

The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Aug 1, 2024 • 15min
Break Down Bonus: She used an oatmeal bath to try and cure her STD?!?!
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-S1E2: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd037-S1E9: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd02f-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 30, 2024 • 19min
When his google search history blew his cover.... - S6E6
If you've decided to open up your bf's phone, you already know something is up....but what exactly? When a mutual friend sends you sus screenshots from an app you never thought you'd see your man on, you decide to do some digging and end up finding information that could change your life entirely. We got all the deets when we broke down this week's break up!-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:17 ): How they met-(10:22): The first signs something was wrong-(14:57): Why she stayed-(17:22): Confronting him/the aftermath-(21:38): Advice-(22:24): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 25, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Can I trust my gut if I have an anxiety disorder? w/ CBT Joanna Harris
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 23, 2024 • 36min
When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5
No one ever wants to fall victim to the DM with receipts/timelines/screenshots about the man they just planned an entire wedding with... When you've got a whole decade (and whole lotta cash) invested in a relationship, do you stick it out? Or take the DM and run for the hills? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Palomar in OKC: https://palomarokc.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:57): How they met-(09:26): The first signs of something going wrong-(10:40): Getting the life-changing DM-(20:21): Confronting her fiancee-(25:31): The aftermath of the confrontation-(28:44): Finding love again-(32:08): Advice-(39:32): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 18, 2024 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: How do I get closure after a relationship w/ Weezie Haley, MS
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Weezie Haley, MS: https://amyrobbinscounseling.com/weezie-haley/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 16, 2024 • 27min
When LinkedIn Gave Him Closure on the Break Up Years Later.... - S6E4
Our very first male interview returns for an update on answers he found on why his relationship ended. In season 2 episode 16, he was grappling for a reason why his relationship of 4 years abruptly came to an end. Two years later, he says he may have found the reason why she left him all those years ago.-Catch up on his original episode, S2E16: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd006-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for SAFE Shelter in Savannah, GA: https://www.savannahchamber.com/membership/member-directory/family-community-and-civic-organizations/non-profit/safe-shelter-center-for-domestic-violence-services-7465/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(13:21): Why he came back on the podcast-(21:29): How the closure impacted him-(23:06): How his previous relationship affects his new relationship-(25:02): Advice-(30:13): Teaser- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 11, 2024 • 16min
Break Down Bonus: Is it intuition or my anxiety?
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-'When she was catfished for 8 years' live episode for purchase: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 9, 2024 • 24min
When he took off after eight years.... - S6E3
After eight years, the least your boyfriend can do it break up with you properly. So why did this guy ditch his lady at a gas station for another woman seemingly out of nowhere? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for WEAVE in Sacramento: https://www.weaveinc.org/who-we-are-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:30): How they met-(11:44): When she caught him-(14:10): How did she know something was up before catching him?-(17:24): Moving on-(20:28): Advice-(26:17): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 4, 2024 • 24min
Break Down Bonus: Should you bend your relationship "wants" for the right person? w/ ExCoworker Justin
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Jul 2, 2024 • 45min
When the betrayal was revealed after the divorce.... - S6E2
If your friends are telling you to hire a PI to look into your husband, chances are he's doing something shady. So why did this marriage officially end over a disagreement over having kids and not...something else? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Genesis Women's Shelter in Dallas: https://www.genesisshelter.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:26): How they met-(11:12): The first signs something was wrong-(15:13): Why she asked for a divorce-(17:01): What she found out when looking for closure-(26:24): Their secret engagement-(24:24): Reflecting with the hindsight she has now-(34:46): Reflecting on the relationship-(37:05): Advice-(47:40): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.