Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties
Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)
Latest episodes
Jul 21, 2025 • 33min
Episode 606: He Fell Into My Lap At A Gay Gym
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who doesn't want to be ungrateful for the cute guy that just came into his life
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Jul 18, 2025 • 34min
Episode 605: You Can Choose Peace When They Choose Chaos
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose ex is trying to convince her she was the bad guy in the relationship
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Jul 16, 2025 • 31min
Episode 604: They Took the Cat and the Life We Shared
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who lost their center when their ex broke up with them
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Jul 14, 2025 • 35min
Episode 603: The Body Def Keeps a Score
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering if her lack of attraction is a result of her trauma
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Jul 11, 2025 • 44min
Episode 602: What If I’m Not the Soft Mom?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's struggling with being a sh*tty mom
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Jul 9, 2025 • 32min
Episode 601: The Cost of Constant Correction
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose partner's moods are determining everything in their relationship
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Jul 7, 2025 • 31min
Episode 600: Should I Tell My Ex I'm Bisexual?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who's wondering if she should tell her ex she's bi as an explanation for their breakup
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Jul 4, 2025 • 40min
Episode 599: Is There A Difference Between Coffee and Dinner?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone whose boyfriend said he was going to get coffee with his ex but got dinner instead
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Jul 2, 2025 • 32min
Episode 598: Still Holding On—But to What?
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels like all the works she's done in her relationship has gone into a bottomless pit
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Jun 30, 2025 • 38min
Episode 597: We Got Engaged...And Now I'm Panicking
Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who feels emotionally disconnected from their partner
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