
Note to Self
From Q&A’s and break up tips to simply navigating every stage of life, influencer-turned-entrepreneur Payton Sartain brings you the sisterly advice you didn’t know you needed and honest conversations you’ve always wanted. Whether it’s Payton alone or a conversation with a friend, Note to Self is a space to get grounded, explore new perspectives, and ultimately, empower yourself and others. Grab some wine or a mocktail and enjoy the conversation!
Latest episodes

Oct 13, 2022 • 55min
Simple Pleasures: Little Ways to Make Life Feel Luxurious Today, with Joe Ross
#63. Payton has her boyfriend, Joe Ross, on the podcast to help read listener’s simple pleasures. The two discuss their recent, chaotic move and life in Los Angeles, as well as share little, easy ways to make your life feel luxurious today. FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsors: Visit BetterHelp.com/NOTETOSELF today to get 10% off your first month. Go to Zocdoc.com/NOTETOSELF and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Go to theOUAI.com and use code NOTETOSELF to get 15% off your entire purchase. Produced by Dear Media Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Oct 6, 2022 • 52min
The Tea on Body Contouring Treatments: CoolSculpt vs CoolTone, with Ragan Lake
#62 Ragan Lake, Body Contouring Specialist at Skin DC, is on NTS to answer listener questions about popular body contouring treatments. Payton shared her experience with the treatments & the two discuss the ins and outs of the procedure. FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsors: Go to theOUAI.com and use code NOTETOSELF to get 15% off your entire purchase. Visit BetterHelp.com/NOTETOSELF today to get 10% off your first month. Produced by Dear Media Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 29, 2022 • 40min
Quit Doing Sh*t You Hate
#61. In this episode, Payton is talking about how to be okay with quitting things that don't excite or serve you anymore. FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod https://youtube.com/c/paytonsartainhh FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsors: Head over to WooMorePlay.com and use code NOTETOSELF for 25% off your entire purchase. Go to Nutrafol.com and enter the promo code NOTETOSELF to save fifteen dollars off your first month’s subscription. Produced by Dear Media Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 22, 2022 • 32min
ASK P: Feeling Alone, Regrets in Dating, & A Groom-zilla
#60. Payton answers listener questions in another installment of ASK P. In this episode, we talk about how to keep it cool in the early stages of dating, address the feeling of loneliness many of us fear, meet a groom-zilla, and more. FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsor: Go to Zocdoc.com/ NOTETOSELF and download the Zocdoc app for FREE. Then start your search for a top-rated doctor today. Produced by Dear Media Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 15, 2022 • 54min
Spilling Your Juicy Confessions & Sharing Some Major Tea
#59. You submitted your juiciest confessions, and Payton brings her friend Kimberly Landa on the pod to read them. The two also confess some of their most shameful moments & decisions. Get ready for some major tea. FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsors: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30-day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/NOTETOSELF Head over to WooMorePlay.com and use code NOTETOSELF for 25% off your entire purchase. Go to Shopify.com/notetoself for a free trial. Produced by Dear Media Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 8, 2022 • 31min
Sex on Anti-Depressants
#58. Have your anti-depressants thrown your libido out of whack? Payton is sharing her experience with maintaining sex & intimacy in her relationship while taking medication for anxiety & depression. We’re discussing foreplay, patience, communication, & indulgence in this episode. Article Mentioned: https://bit.ly/3AMYSag FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 1, 2022 • 37min
Listen To This If You're Feeling Overwhelmed (+ a BIG Announcement)
#57. How does one move forward with confidence when the future is so unclear? We’re talking tangible tips to slow down, reconnect with self, and trust the universe (or whatever God you believe in). Also, Payton is sharing where she’s moving next month. Pinterest Board: https://pin.it/3rEDrKi FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsors: Head over to WooMorePlay.com and use code NOTETOSELF for 25% off your entire purchase. Right now NetSuite is offering a one-of-a-kind flexible financing program at NetSuite.com/NOTETOSELF Produced by Dear Media See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 25, 2022 • 1h 7min
ASK JOE: Answering Listener Questions About Dating & Relationships, from a Man’s Perspective
#56. Joe (Boyfriend-of-the-Pod) joins Payton to answer listener questions about relationships (& situationships). FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsors: Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 18, 2022 • 52min
A Comprehensive Guide to Entering Your Villain Era
#55. We’re talking boundary-setting, self-confidence, and your step-by-step guide for entering your villain era. Villain Era Resources: Playlist - https://spoti.fi/3drxIOf Pinterest Board - https://pin.it/7v0Rebl Style Board Example - https://pin.it/tOoAFQb Beauty Board Example - https://pin.it/5P7jl1m Amazon List - https://amzn.to/3C9YSUh REVOLVE List - https://bit.ly/3AozTu3 FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs9 → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Sponsor: For listeners of the show, Dipsea is offering an extended 30 day free trial when you go to DipseaStories.com/NOTETOSELF Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 11, 2022 • 52min
Building a Community-Driven Brand, with Lindsey Carter, Founder & CEO of SET Active
Payton sits down with Lindsey Carter, founder & CEO of SET Active and host of the Ready, Set, Spill! podcast, to discuss finding your path, building a community-driven brand & setting boundaries on social media. FOLLOW NOTE TO SELF: https://instagram.com/ntsbyps & https://tiktok.com/@notetoselfpod FOLLOW PAYTON: https://instagram.com/paytonsartain YouTube video: https://youtu.be/FPVs10QWwVw SUBMIT TO NOTE TO SELF: → Ask P: Advice Column: https://forms.gle/avvSu4ibYygZP5rq8 → Simple Pleasures: https://forms.gle/PFmEU9BFRtyE7Dt57 → Your ICKS: https://forms.gle/pgcr9LhmyyvyAyVk7 → Most Embarrassing Stories: https://forms.gle/qpZBp9bxdcH77Utf8 → Little Acts of Love: https://forms.gle/ReEoo6HBoC4QspQs → Juicy Confessions: https://forms.gle/Uuz5KdUkC4c3NnFw5 Produced by Dear MediaSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.