

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Feb 14, 2019 • 33min
Bonus Episode: 10 Tips for Surviving February 14th
As a Valentine's Day present, we've released this week's Patreon episode to the general public! In this episode, we tackle topics like the history of Valentine's Day, our favorite (or least favorite) v-day memories, and Just Break Up's 10 Tips to Surviving February 14th.
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Original music, recording, and editing by Spencer Wirth-Davis
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Feb 11, 2019 • 1h 10min
Episode 30: How to Not Take Someone Else's Relationship Personally
This episode tackles topics like our friends' awful boyfriends, is a victim only a victim?, planning for future resentments, and is there a "too soon" for moving on.
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BLIND DATE: Back With The Ex
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Feb 4, 2019 • 1h 14min
Episode 29: Overextending Yourself Isn't Love
This episode tackles topics like shooting your shot, getting that money, STIs, and moms.
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BLIND DATE: Sleeping At Last Podcast and the Sacred Enneagram by Christopher L. Heuertz
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Jan 21, 2019 • 1h 19min
Episode 28: I Don't Trust You But Here Is My Heart
This episode tackles topics like infidelity, allowing ourselves to leave, how to have sex, and what if you were the bad guy in the relationship all along.
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BLIND DATE: @CheapOldHouses
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Jan 14, 2019 • 1h 9min
Episode 27: Pedastool
This discussion dives deep into the messy world of infidelity, encouraging self-reflection and accountability. Listeners explore the complex dynamics of on-again, off-again relationships while unpacking the need for clear communication. There's an emphasis on recognizing personal dissatisfaction and the courage to seek emotional fulfillment. The hosts also tackle awkwardness in love, urging self-discovery and the importance of genuine connections over idolizing partners. Plus, they highlight the healing power of supportive friendships during breakups.

Jan 7, 2019 • 1h 7min
Episode 26: Tiny Little Boner in Your Heart
This discussion dives into dwindling sex drives and the complexity of intimacy. It tackles the pressures of parenthood and the evolving nature of relationships. Personal anecdotes highlight the importance of self-acceptance and exploring sexual identity. Listeners are encouraged to communicate openly about desires, and the hosts challenge societal norms around family planning. They emphasize personal growth and self-love while navigating the ups and downs of love and relationships in a lighthearted, relatable way.

Dec 17, 2018 • 1h 12min
Episode 25: In What Way Has This Been Great For You
The hosts hilariously debate the dynamics of keeping friends close and exes closer, sharing personal anecdotes. They dive into the complexities of throuples and the emotional rollercoaster of love triangles. Listeners hear heartfelt reflections on aging, self-worth, and navigating relationships amidst life's challenges. Vulnerability and open communication take center stage, emphasizing their importance in building connections. The conversation is infused with humor, honest struggles, and invaluable advice, making for an engaging and relatable listen.

Dec 10, 2018 • 1h 24min
Episode 24: Fa La La La Block
Delve into the wild side of vulnerability and pacing in relationships. The hosts share humorous holiday gift ideas and personal anecdotes about navigating complex emotions. Explore the importance of boundaries while coping with loneliness during the festive season. Dive into the intricacies of trust, self-worth, and healing from past betrayals. From funny musings on carols to heartwarming stories of reconnection, the conversation is as enlightening as it is entertaining.

Dec 3, 2018 • 1h 12min
Episode 23: Shame Can't Live in the Dark...I Mean Light
In this engaging discussion, the hosts tackle the challenges of navigating partner baggage and sexual apathy in today's hookup culture. They reflect on their childhood misconceptions about love and sexuality, particularly from a queer lens. The conversation dives into the emotional complexities of casual hookups and the importance of self-validation. They emphasize open communication as a key to overcoming insecurities and stress the significance of body positivity. Throughout, the hosts blend humor with heartfelt insights on relationship growth.

Nov 26, 2018 • 1h 14min
Episode 22: Ghosts Can't Text
This conversation dives into confronting the ghosts of past relationships and the emotional turmoil of being ghosted. It humorously navigates family dynamics and how they impact romantic connections. The importance of open communication and self-worth in dating, especially for asexual individuals, is explored. The speakers also emphasize nurturing non-romantic relationships and the journey toward forgiveness, wishing well for those who have hurt us. It's a heartfelt and entertaining look at love, loss, and personal growth.


