Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Oct 22, 2025 • 32min
Episode 646: My Mom Doesn't Want My Dad At My Wedding
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose mom won't come to her wedding if her dad is there
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Oct 20, 2025 • 36min
Episode 645: How Do I Forgive Myself For Cheating
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't know how they'll get over blowing up their relationship
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Oct 17, 2025 • 31min
Episode 644: My Boyfriend Googled "Erotic Massage Near Me"
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who snooped and found out something she didn't want to see
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Oct 15, 2025 • 30min
Episode 643: Your Intuition Knew the Right Choice
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose judgmental family contributed to her abortion and her breakup
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Oct 13, 2025 • 33min
Episode 642: All Emotions Start as Love
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who regrets the unkind things she said to her ex
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Oct 10, 2025 • 26min
Episode 641: This Path Could Lead to Cheating
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who suddenly has a wandering eye
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Oct 8, 2025 • 27min
Episode 640: Trying To Rebuild The Sandcastle
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who can't be with the guy she loves because of his mental health
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Oct 6, 2025 • 34min
Episode 639: My Best Friend's Girlfriend Made Him Ghost Me
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose lost his best friend after he started dating someone
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Oct 3, 2025 • 29min
Episode 638: You Can't Build a Friend House with Romance Tools
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is going to miss seeing his ex
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Oct 1, 2025 • 32min
Episode 637: Should I Open My Marriage For My Crush?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling ready for some ethical non-monogamy with her coworker
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