The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Oct 17, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: How religious trauma shows up in relationships w/ Suzanne Goodwin
Suzanne Goodwin, from Parkside Psychotherapy joins me on the podcast this week to talk about how your religious upbringing impacts how you view your romantic relationships-Suzanne's practice's contact info: Parksidepsychotherapy.com / 404-914-0279-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 15, 2024 • 47min
When she said her ex got on the no-fly list.... - S6E14
When you've been with the same person since you were teens, it's hard to notice when someone isn't the same person as when you met them. This week's interviewee said she was fighting to stay in a relationship, but couldn't ignore the red flags once the FBI got involved. We'll find out what happens when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for WINGS in Chicago: https://wingsprogram.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(07:17): How they met-(14:54): The red flags-(18:08): Learning about 'The Proud Boys'-(27:23): Struggling to decide to leave-(36:50): The final straw-(40:00): Reflecting/Advice-(50:50): Teaser-CW: Alcoholism, religious trauma, suicidal ideation, manic episode Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 10, 2024 • 16min
Break Down Bonus: When does keeping secrets go too far in relationships?
Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin are back together to break down this week's main episode! We talk about some of the most SHOCKING parts of this week's main episode and hash out some of the main points from the story.-This episode originally aired in season 2 of the podcast-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 8, 2024 • 35min
When she was driving the getaway car.... S2Replay
This week we're raising awareness for the Jacksonville Hubbard House: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/neededmost-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/ -Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/ -Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Timestamps:(00:00) - (01:01): Intro-(01:01) - (04:28): Discussing the season/submission-(08:28) - (09:17): How they met/the "love" story-(09:17) - (11:06): Red Flags-(11:06) - (16:43): When things took a turn for the worst-(16:43) - (19:30): Forming the plan-(19:30) - (23:12): Executing the plan-(23:12) - (27:18): How her ex fought back-(27:18) - (31:20): The unexpected aftermath-(31:20) - (37:55): Reflecting on the situation/advice/moving on Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 3, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Healing from a long-term relationship w/ ExCoworker Justin
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 1, 2024 • 40min
When coworkers broke up and literally couldn't avoid each other.... - S6E13
Dating your coworker sounds like a good idea in theory, you know, if everything goes right. So when your coworker and BF of three years breaks up with you on a random Tuesday...keep in mind the worst case scenario: a post-break up work trip in a foreign country. We'll get the details when we break down this week's break up. -This week we're raising awareness for The Women's Resource Center in Atlanta, Ga: https://www.wrcdv.org/about-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:54): How they met-(12:33): The red flags-(19:15): The break up-(23:29): The aftermath/getting closure-(27:58): Moving on/reflecting-(37:40): Advice-(43:08): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 26, 2024 • 25min
Break Down Bonus: When domestic violence isn't necessarily physical w/ Dr. Gail Patin
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-[CW: domestic/intimate partner violence, murder, death of a child, rape] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 24, 2024 • 33min
When a WAG felt trapped in her marriage.... - S6E12
If you've ever dreamed of becoming a WAG for a star MLB, NBA, NFL, NHL, etc.player...this ones for you. Behind this former WAG's picture perfect relationship was a life that was anything but. We'll find out how she got the courage to leave her ex when we break down this week's break up. -This week we're raising awareness for Favorhouse in Pensacola, FL: https://www.favorhouse.org/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(06:47): How they met-(10:05): The red flags-(20:27): Finding the evidence-(22:40): The aftermath-(29:11): Feeling trapped in the marriage-(33:07): Advice-(36:50); Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 19, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: Why do I keep choosing the same type of partner if they're not good for me? w/ Rachel McLelland
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Restorative Atlanta: https://www.restorativeatlanta.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Sep 17, 2024 • 33min
When her ex-husband started dating her friend.... - S6E11
She and her ex husband split up before their wedding photos even got released...and now two years later she says they're friends...and he's dating someone she's close with! How did our interviewee from S3E7 end up there and how did she end up in another relationship worthy of a BUBD episode? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for The Spring in Tampa, FL: https://www.safehaventc.org/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(08:02): Recap on S3E7-(14:42): How they met-(16:19): The red flags-(18:05): When the truth came out-(25:19): How she is approaching life as a single mom-(27:13): Reflecting on her relationships that ended-(34:27): Advice-(36:22); Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
