

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Sep 1, 2025 • 31min
Episode 624: This Isn't As Hot As You Think It Is
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex keeps reaching out even though he doesn't want to date
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Aug 29, 2025 • 35min
Episode 623: My Fiancé Regrets Our Son
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who isn't sure she wants her fiancé to move across the country with her and their son
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Aug 27, 2025 • 30min
Episode 622: The Throuple's Wobbly Third Wheel
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling like the third wheel in her throuple
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Aug 25, 2025 • 33min
Episode 621: Your Partner's Literal and Metaphorical Sh*t
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is constantly taking care of her partner
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Aug 22, 2025 • 33min
Episode 620: Put Your Oxygen Mask on First
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose daughter is having a hard time adjusting to her boyfriend moving in
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Aug 20, 2025 • 30min
Episode 619: My Husband Commented On an OnlyFans Picture
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose husband crossed an explicit boundary
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Aug 18, 2025 • 39min
Episode 618: I Started Dating My F*ckbuddy
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how to tell her relationship story when they started out as friends with benefits
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Aug 15, 2025 • 39min
Episode 617: Should I Tell My Parents I Had an Abortion?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how much to share with the people around her
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Aug 13, 2025 • 27min
Episode 616: This Isn't Atonement, It's Stalking
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex's punishment doesn't fit her crimes
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Aug 11, 2025 • 35min
Episode 615: Sexy Pillow Fight With A Straight Man
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's in love with his straight dance instructor
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