
Death, Sex & Money
Anna Sale explores the big questions and hard choices that are often left out of polite conversation.
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Apr 29, 2025 • 56min
The Patient and Cunning Work of Defending LGBTQ Rights with a Republican Supermajority
Andrew Schneider, Executive Director of Fairness West Virginia, dedicates his career to advocating for LGBTQ rights in a deeply conservative climate. He discusses his unique strategy of building relationships with Republican lawmakers, emphasizing listening over confrontation. Former state senator Mitch Carmichael reflects on the challenges of advancing such rights in a supermajority and the importance of personal stories in fostering understanding. The conversation delves into the complexities of navigating hostility while striving for advocacy and inclusivity.

Apr 22, 2025 • 55min
Are Airline Pilots Allowed to Be Depressed?
To fly a plane, pilots must prove to the Federal Aviation Administration that they’re physically and mentally fit. But when it comes to mental health, the rules are complicated and, some say, outdated.Pilots who need antidepressants are limited to a short list of approved medications and must take a mandatory six-month leave. Even common diagnoses like anxiety or depression can trigger reviews that could ground them.The F.A.A.’s rules are born out of desire to keep the public safe, but in this episode we talk to pilots, aspiring pilots, and medical aviation professionals about their unintended consequence: incentivizing people to stay quiet about their mental health issues.Read: Why Airline Pilots Feel Pushed to Hide Their Mental Illness Podcast production by Zoe Azulay.Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus.And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Apr 15, 2025 • 56min
How the ‘Subway Takes’ Guy Became His Own Nepo Baby
Kareem Rahma, a comedian and filmmaker known for his viral web series Subway Takes, shares his journey from service jobs to comedy. He reveals his creative financial strategies, including flipping motorcycles to support his education. Kareem discusses the challenges of navigating nepotism in the entertainment industry and the importance of personal growth. Through humor and candid reflections, he explores family dynamics, work anxiety, and the evolving complexities of creativity in today's fast-paced world.

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Apr 8, 2025 • 44min
Scorpion Venom and Coffee Enemas Didn't Cure My Mother's Cancer
Archie Matlow, a non-binary writer and audio producer known for their memoir 'Dead Mom Walking,' shares a poignant story about their mother’s unconventional choice to pursue alternative cancer treatments over standard medicine. They discuss the emotional complexities of navigating grief and the enduring bond between a mother and child amid terminal illness. Archie also reflects on how these experiences influenced their understanding of love, loss, and the nuanced struggles families face during health crises.

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Apr 1, 2025 • 1h 11min
Laughing About Hard Things
Guy Branum, a comedian and writer known for "Hacks," and Chanel Miller, author of the acclaimed memoir "Know My Name," dive into the absurdity of humor born from hardship. They share powerful stories of using comedy as a coping mechanism for trauma and societal issues. The conversation shifts to the challenges of writing during crises and the intersection of AI and personal connections. Miller's journey from victim to comedic storyteller highlights the resilience found in laughter, showcasing how humor can lead to healing even in the darkest moments.

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Mar 25, 2025 • 53min
A Middle-Aged Couple Made Porn to Spice Things Up. Then One of Them Got Fired.
Joe Gow, a former chancellor known for his unconventional choice to create porn with his wife Carmen Wilson, candidly shares their journey. They discuss how adult filmmaking played a role in revitalizing their marriage, sparking humor and open communication. The couple delves into the unexpected fallout from their decision, including professional repercussions and familial challenges. They also confront societal misconceptions about pornography, highlighting the importance of self-expression and intimacy in midlife relationships.

Mar 18, 2025 • 50min
Life After Blowing It All Up: A Sugar Baby Story Revisited
In 2020, we made an episode about a listener who cheated on his wife with sex workers and was going through a divorce. He told us the idea to go on the website Seeking Arrangement came from an episode we made about sugar babies. A few weeks ago we called “Ethan” back to see what’s changed in his life since our first conversation, and how he navigates discussions about his past infidelity with his new wife.Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus.And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Mar 11, 2025 • 58min
Call It ‘A Midlife Awakening’
Anna talks to writer Ada Calhoun, author most recently of the novel Crush, about a married woman succumbing to extramarital temptation (she wrote it while she herself was separating from her husband) and then to comedian Rosebud Baker about her new Netflix comedy special, The Mother Lode, which is all about late-stage pregnancy and early motherhood.This episode was recorded live at On Air Fest in New York City on February 20th. Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus.And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 4, 2025 • 55min
From Uncertainty to Total Chaos, Your Stories About the New Trump Term
Since the inauguration in January, we’ve been getting emails and voice recordings from people whose lives have been thrust into uncertainty due to changes made by the Trump administration. Many federal workers and people who rely on federal money have lost their jobs. Others feel vulnerable and uncertain. This week, we’ll hear from a range of people who’ve been affected, from an IRS attorney who’s been a target of Elon Musk’s DOGE efforts to an army sergeant who could very likely be forced out of her post because she’s trans. Podcast production by Cameron Drews.Death, Sex & Money is now produced by Slate! To support us and our colleagues, please sign up for our membership program, Slate Plus! Members get ad-free podcasts, bonus content on lots of Slate shows, and full access to all the articles on Slate.com. Sign up today at slate.com/dsmplus.And if you’re new to the show, welcome. We’re so glad you’re here. Find us and follow us on Instagram and you can find Anna’s newsletter at annasale.substack.com. Our new email address, where you can reach us with voice memos, pep talks, questions, critiques, is deathsexmoney@slate.com. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Feb 25, 2025 • 1h 2min
I Was Ready to Write About My Domestic Abuser—Then Lawyers Said No.
Chelsea Devantez, a comedian and TV writer known for her memoir and podcast Glamorous Trash, shares her journey of writing about a past filled with domestic violence. Faced with legal barriers that silenced her, she pivoted to reveal how societal systems perpetuate victim silencing. The conversation also delves into the impact of complex PTSD, the challenges of ambition for women in comedy, and the journey of embracing femininity. Chelsea highlights the importance of storytelling and the complexity of navigating personal trauma in a male-dominated world.
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