Les Chat Podcast - LGBTQ+ - Lesbian Latinas

In this AUDIO only episode of Les Chat, we’re catching up on everything from the progress of our 75 Soft challenge (46 days to go!) to some exciting updates on our upcoming Thailand and Bali trip (don’t forget, it's the last month to sign up for the payment plan). Plus, we’re thinking about NEW merch drop, with a focus on queer pride gear just in time for Pride Month!We dive into the Doechii controversy (the Grammy-winning bisexual rap artist) From her viral dating red flag comment to the controversy surrounding an old video with her ex.Also, we’re discussing the ongoing issue of “preferences” in dating. Are straight people crashing out over bisexuality, or is there something deeper happening? And what about red flags in relationships, jealousy, disrespect, and love bombing? Family Meeting: we talk about Decision Fatigue. After 5.5 years at her current job, one listener is feeling the stress of decision-making overload. Can you really stop the anxiety from constant choices? We share tips and strategies from Mel Robbins' podcast episode, "Get back on track: 5 evening habits to wake up focused, recharged, and in control".FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

In this episode, we talk about the WNBA drama between DiJonai Carrington and NaLyssa Smith, explore what it means to be "heteroflexible," and discuss the complexities of being queer. We dive into why labels matter and how being queer is more than just a choice.LINK TO WNBA PODCAST VIDEO CLIPBEING QUEER IS A CHOICE VIDEOFAMILY MEETING “I’ve been in a 1.5-year relationship, and recently, my partner has been hanging out with her guy friends more often. When I mention it, she says I’m being controlling. She works part-time and has a lot of free time, while I work full-time and take care of the house and pets in my free time. Am I wrong for wanting her to help with the home and pets before hanging out?”FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

Is Love is Blind secretly a lesbian reality show for straight people? We break it down and give you our raw, unfiltered thoughtsWelcome to Raw Conversations with Les Chat Podcast (the audio version only), your bi-weekly Wednesday deep dive into all things personal growth, relationships, and any random thoughts we have! In this episode, we’re sharing an update on our 75 Soft Challenge, we have 59 days to go, and we’re reflecting on the 16 days we’ve already conquered! Then, we dive into Love is Blind Season 8 and unravel all the drama. Is everyone secretly a little gay? We’re unpacking the idea that marriage and LGBTQ+ relationships might not always mix with traditional views? Was Sara’s “push” on LGBTQ+ issues portrayed unfairly, or was Netflix just trying to make her look annoying?We wrap up with a Q&A session answering some of your questions. "As a masc and fem presenting couple, do we make new friends with the opposite type? Jojo with fems, and Dayra with masc, what does that dynamic look like in real life?"FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat

In this episode, we dive into some common myths about lesbian identities and relationships. We tackle misconceptions like the idea that being attracted to women means rejecting men, that lesbian relationships are always full of drama, or that all lesbians want kids.FAMILY MEETING “I need advice. I broke up with my ex of 3 years after she chose her 'friend' over our relationship.”Source: https://www.teenvogue.com/story/lesbian-myths-debunked FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat 

Is it possible to be with the right person at the wrong time when fear of judgment and not being out holds you back from fully embracing the relationship?Family Meeting:"I’ve been dating a girl for the past year and everything has been wonderful but I’m not out yet. I come from a very religious family and I’m also a people pleaser and unfortunately care what people think. She is the woman of my dreams but I don’t know if we can have a relationship if I’m not out the closet yet."https://linktr.ee/leschat

We’re back after an 8 week break! Ahhhhhhh!!  There is SO much to catch up on but we can’t fit it all in one episode. Dayra shares insights from her recent NYC LGBTQ+ speech, and we give updates on work and new home life. Finally, we share 23 ideas for celebrating Valentine's Day as a single, from binge-watching your favorite series to planning an out-of-town getaway, enjoying a parent-child date, or even hosting a singles dinner with friends.FAMILY MEETING “My wife/partner of 10+ wants an open marriage and says we want different things because we’re in different places in our life.”FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA: IG:https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/  TIKTOK:https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc YOUTUBE:https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/ Link tree:https://linktr.ee/leschat Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10https://www.luckyskivvies.com/BALI/THAILAND TRIP:https://linktr.ee/leschat

In this episode, we’re catching up on everything—JoJo just graduated from her academy (finally a secret revealed!), Dayra shares her experience pledging in college, and we chat about how crazy the holidays can be. We also celebrate our 4-year anniversary by skipping gifts and focusing on experiences. Plus, we answer your questions about the habits we've noticed since living together. Tune in for all the updates and good vibes! Family Meeting: "Was in a LTR with a man for 8 years, started dating girls last year, part of me wants to explore but I also don’t want to fumble the girl I met because she is amazing"⁠ BALI/THAILAND TRIP: https://linktr.ee/leschat Family Meeting:FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/⁠   TIKTOK: ⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc⁠  YOUTUBE: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/⁠ Link tree: ⁠https://linktr.ee/leschat⁠  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 ⁠https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode, we reflect on the pressures of marriage, kids, and career milestones. We talk about what we've accomplished so far, and how those societal expectations shape our lives. We also dive into the movie My Old Ass, where an 18-year-old meets her 39-year-old self during a mushroom trip, offering life advice about love, family, and choices. Dayra shares why this scenario would be her worst nightmare, and we wrap up by discussing the things we wish we could tell our younger selves. Tune in for a mix of humor, honesty, and reflections on the wisdom that comes with age. Ashlynn Harris Wide Open Episode - LINK BALI/THAILAND TRIP: Buy an experience, instead of a physical gift for 2025! Mark your calendar for Travel Tuesday 2024, this coming Tuesday, to receive a $50 discount on our trip! Enter code TRAVELTUESDAY50 at checkout on Tuesday 12/3 and Wednesday 12/4 only, so be sure to reserve your spot! Family Meeting: 1. "I have a serious mental illness that I’ve been dealing with for over 10 years. I’ve always taken my meds and I’ve always been fine. If I don’t have any issues managing my diagnosis there really is no reason to disclose this. Am I in the wrong if I’m in a relationship with someone for a few months or 1 year & disclose this?" 2. "I went on a date and I immediately knew I didn’t want to see her again which is why I decided to “practice” telling someone about my mental illness. " FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/

In this episode, we talk about the mental health challenges LGBTQ+ Latinas face, including cultural stigma and the pressure of balancing multiple identities. We also discuss the difficulties of finding mental health care that understands both cultural and LGBTQ+ needs, and how we can break the stigma around mental health in these communities. Tune in for an honest conversation about healing, support, and the importance of visibility in both Latinx and LGBTQ+ spaces. Family Meeting Question 1. "I met this girl recently and when we met I instantly felt a vibe. The day we met I added her on IG and saw she has a gf. We have met up a few times because I give her private boxing lessons. I have a crush, what is your opinion of why she never mentions her gf?" 2. "I was a part of a Christian group at 21 and experienced religious trauma from conversion therapy. I left that group and came out officially at 28. I went through therapy and now at 31 I’m in a place to start dating. I met a girl and she’s great.. Should I get wifed up or keep my options open?" AutoStraddle Post LINK FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/ 

In this episode of our Q&A podcast, we catch up after a brief hiatus—Dayra just returned from her trip to Colombia! Join us as we dive into your questions, share travel stories, and discuss how life has been keeping us on our toes. & DON'T REMEMBER TO VOTE!! Family Meeting Questions “My gf lied to me about having two abortions…” “I’ve been dating this girl for 4 years but her child is so challenging & disrespectful” FOLLOW LES CHAT ON SOCIAL MEDIA/PATREON:  IG: https://www.instagram.com/les.chatpodcast/   TIKTOK: https://www.tiktok.com/@les.chatpodcast?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc  YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@leschatpodcast/  Link tree: https://linktr.ee/leschat  Gender Neutral Boxers: Get 10% off with our code: LES10 https://www.luckyskivvies.com/ Les Chat Merch: https://leschat.bigcartel.com/