also other races? "
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Aug 26, 2024 • 47min
112. Understanding PDA & LGBTQ+ Challenges
In this episode, we explore Public Displays of Affection (PDA) from personal and societal perspectives. We start by discussing our own experiences with PDA growing up and how our views have changed over time.
Then, we focus on the challenges LGBTQ+ couples face when showing affection in public. A 2021 study reveals that these couples often face discrimination and violence, which can make them hesitant to express their love openly. We share stories of real-life attacks on LGBTQ+ couples, including incidents in London, Germany, and the US.
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FAMILY MEETING
“I have slept with a few of my friends and I am still friends with them, when should I tell this to the girl I dated?”
“My friend jokes around about being poly, do you think she’s hinting towards actually wanting to be poly w/ us?”
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Aug 12, 2024 • 56min
111. Single Vs. Relationship You
It is human nature to want love. To find someone you can connect and build with. Learning how to express, give, and receive love is a big part of our journey. However, when is the right time to find or build that love with someone?
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Family Meeting:
1. "My gf & I are going on 8 months. First 6 months were long distance... She left her ipad home one day, found sexual deleted messages w/ a guy…a guy she was hanging with when we were long distance. "
2. "As a newly gay woman, how do you date women?"
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Jul 29, 2024 • 46min
110. Long vs. Short Term Relationships
Are long-term relationships really the best? This episode explores why some people find short-term relationships more impactful and fulfilling.
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Family Meeting
• "After a yr and half of officially being together, she broke up with me, without a real explanation 'why', she just said its probably best we stay friends, we haven't spoke since that day"
• " Met this girl, 2 months later & I’m very in love with her and we’re inseparable and I feel like we’re flirting and our friends are also saying that.. I used to think that she's straight, but now i’m very confused"
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Jul 22, 2024 • 42min
109. Would You Stay With Me??
Les Chat family is going to BALI!!!! This week's episode we started of with shout outs to those that book their spot for our group 2025 Bali trip! Then we jump into to some hypothetical couple questions from Therapyjeff's IG page.
Would you stay with me if:
1. I changed my political affiliation to the other side?
2. I wanted to be physically intimate with you 50% less often? How about 75% less often?
3. I had to move somewhere 3000 miles away for a year, which meant we’d be in a long-distance relationship?
4. I changed my mind about having kids with you, wanting the opposite of what we originally planned.
5. I told you that I cheated on you once at the start of the relationship but never did it again because I felt horrible.
6. I either became devoutly religious or devoutly atheist.
7. I decided to stop using social media and get rid of my smartphone. In fact, I’m only going to use a dumb phone, and I need you to do the same, or I won’t stay with you.
8. I decided to quit my job, take out a huge loan, go back to school, and pursue a PhD that would take five years to complete.
9. I wanted to become a social media influencer and podcaster, sharing personal stories that often come from our relationship and time together.
10. I became really good friends with someone you hated. Like your arch nemesis or something.
Family Meeting:
I'm in a relationship with a bi woman from Peru who has come out to her friends, colleagues and a small part of her family (siblings, cousins). Her parents, however, are very catholic and not supportive of the LGBTQ+ community. They think we are only friends. I'm okay with my gf not coming out to them, but since she has a close relationship with her parents, I don't know if our relationship should be a secret in the long-term. On the other hand, I'm afraid that revealing our relationship will bring hardships to her and destroy her relationship with her parents. Do you have any advice or experience with this?
So I’ve been dating this girl for almost 2 years. Everything has been great except one little thing, sometimes girls grab her butt and she doesn't say anything because she said she’s not the type of girl to talk back. Girls flirt with her & grab her collar shirt and she doesn't tell them anything because she doesn’t want to be mean. I’m a baby gay and she’s been out since she was 14 and currently she’s 25 and I’m 22. She keeps mentioning marriage but I don’t know what to do or how to feel because of those situations. I’ve tried talking to her but she just doesn’t listen and ends up getting angry and shuts me down, I'm just scared to get hurt again I don’t know what to do anymore…
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Jul 15, 2024 • 42min
108. Fem VS Femme
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In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc".
We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme.
Family Meeting
1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years officially but romantically 5 years. She told me it’s hard to see the future meaning marriage because of her parents…”
2. “I slept w/a guy & now I’m 4 months pregnant”
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Jul 8, 2024 • 43min
107. Post Pride Month
Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife.
Family Meeting
“Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for over 2 years”
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Jun 24, 2024 • 1h 1min
106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly
This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” ..
In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, shedding light on the differences Lily has discovered along her journey.
Family Meeting Questions
1. "I’ve been married to a girl for 5 years, we started having marital problems and I reached out to my high school sweetheart "
2. "My wife of 8 months suddenly wants a break from us because she feels she isn’t meant to be in a committed relationship."
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