The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Oct 31, 2024 • 36min
Break Down Bonus: How to communicate effectively w/ men ft. Kate Mansfield
Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to explain how men communicate differently than women do in relationships.-Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 31, 2024 • 41min
Break Down Bonus: How to 'manifest' your person into your life w/ Nelly
Nelly, the #1 Dating Coach for High-Value Women & Men joins Abby on the podcast to talk about manifesting your dream relationship...and even drops some personalized advice for her on how to land her next relationship.-Nelly: https://katemansfield.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://www.nellysudri.com/about-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 24, 2024 • 19min
Break Down Bonus: The test you need to avoid getting love bombed w/ Kate Mansfield
Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to tell you how you can tell if your new boo just really likes you....or if you're getting love bombed.-Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 22, 2024 • 29min
When she got pregnant, engaged, and broken up with in a matter of months.... - S6E15
First comes love, then comes baby, then comes marriage...maybe? This week's interviewee says all three almost all happened within a few months. However, when tragedy strikes this budding family, things change for the worst. How did this all come to an end in less than one years time? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for YWCA in Nashville: https://www.ywcanashville.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:26): How they met-(11:08): The red flags-(14:18): When their relationship went to the next level-(19:35): The miscarriage/the breakup-(23:08): Reflecting/advice-(32:05)): Teaser-CW: Miscarriage Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 17, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: How religious trauma shows up in relationships w/ Suzanne Goodwin
Suzanne Goodwin, from Parkside Psychotherapy joins me on the podcast this week to talk about how your religious upbringing impacts how you view your romantic relationships-Suzanne's practice's contact info: Parksidepsychotherapy.com / 404-914-0279-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 15, 2024 • 47min
When she said her ex got on the no-fly list.... - S6E14
When you've been with the same person since you were teens, it's hard to notice when someone isn't the same person as when you met them. This week's interviewee said she was fighting to stay in a relationship, but couldn't ignore the red flags once the FBI got involved. We'll find out what happens when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for WINGS in Chicago: https://wingsprogram.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(07:17): How they met-(14:54): The red flags-(18:08): Learning about 'The Proud Boys'-(27:23): Struggling to decide to leave-(36:50): The final straw-(40:00): Reflecting/Advice-(50:50): Teaser-CW: Alcoholism, religious trauma, suicidal ideation, manic episode Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 10, 2024 • 16min
Break Down Bonus: When does keeping secrets go too far in relationships?
Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are back together to break down this week's main episode! We talk about some of the most SHOCKING parts of this week's main episode and hash out some of the main points from the story.-This episode originally aired in season 2 of the podcast-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 8, 2024 • 35min
When she was driving the getaway car.... S2Replay
This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ -Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ -Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Timestamps:(00:00) - (01:01): Intro-(01:01) - (04:28): Discussing the season/submission-(08:28) - (09:17): How they met/the "love" story-(09:17) - (11:06): Red Flags-(11:06) - (16:43): When things took a turn for the worst-(16:43) - (19:30): Forming the plan-(19:30) - (23:12): Executing the plan-(23:12) - (27:18): How her ex fought back-(27:18) - (31:20): The unexpected aftermath-(31:20) - (37:55): Reflecting on the situation/advice/moving on Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 3, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Healing from a long-term relationship w/ ExCoworker Justin
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 1, 2024 • 40min
When coworkers broke up and literally couldn't avoid each other.... - S6E13
Dating your coworker sounds like a good idea in theory, you know, if everything goes right. So when your coworker and BF of three years breaks up with you on a random Tuesday...keep in mind the worst case scenario: a post-break up work trip in a foreign country. We'll get the details when we break down this week's break up. -This week we're raising awareness for The Women's Resource Center in Atlanta, Ga: https://www.wrcdv.org/about-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:54): How they met-(12:33): The red flags-(19:15): The break up-(23:29): The aftermath/getting closure-(27:58): Moving on/reflecting-(37:40): Advice-(43:08): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
