
Note to Self
From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!
Latest episodes

Feb 6, 2025 • 51min
Switching Career Paths & Growing on Social Media, with Hannah Chody
Hannah Chody, a former finance professional turned content creator in fashion and beauty, discusses her bold career transition. She shares insights on navigating the challenges of switching paths and emphasizes the importance of authenticity in content creation. Hannah offers practical tips for growing on social media, tackling the intricacies of platforms like TikTok and YouTube. She also reflects on the personal growth that comes from embracing change and the thrill of pursuing one's passions.

Jan 30, 2025 • 49min
ASK P: sexual fulfillment in relationships, talking mental health with your partner, compromising on engagement timeline, & more
#182. We’re back with another installment of ASK P, an episode where I answer listener Qs and give, surprisingly, SOLICITED advice. In today’s episode, we’re talking about how to handle body talk in relationships, and asking “how important is sexual fulfillment in a relationship?” Listeners write in about lowkey despising their best friend’s partner, approaching mental health-related topics with their boyfriend and compromising on engagement & marriage timelines. FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Note to Self is sponsored by Better Help. Visit betterhelp.com/NOTETOSELF today to get 10% off your first month.With R.W. Knudsen, krush 100% of your day with 100% juice. Pick up a bottle at your local grocery store today.Prose is SO confident that you’ll love your results this year that they’re offering an exclusive trial offer: FIFTY percent off your first haircare subscription order at Prose.com/notetoself. That’s Prose.com/notetoself for your FREE consultation and FIFTY percent off your custom routine.Listen to grownkid wherever you get your podcasts from or follow them on Instagram @grownk1d.Visit Halfdays.com and use code NoteToSelf at checkout for 15% off your first purchase.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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Jan 23, 2025 • 52min
How to Be a Niche Luxury Hot Girl, with Caroline Stern
Caroline Stern, the creative force behind the "Niche Luxury Hot Girl" concept, shares her journey toward intentional consumption. She discusses how thoughtful lifestyle choices enhance daily experiences and foster emotional connections with belongings. The conversation explores the joys of purposeful shopping, unique purchase significance, and the emotional complexities of influencer culture. Listeners are encouraged to prioritize meaningful items over mere consumerism, curating special moments in life instead.

Jan 16, 2025 • 58min
We’re Engaged! My Engagement Story (ft. a Special Guest)
#180. Joe and I are getting married! Today’s episode is about my engagement story and the importance of connecting with yourself during these memorable life moments. I’m dishing some details about the ring, and Joe joins us at the end to answer a few questions. FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Visit JustIngredients.us and use code NoteToSelf for 15% off—the best discount available! Or, for more wellness tips, follow @just.ingredients on Instagram.Upgrade your closet this year without the upgraded price tag. Go to Quince.com/payton for 365-day returns, plus free shipping on your order!Head to acorns.com/notetoself or download the Acorns app to start saving and investing for your future today!Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 9, 2025 • 49min
Your Hot Girl Toolkit for 2025
Dive into a treasure trove of resources for personal growth in the new year! Discover newsletters and apps designed to boost your well-being. Unpack the essence of Gen Z culture, emphasizing therapy and body autonomy. Explore impactful educational podcasts that offer fresh insights on self-improvement. Plus, get practical tools and goal-setting strategies for 2025, including the use of AI like ChatGPT. It's your ultimate toolkit for a hot girl year ahead!

Jan 2, 2025 • 1h
How to Get Real With Yourself for a Better 2025 (My Life Audit)
The speaker reflects on their personal trials while embracing self-awareness for the upcoming year. They humorously navigate the nuances of aging and turning 31. Exhaustion from 2024's social pressures leads to a quest for joy and motivation. Mental health becomes a focal point, shedding light on perfectionism and self-care goals for 2025. Practical self-care strategies are shared, emphasizing the need for balance and authentic connections, all while gearing up for a revitalizing new year.

Dec 19, 2024 • 48min
Your Hormone Health Playbook for 2025, with Rachel Blank, Founder & CEO of Allara Health
#177. I’m sitting down with the founder & CEO of Allara Health, a women’s virtual care platform that provides personalized treatment for chronic hormonal, metabolic, and gynecological conditions, Rachel Blank. Rachel created Allara Health out of necessity, as dealing with her own health struggles revealed the obvious gaps in traditional healthcare’s ability to treat these conditions. This episode is for anyone looking to take control of their hormone health in 2025 and beyond. FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Visit www.allarahealth.com/payton to book a free Q&A to learn more about Allara and Rachel’s Journey.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 12, 2024 • 49min
ASK P: how to breakup with someone, splitting the holidays between families, & copycat friends (with Emon Abdullah)
#176. Welcome to the last ASK P of 2024! This month, one of my most trusted advisors, Emon, is on NTS to give us her 2 cents. FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Check out Urbanoutfitters.com and get 10% off your purchase with code NOTETOSELF10Go to DIMEBeautyco.com for 25% off with code HOLIDAY25. But hurry its only for a limited time! Happy Shopping!EXCLUSIVE $100 OFF OFFER FOR NOTE TO SELF LISTENERS. GET $100 WHEN YOU SCHEDULE AT IDEAL.VIP/NOTEVisit JustIngredients.us and use code NoteToSelf for 15% off—the best discount available! Or find more wellness tips to support your health journey at Instagram @just.ingredients.Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 5, 2024 • 43min
How to Be THAT Girl, with Ella Halikas
Ella Halikas, a Sports Illustrated model and influencer, brings her vibrant energy to the conversation. She shares insights on taking control of your life and embracing your passions while navigating the modeling industry. The discussion highlights the importance of self-discovery, particularly embracing fear to uncover true ambitions. Ella also emphasizes confidence through personal expression and self-care, encouraging listeners to cultivate empowering social circles. Her stories inspire a proactive approach to creativity and living authentically.

Nov 28, 2024 • 55min
Winter State of the Union: What’s IN for Winter & Yap
#174. Emphasis on the “& yap.” In today’s episode, we’re talking about what’s IN for the Winter season, from beauty, to style, to wellness & beyond. This one is really for the girls. FOLLOW PAYTON:https://instagram.com/paytonsartain https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhhhttps://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain https://pinterest.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF:→ Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7→ Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8→ Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9→ Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5Episode Sponsors:Note to Self is sponsored by BetterHelp. Visit BetterHelp.com/NOTETOSELF today to get 10% off your first month.Visit impressbeauty.com/notetoself and use code NOTETOSELF at checkout for 25% off imPRESS Manicure and Press-On Falsies.Dime Beauty's Black Friday sale has arrived! For a limited time, take 30% off sitewide with code THIRTY. Head over to dimebeautyco.com for 30% off Dime's best-selling skincare.Visit NineWest.com and use code NOTETOSELF at checkout for 15% off your purchase.Don't miss Ideal Image's best sale of the year! Get your free consultation and up to 85% off when you schedule at ideal.vip/note. Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.