The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Nov 21, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: Getting over the person you thought you'd marry w/ ExCoworker Justin (replay)
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Nov 19, 2024 • 50min
When he broke up with her on their wedding day.... - S5Replay
On your wedding day, the last thing you're expecting is for your fiancee to walk in and cancel on you. Like, could we not have had this conversation two years ago?! This ex-bride says that's exactly what happened to her. After she attended her wedding (alone) she thought that was the end, but a few months later she'd get a call from him that would send her spiraling.-This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:01): How they met-(06:56): The start of their major problems-(20:58): When calls off their engagement-(28:29): Attending her wedding alone-(33:31): The calls she got from him after their engagement ended-(39:40): Reflecting/advice-(49:27): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 14, 2024 • 20min
Break Down Bonus: What I've learned about narcissism and serial cheating after doing this podcast for 3 years
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 12, 2024 • 42min
When an amber alert led to her ex getting exposed.... - S6E17
Usually I'd say "the other woman" never owes you anything, but if they're your best friend they should at the very least think twice before having an affair with your husband. This week's interviewee says her best friend had at least one baby with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. Why did she stay with him for years after? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Peaceful Paths in Gainesville, FL: https://www.peacefulpaths.org/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:55): How they met-(09:35): The red flags-(12:52): What the relationship was like-(17:00): What actually ended the relationship-(24:09): Learning more after the break up-(31:40): Advice/reflecting-(45:31): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 7, 2024 • 29min
Break Down Bonus: Embracing the uncomfortable in dating & relationships w/ @thelibertyshultz
Liberty Shultz, best known for documenting her 50 first dates on social media, joins Abby to talk about how to be more comfortable being uncomfortable in dating and relationships.-Liberty Shultz: https://www.instagram.com/thelibertyschultz/?hl=en-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Nov 5, 2024 • 27min
When she said her husband got her bestie pregnant.... - S6E16
Usually I'd say "the other woman" never owes you anything, but if they're your best friend they should at the very least think twice before having an affair with your husband. This week's interviewee says her best friend had at least one baby with her soon-to-be-ex-husband. Why did she stay with him for years after? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up. -This week we're raising awareness for I am Voices Inc. in Charleston, SC: http://www.iamvoices.org/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:36): How they met-(11:49): The red flags-(18:56): Why end the relationship long after the infidelity?-(24:28): Why forgive him, but not the bestie?-(26:09): Reflecting/advice-(30:33): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 31, 2024 • 36min
Break Down Bonus: How to communicate effectively w/ men ft. Kate Mansfield
Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to explain how men communicate differently than women do in relationships.-Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 31, 2024 • 41min
Break Down Bonus: How to 'manifest' your person into your life w/ Nelly
Nelly, the #1 Dating Coach for High-Value Women & Men joins Abby on the podcast to talk about manifesting your dream relationship...and even drops some personalized advice for her on how to land her next relationship.-Nelly: https://katemansfield.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://www.nellysudri.com/about-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 24, 2024 • 19min
Break Down Bonus: The test you need to avoid getting love bombed w/ Kate Mansfield
Relationship expert Kate Mansfield joins Abby in London to tell you how you can tell if your new boo just really likes you....or if you're getting love bombed.-Kate Mansfield: https://katemansfield.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Oct 22, 2024 • 29min
When she got pregnant, engaged, and broken up with in a matter of months.... - S6E15
First comes love, then comes baby, then comes marriage...maybe? This week's interviewee says all three almost all happened within a few months. However, when tragedy strikes this budding family, things change for the worst. How did this all come to an end in less than one years time? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for YWCA in Nashville: https://www.ywcanashville.com/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:26): How they met-(11:08): The red flags-(14:18): When their relationship went to the next level-(19:35): The miscarriage/the breakup-(23:08): Reflecting/advice-(32:05)): Teaser-CW: Miscarriage Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
