
Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Latest episodes

Apr 15, 2024 • 36min
99. Six Different Types of Attraction
Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships.
Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance.
Sources:
https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction
WHAT KIND OF ATTRACTION AM I FEELING?
1. "I’m in a situation where I have a long term gf but my best friend recently confessed to me that she is platonically in love with me”.
“I noticed how pretty this girl from the gym is is and now i want to make a move but not sure if she likes girls. What should I do? How should i talk to her?"
cheated on me with a GUY co-worker less than a month into her new role."
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Apr 8, 2024 • 57min
98. Deep Convos & Medellin Adventures
Join us on this episode #98 as we reminisce about our unforgettable family trip to Medellin, Colombia. From exploring, eating and dancing to an unexpected event turned our trip into a rollercoaster ride – one of us ended up in the hospital, not once, but twice!
As we talk about our highs and lows of our Medellin adventure, we delve into deep questions that would be perfect for first dates. Some of them were…
Would you rather spend a day with your younger self or older self?
What advice would you impart to your 10-year-old self if given the chance?
And in the event of memory loss, what would be the first thing you'd say to help regain memories?
Colombia Tattoo Artist: https://www.instagram.com/gustavoposadat2/?igsh=MmQ3d3JpamNpcjZ6
Colombia Dentist: https://www.instagram.com/odontologia.sarah/?igsh=NzF6enM4YjNsZWZk
Card Games on TikTok: Flamingo.Cards
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Apr 1, 2024 • 55min
97. Confessions
EP 97: We dive into random questions, confessions, and family meeting topics sent anonymously via Instagram and NGL! Join us as we explore unspoken thoughts and feelings, offering candid insights and humor. From taboo confessions to lesbian drama, we tackle it all, creating a safe space for raw and unfiltered discussions.
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Mar 25, 2024 • 1h 17min
96. Facing Rejection
Rejection has always been the hardest pill for us all to swallow. It bears such a negative weight when we feel as though someone you show such interest in just doesn’t share that same interest in return. We then find ourselves questioning what it is about us that could be wrong. But nothing is wrong with you!! Once we accept the fact that we aren’t for everyone just like everyone isn’t for us.. rejection becomes a lot less personal.
FAMILY MEETING:
"Google Voicemail: I started dating a girl who talks bad about her friends.."
"I took the initiative to inseminate (without telling my partner) - how does this make it any different from getting pregnant by a man in the situation that both of y’all are a couple?"
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Mar 11, 2024 • 1h 6min
95. Questioning My Sexuality
Curiosity is heavy during our teenage years because we’re trying to find our identity. Those are the years where we are introduced to friendships, relationships, sex, and maybe even questioning our sexuality. As we get older we still learn how to navigate through all those things because no matter how old we are we still find ourselves searching for our identities as we continue to grow.
- Is sexuality a spectrum?
- Do you have to limit yourself to a label?
- Is it because of growing up in a heteronormative society?
Family meeting:
1. " I was with a guy/married for 10 years, came out as gay a year ago & left him. Since being out of that relationship, I have realized that he is a huge narcissist and emotionally abused me. He used to say I had saggy boobs to the point I had a breast reduction, big thighs, big arms, etc."
2. "I feel like I am being tested in my life/career. I just graduated with my masters degree & started a new job but I have never felt so lost and alone than I do right now."
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Mar 4, 2024 • 1h 9min
94. Queer Baiting
What do you consider queer bating? In EP 94 we discuss queer baiting which is when someone uses the possibility of a queer relationship or queer representation to get audiences to watch a show/movie, etc... but they never actually follow through with it. We go into different examples (Karol G, Bad Bunny, Harry Styles, etc) as well as the history on queer baiting in the 1940’s-1960’s with the “Lavender Scare”.
LOVE CRAVE VIBRATOR NECKLACE LINK
Family Meeting:
“My girlfriend of 4 years broke up with me because she believes she is poly.”
“There’s one girl in particular I’ve been hanging out with and have had sex a few times . She said she’s a lesbian when we first met and said she doesn’t sleep with men, and then told me a few days ago she occasionally does sleep with men. Sleeping with men opens up the doors for more STI’s. What should I do?”
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Feb 19, 2024 • 53min
93. Chosen Family
Society has put a lot of pressure on the importance of family. Having loving parents, sharing happy memories with your siblings, feeling safe and protected by the ones you share blood with.. However, that isn’t the version of "family" that everyone gets to experience.
What is a chosen family?
Why is it important to the community?
What to look for when choosing a family?
Where to find people to be a part of my chosen family?
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Family meeting:
1. "I am an 18 year old female and am struggling to be around my family. I'm half Black and half Latino, not to be stereotypical BUT when things happen in the family, we don’t talk about it! We “pray” and “move on ''. Very often they will bring up the topic of LGBTQ and say hateful things to intentionally hurt me(they are all very Christian). "
2. "Do you have lesbian friends that don’t want kids? As a childfree lesbian I feel bombarded by breeders, even in the LGBTQ community."
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Feb 12, 2024 • 54min
92. Major Life Changes
We're back! From what seems to be a long overdue break from the podcast. We talk about how the impact of big life changes in a relationship can be for the best or worse. SORRY FOR THE STATIC SOUND YA'LL :(
Unpacking the U-HAUL:
What our thoughts were prior to moving.
What challenges/stressors we faced in the process.
What helped us adapt to the new environment.
Highland Park therapy article gives
6 ways to navigate your relationship and big life changes
1. Open communication
2. Prioritize self care
3. Lean on your support system
4. Interstate adaptability
5. Prioritize quality time
6. Work with a therapist
https://www.highlandparktherapy.com/blog/2023/5/19/how-to-deal-with-big-life-changes-and-your-relationship
Family Meeting
“My wife’s gaming addiction ruined it for me. We got divorced but recently got remarried. I love her and I don’t want to hurt her but I’m hoping my feelings change so I don’t feel trapped in my choice to make things work between us.”
“We have not had sex in months now even at our new place. I’m concerned that there’s a disconnection sexually. We have been together for 9 years so maybe time has a lot to do with that? Any advice on what I can do or how I can bring up the conversation to her?”
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Dec 18, 2023 • 1h 7min
91. It's not a goodbye, it's a see you later
As the new year approaches, we reflect on 2023 and set intentions for the new year. We also share some bittersweet news in this episode.
EP 91: We discuss our biggest accomplishments in the past year, as well as challenges and obstacles we faced. We dive into personal struggles we had in 2023 and how we plan on achieving personal goals and self improvement for the new year.
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Family Meeting Questions
My wife & I have been together for 4 years. Over the years, I realized I initiated everything: kisses, dates & sex. In the past 6 months, she has gained 40lbs & refuses to exercise with me or by herself. Between her lack of effort to initiate & her recent weight gain, I’m not as physically or emotionally attracted to her.
My girl told me that she slept in the same bed with her best friend naked because she was hot, this is someone she had se* with, in the past..
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Dec 11, 2023 • 1h 14min
90. Queer Dating Icks FT Brennah
In this week's episode we welcome our friend Brennah back to Les Chat to deep dive into the tragedies of lesbian dating. Brennah shares some details about how her dating journey has been going and we run through a list of dating icks. The best advice Brennah wanted to leave with us is that letting go of expectations could make dating less tragic. You don't need to find you person right away. Have fun and get to know yourself in the process.
Family Meeting:
1. Can y'all talk about WHY we have this weird dating trend where people talk for 3/4 months and then never speak again?
2. My girlfriend and I have been dating for about 4 months already. I just found out that she has still kept contact with her past fling.
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