Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Episode 24: Fa La La La Block
Dec 10, 2018
Delve into the wild side of vulnerability and pacing in relationships. The hosts share humorous holiday gift ideas and personal anecdotes about navigating complex emotions. Explore the importance of boundaries while coping with loneliness during the festive season. Dive into the intricacies of trust, self-worth, and healing from past betrayals. From funny musings on carols to heartwarming stories of reconnection, the conversation is as enlightening as it is entertaining.
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Take Relationships Slow and Communicate
- Take relationships slow at a pace that suits your vulnerability comfort.
- Communicate boundaries and needs clearly to balance attachment differences.
Set Boundaries to Manage Pace
- Identify and respect your own relationship pace and anxiety boundaries.
- Discuss and negotiate frequency of interaction to meet both partners' needs.
Love We Think We Deserve
- We accept the love we think we deserve, often tolerating mistreatment for validation.
- True self-worth lets us expect loving without enduring pain as a precondition.