Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
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Aug 11, 2025 • 35min
Episode 615: Sexy Pillow Fight With A Straight Man
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's in love with his straight dance instructor
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Aug 8, 2025 • 36min
Episode 614: How To Ask For A Divorce Kindly
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants to tell her husband she wants a divorce
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Aug 6, 2025 • 26min
Episode 613: Floating in Ambivalence After a Break Up
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone is stuck in ambivalence after breaking up with her partner
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Aug 4, 2025 • 35min
Episode 612: You Deserve Better Than A Man That Won't Commit To You
This episode dives into the emotional rollercoaster of developing feelings for straight friends, intertwining personal stories and relatable advice. The hosts tackle the complexities of unreciprocated crushes, emphasizing the need for self-care and recognizing relationship boundaries. They shine a light on the importance of self-worth, particularly when grappling with non-committal partners, and encourage listeners to prioritize self-love. Ultimately, they inspire embracing one's value to attract healthier, fulfilling relationships.
Aug 1, 2025 • 32min
Episode 611: This World Is Hungry For Your Softness
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose family is making it hard to be kind
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Jul 30, 2025 • 34min
Episode 610: His Dog Died And He Dumped Me Over Text
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's feeling confused over the abrupt end of her relationship
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Jul 28, 2025 • 32min
Episode 609: I Think I'm Afraid Of Love
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's thrown off by the gentleness of her new relationship
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Jul 25, 2025 • 28min
Episode 608: Love Can Exist Without Return
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's hurt that her ex won't be her friend
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Jul 23, 2025 • 27min
Episode 607: It's Not An Ultimatum, It's A Boundary!
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend told him, "I'm not honest, but trust me anyway"
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Jul 21, 2025 • 32min
Episode 606: He Fell Into My Lap At A Gay Gym
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to be ungrateful for the cute guy that just came into his life
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