

Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas
LGBTQ+ Podcast by Jojo & Dayra
Welcome to the Les Chat podcast!
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Yes, another LGBTQ+ podcast coming to you straight from the EAST COST co-hosted by the queer couple Jojo and Dayra. We want a place to share our life experiences and point of views within the LGBTQIA+ and Latinx Community. Accompanied by some of our friends and family that are also apart of OR an alliance to the community. We discuss relationship, sex, dating, labels, queerness, slurs, stereotypes, storytelling and MORE. So pour your drinks, light your candles, and kick back while we vibe out together.
Episodes
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Jul 15, 2024 • 42min
108. Fem VS Femme
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In this episode, we dive into the nuances of LGBTQ+ terminology and culture. We start by examining the term "Golden Retriever Masc".
We explore how "femme" differs from "fem," its significance in various LGBTQ+ spaces, and its diverse subcategories, such as High Femme, Hard Femme, Femme Top, and Stone Femme.
Family Meeting
1. “I’ve been with my girlfriend for 3 years officially but romantically 5 years. She told me it’s hard to see the future meaning marriage because of her parents…”
2. “I slept w/a guy & now I’m 4 months pregnant”
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IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
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Jul 8, 2024 • 43min
107. Post Pride Month
Pride Festivities & Scandals! In this episode we catch up on NYC Pride Weekend festivities and dive into jaw-dropping internet stories. Brace yourself for a shocking Reddit tale of family drama involving an affair between a mom and her son's wife.
Family Meeting
“Is it wrong to hate my mother in law? I have been working with my monster in law for over 2 years”
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IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
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YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
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Jun 24, 2024 • 1h 1min
106. "I Kissed A Girl & I Liked It" FT Lilly
This week's episode we welcome a returning guest Lilly! Join us in this fun convo with Lily as she shares her “coming out story” ..
In our discussion, we explore the nuances of dating and relationships for Lily, comparing her experiences with men to those with women. We touch upon the challenges and unique aspects of same-sex relationships, shedding light on the differences Lily has discovered along her journey.
Family Meeting Questions
1. "I’ve been married to a girl for 5 years, we started having marital problems and I reached out to my high school sweetheart "
2. "My wife of 8 months suddenly wants a break from us because she feels she isn’t meant to be in a committed relationship."
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
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Jun 17, 2024 • 60min
105. Breaking the One-Year Barrier: Lesbian Love
From the blissful honeymoon phase to the real challenges of long-term commitment, we explore it all. Learn how falling in love can impair critical thinking, why we unconsciously pick partners with familiar flaws, and how attachment issues and milestone pressures can impact your relationship.
Discover the importance of tolerating each other's bad habits, overcoming grudges, and negotiating differences without feeling betrayed. We’ll also discuss the swipe-left mentality from dating apps and how to keep the spark alive as familiarity sets in.
Family Meeting
1." Currently going thru a separation with my wife of 7 years, she moved out at the end of 2023 and has recently started dating someone else long distance. "
2. "I have been attracted to women all my life but because of my strict homophobic mexican/latina mother i suppressed those feelings and I tried to make her happy ".
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FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
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Jun 10, 2024 • 1h
104. Navigating Queer Dating Apps
In this episode 104, we explore the evolving world of queer dating post-pandemic. Technology has made dating easier, yet it comes with challenges, especially for queer women. We review top lesbian dating apps like Zoe, Lex, and Her, highlighting their unique features.
We also share 10 essential tips for a secure and successful online dating experience, from setting boundaries to avoiding catfishing.
Links Mentioned in This Episode:
Best Lesbian Dating Apps: Reddit Responses
11 Best (and Free) Lesbian Dating Apps for Queer Women - Good Housekeeping
Family Meeting
1. "I married a liar.."
2. "I recently came out a few months ago but I also moved to Spain FROM the US. I really want to get out and date and meet more women without using dating apps".
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
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Jun 3, 2024 • 57min
103. Coming Out With PRIDE
HAPPY PRIDE MONTH LES CHAT FAM!!! We show love and support to our community by sharing small queer own businesses. Also Give details on all pride events taking place in the NJ/NYC area for those looking to attend. For all the first time PRIDE event celebrators we share some tips and tricks on how to make the best of your first time!!
Family meeting:
1. “Did you guys hear about the 16yr old high schooler that was not allowed into prom because she was wearing a suite and not a dress? ”
2. "I’ve seen a lot of women call themselves lesbians even though they date trans men. I don’t understand? I know labels are just something society created but if they are claiming that label themselves, then wouldn’t they be pansexual? Bisexual?"
Parties in NYC!
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PRIDE CALENDAR: https://www.gaypridecalendar.com/
Small Businesses Shoutout
Ash & Ches
Queerly Designs on Etsy & Surpride
One DNA Apparel
Flaunt
RosegoldCo.Shop
Tomboy X
Lucky Skivies
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/
Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/

May 20, 2024 • 45min
102. Coming Out At Work
In ep 102, we dive deep into the experience of coming out at work, whether as gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, or any other identity within the LGBTQ+ spectrum. Join us as we explore personal stories of coming out at work, shedding light on the challenges and triumphs.
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Family Meeting
1. "I was dating this girl, I ended up finding out she was the girlfriend (now ex) to Salice Rose, ( a popular influencer)".
2. "My friends girl came up to me saying she found me very attractive and would try to make a move on me.."
FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:
TROVA TRIP LINK: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec
IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
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May 6, 2024 • 1h 8min
101. Unraveling Jealousy
EP: 101 - In this episode, we explore the complexities of jealousy within relationships. We go into common signs like lack of trust, possessiveness, and insecurity, highlighting how these emotions can be especially nuanced in LGBTQ+ dynamics.
Through personal stories we hope you gain understanding of how jealousy can stem from fear of abandonment, past traumas, or attachment styles. We emphasize the importance of healthy communication and setting boundaries to address underlying insecurities.
TROVA TRIP LINK: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec
Family Meeting Questions:
1. What do you guys feel about one another going to a strip club?!
2. Communicating with a female has been the hardest for me because is this normal?
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TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
PATREON: https://www.patreon.com/leschatpod
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
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Apr 22, 2024 • 1h 11min
100. What They Don't Tell You About Breakups
In EP 100, we delve into the complexities of lesbian breakups, exploring why they often hit harder than others. Drawing from an insightful article by "Amelia on Refinery 29", we examine how women tend to deeply enmesh in relationships, blurring lines between partners, friends, and family. Nicholas Rose, a psychotherapist specializing in queer relationships, sheds light on the challenges queer individuals face during breakups, especially when familial support is lacking.
We confront stereotypes surrounding lesbian relationships. Additionally, we share insights on coping with breakups, from embracing emotions to nurturing oneself.
LES CHAT QUEER TRIP: https://trovatrip.com/host/profiles/jojo-ygxec (takes about 2 mins)
LES CHAT MEET UP: FRIDAY NIGHT, APRIL 26TH @ PORTA'S
Family Meeting Questions:
1. " My girlfriend broke up with me and she stated she’s giving her life to God and she doesn’t feel right being gay anymore".
2. "Call me DELUSIONAL but i’m so determined to meet my future wife, i'm taking a flight to Manchester UK"
Podcast Description:
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IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
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Apr 15, 2024 • 36min
99. Six Different Types of Attraction
Join us on episode #99 as we explore the various types of attraction that shape our relationships.
Have you ever found yourself questioning the nature of your attraction towards someone? Our exploration goes into the blend of emotions, whether it's physical desire, intellectual admiration, or emotional resonance.
Sources:
https://www.healthline.com/health/types-of-attraction
WHAT KIND OF ATTRACTION AM I FEELING?
1. "I’m in a situation where I have a long term gf but my best friend recently confessed to me that she is platonically in love with me”.
“I noticed how pretty this girl from the gym is is and now i want to make a move but not sure if she likes girls. What should I do? How should i talk to her?"
cheated on me with a GUY co-worker less than a month into her new role."
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IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/
TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc
YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/
Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat
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