
Death, Sex & Money
Anna Sale explores the big questions and hard choices that are often left out of polite conversation.
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Feb 4, 2025 • 59min
The “Chest-Clenching Fear” of My Ex-Husband’s Jan 6 Commutation
Tasha Adams, the ex-wife of Stewart Rhodes, founder of the Oath Keepers, shares her harrowing journey of survival from an abusive marriage shadowed by extreme politics. She discusses her fear upon learning about Stewart's commutation by Trump, emphasizing the emotional turmoil tied to January 6. Tasha reflects on her isolation during their relationship and her courageous escape with their six kids. Battling amidst the chaos, she finds clarity in her own strength and the hope for a better future as she copes with the complexities of her past.

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Jan 28, 2025 • 51min
The Kind of Man a Bullied Boy Becomes
Gary Gulman, a comedian known for his clever takes on life, shares his journey from a bullied boy to a confident performer. He opens up about growing up sensitive in a tough environment filled with unkindness, including from his older brothers. Gary discusses the fine line between humor and vulnerability, how childhood experiences shape adult identity, and the importance of authenticity in comedy. He also reflects on love, mental health struggles, and redefining success beyond wealth, illustrating the profound connections forged through shared challenges.

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Jan 21, 2025 • 58min
‘Babygirl’ Director Wants Women Not to Suppress Their Beast
Halina Reijn, a Dutch filmmaker and actress known for her work in 'Babygirl' and 'Bodies, Bodies, Bodies', shares her insights on navigating female desires and authenticity in film. She discusses the primal versus civilized aspects of women's identities and the importance of open conversations about sexual agency. Halina also reflects on the pressures of conformity in the entertainment industry, the complexities of intimacy in modern relationships, and her creative journey within the U.S. film scene.

Jan 14, 2025 • 52min
Paid to Care: When Class, Power, and Caregiving Collide
In this discussion, Koa Beck, a writer and foster parent, reveals the intricate dynamics of foster care and its striking parallels to nannying. She shares Delores's journey as a Jamaican nanny in NYC, navigating cultural nuances and parental expectations. The conversation dives into the complexities of class and power in caregiving, touching on the emotional bonds formed between caregivers and the families they serve. Additionally, Koa highlights the significance of community support for those involved in care work, particularly in the face of challenges like multiple sclerosis.

Jan 7, 2025 • 50min
Paid to Care: The Magic, and Mess, of Care Work
Tita Rose, a dedicated Filipina immigrant eldercare worker, sheds light on the often-overlooked world of paid caregivers. She reveals her journey through the complexities of elder care and the exploitation she uncovered in a nursing home. Exploring the emotional bonds between caregivers and clients, the discussion also tackles cultural misunderstandings and advocates for workers' rights. Tita highlights the challenges of low pay and harsh working conditions, emphasizing the power of community and solidarity in the caregiving profession.

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Dec 31, 2024 • 47min
Love Actually: Real Romance Stories From Mahershala Ali, Jane Fonda, and More
Nikki Giovanni, a celebrated poet, opens up about the complex love for her parents, intertwining her childhood memories with insights on vulnerability. Oscar-winning actor Mahershala Ali shares a heartwarming glimpse into his love story with Amatus-Sami Karim, showcasing the journey of romance amid life's challenges. The podcast also features Jane Fonda discussing the pain of heartbreak and the decision to end a marriage. Together, these captivating stories explore the beauty, struggles, and transformative power of love in various forms.

Dec 24, 2024 • 1h 1min
Should You Divulge a Disability in Your Dating Profile?
Join Carvell Wallace, writer and co-host of "How To", alongside Jessica Slice and Caroline Kupp, authors of "Dateable", as they dive into the complexities of dating with disabilities. They discuss the important yet daunting question of disclosing disabilities like multiple sclerosis on dating profiles. Expect insights on vulnerability, authenticity in relationships, and the societal pressures surrounding ableism. Through personal stories and expert advice, they illuminate the path toward genuine connections and understanding in the dating world.

Dec 17, 2024 • 48min
Chaz Ebert on Loss, Intuition and Her 'Cougar' Group Chat
Chaz Ebert, widow of legendary film critic Roger Ebert and author of "It's Time to Give a FECK," shares her profound journey through grief. She reveals her ongoing connection to Roger and her intuitive gifts, a legacy from her mother. Chaz discusses themes of love, compassion, and the transformative power of grief, all while promoting her new book. She reflects on widowhood, the importance of community during challenging times, and her latest creative projects, including a rock opera that champions divine feminine consciousness.

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Dec 10, 2024 • 41min
Betting on America: Two Gamblers, One Presidential Election
On election night, a unique twist emerged as Americans watched not just for political results but also for potential monetary wins. Personal stories of two gamblers reveal the emotional stakes of betting on presidential candidates, showcasing contrasting motivations and backgrounds. The discussion dives into the evolving landscape of political gambling and its appeal, especially among younger voters, while exploring the implications on electoral integrity. As tensions rise, humor and reflection on the fallout of election results add depth to this intriguing intersection of politics and personal finance.

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Dec 3, 2024 • 58min
From Social Work to Improv to the Best Show on HBO
Jeff Hiller, known for his role in HBO's 'Somebody, Somewhere,' shares his journey from social work to discovering improv comedy. He highlights the importance of adaptability in both performance and life, drawing parallels between friendship dynamics and small-town quirks. Jeff humorously recounts his experiences growing up, confronting bullying, and the quest for LGBTQ+ pride symbols. He reflects on the joy of performance as a means of coping and self-expression, sprinkling insights on navigating relationships and the magic of unexpected contributions in improv.
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