Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Dec 19, 2025 • 32min
Episode 671: Is My Bar Too High?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who has a high bar for potential partners
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Dec 17, 2025 • 35min
Episode 670: Acting Out After Being Left On Read
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who doesn't want to be in her ex's bridal party
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Dec 15, 2025 • 37min
Episode 669: My Boyfriend is Threatened By My Journal
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner doesn't like that she has a past
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Dec 12, 2025 • 31min
Episode 668: Caught in a Cycle of Emotional Hunger
Sam and Sierra answer a letter frome someone who is wondering if she chose the wrong guy
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Dec 10, 2025 • 32min
Episode 667: Can a Work Crush Ever Be a Good Thing?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is taking solace in a work crush
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Dec 8, 2025 • 30min
Episode 666: Are Long-Lasting Relationships Inherently Better?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if a longer relationship will lead to a better one
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Dec 5, 2025 • 31min
Episode 665: Navigating An Overly Negative World
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is seeking care in an uncaring world
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Dec 3, 2025 • 30min
Episode 664: Do You Want Couple's Therapy With A Man Who Won't Say I Love You?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who went on vacation with her boyfriend and now maybe wants to just break up
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Dec 1, 2025 • 29min
Episode 663: Panicking Over A Potential Proposal
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is panicking now that an engagement is on the table
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Nov 28, 2025 • 27min
Episode 662: When People Pity Your Happy Single Life
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from somone who is happy being single even though the world doesn't want her to be
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