In today's episode, we have a lengthy discussion about the power of being single. Payton breaks down what she considers the pros of being single and talks loneliness, third wheeling, & dating. This episode if for the often-single and the newly-single alike. The episode ends with a Q&A and some parting tips, in summary. Let's chat. :: Follow Payton :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Revolve Faves: https://rvlv.me/sMDAIA Amazon Store: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Payton sits down with Ella McFadin over chilled wine and a view of New York City. You may know Ella on social media as Ella Rose, from her infamous 'Hot Girl Summer' antics or from women having their own viral 'Ella Rose Moments' in New York and beyond on Instagram & TikTok. The two talk break-up tips, living your best single life, personal style, and new relationships in today's episode.  :: Follow Ella ::  https://instagram.com/ellaarose https://www.tiktok.com/@ellamcfadin https://artoffoods.com https://skinbyella.com :: Follow Payton ::  Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Revolve Faves: https://rvlv.me/sMDAIA Amazon Store: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

& exactly what she said to make it happen. In today’s episode, Payton interviews one of her long-time internet friends IRL. They talk just going for it (& how), being your most RAW self on the internet, and how to make your wildest goals a reality. :: Follow Alyssa :: Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/tea-with-publyssity/id1545988835 Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/publyssity/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@publyssity Facebook Group - https://www.facebook.com/groups/311409916234137/ :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Revolve Faves: https://rvlv.me/sMDAIA Amazon Store: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Payton sits down for her monthly episode with her boyfriend, Joe Ross. He's giving us the tea from the male perspective and teaching us a little about baseball (note this for the next time you want to impress a man with your sports knowledge).  :: Follow Joe ::  https://instagram.com/_jross21 :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Today, Payton sits down with Ella Halikas, a Sports Illustrated Swimsuit model. Ella talks putting yourself out there, being confident at any size, plus-sized modeling, and moving to Los Angeles with BIG DREAMS. Make sure to follow Ella across social media because she's BLOWING UP and you don't want to be left behind. :: Follow Ella :: https://www.instagram.com/ellahalikas/ https://www.tiktok.com/@ellahalikas Shop Ella's Swim Collab on 9/20 - https://pebblesnpalms.com :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today’s episode, Payton shares her one and only hobby: taking herself out on dates. She answers listener questions like “how do you build up the confidence to eat alone at a fancy restaurant?” and shares date-with-yourself ideas, best practices, etc. TAKE YOURSELF OUT, OK? :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode, Payton & fashion influencer Josi Pellicano talk all things Instagram growth & becoming an influencer full-time. Josi amassed an engaged, loyal following of over 200k in just 3 years. We get the the nitty gritty of how she did it. How does one become an influencer? How do you work with brands? How do you pay your bills when you're first starting out? The girls chat all of this and more over rose in the worm lair. :: Follow Josi ::  Instagram: https://instagram.com/josipellicano TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@josipellicano YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/JosiPellicano  :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this week's episode, Payton is taking a deep dive into her college experience, answering listener questions about rush, balancing school & social life, and acclimating to the real world post-grad. She's also sharing a few of her favorite college memories (including spring break at the shit-horse and MAYBE throwing up in a fuckboy's bed) and the story of the fateful night she was arrested.  :: Follow Me :: Instagram: http://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh/ Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain/ Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In today's episode, Payton sits down with long-time friend, and one of the brains behind the social-forward company, We're Not Really Strangers, Emon Abdullah. If you've been on Instagram in the last 2-3 years, chances are you've run across a post from We're Not Really Strangers, whether on your explore page, shared on a friend's story, or on your own feed. Starting as a card game to connect strangers, WNRS has grown into a social movement, showcasing the power of vulnerability in the digital space, and how that vulnerability can be used to connect & inspire us all. Emon talks effectively creating a feelings-forward, powerful social presence, as well as break-ups, friendships in your 20s and more. ALSO, Payton shares a few life updates in the intro that y'all need to hear.  :: Follow Emon :: Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/emonabdullah/ We're Not Really Strangers Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/werenotreallystrangers/ :: Follow Me :: Instagram: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ NTS Instagram: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain?lang=en Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

In this episode, Payton sits down with her friend Alex Georgy, the Founder & CEO of experiential marketing agency Bloggers Who Brunch to talk about building a company from the ground up. Alex shares a few golden entrepreneurship tips that helped her to create a highly successful marketing agency, including faking it until you make it and never passing up an opportunity to learn & grow (both as a person and as a business). She's giving us the TEA on becoming a badass woman in business.  Make sure to subscribe/follow & rate/review if you're cool.  :: Follow Alex ::  Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/alex_georgy/ TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@alexgeorgy?lang=en  Bloggers Who Brunch Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/bloggerswhobrunch/  BWB Website - https://www.bloggerswhobrunch.com  :: Follow Me :: Instagram: http://instagram.com/paytonsartain/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod?lang=en YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/paytonsartainhh Personal TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@paytonsartain?lang=en Amazon Storefront: http://amazon.com/shop/paytonsartain/ See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.