The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Aug 15, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: He joined the show to get back at his ex?! w/ Coworker Jackson
LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 13, 2024 • 23min
When both exes showed up at his job and confronted him.... - S6E7
You know what they say...those that break up together...show up at their mutual exes' job and confront him together. Right? This Bonnie & Clyde duo plotted to make a scene after finding out they were being played and of course nothing goes to plan. Let's get the details when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for Safe Havens in Boston: http://www.interfaithpartners.org/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(07:07): How they met-(08:18): The red flags-(13:03): Confronting the ex-gf-(16:05): Plotting to confront him-(23:15): Reflecting/advice-(26:43): Teaser- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 8, 2024 • 23min
Break Down Bonus: Identifying grooming behaviors by our elders, romantic partners, and friends w/ Sally Baker
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 6, 2024 • 1h 20min
When she said her mom & husband had an affair.... - S5Replay
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-This episode originally aired in Season 5-We haven't spent enough family time this holiday season...so let's keep it in the family this episode....This week we have a submission a la TikTok where a woman says her husband and mother had an affair that led to their divorce!-This week we're raising awareness for Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(06:41): How they met-(15:51): The first major problem in their relationship-(22:17): When her mom became enmeshed in the relationship-(30:56): Possible Grooming Behavior-(37:01): Discovering the affair-(49:11): Confronting her mother and husband-(59:30): The aftermath of the conflict-(01:07:00): The continuation of the affair post-conflict/divorce proceedings-(01:11:46): Therapy journey/domestic violence resources-(01:15:39): Reflecting/advice-(01:21:32): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: miscarriage/loss of child, infertility, domestic violence, grooming] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Aug 1, 2024 • 15min
Break Down Bonus: She used an oatmeal bath to try and cure her STD?!?!
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-S1E2: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd037-S1E9: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd02f-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jul 30, 2024 • 19min
When his google search history blew his cover.... - S6E6
If you've decided to open up your bf's phone, you already know something is up....but what exactly? When a mutual friend sends you sus screenshots from an app you never thought you'd see your man on, you decide to do some digging and end up finding information that could change your life entirely. We got all the deets when we broke down this week's break up!-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Hubbard House in Jacksonville, FL: https://www.hubbardhouse.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:17 ): How they met-(10:22): The first signs something was wrong-(14:57): Why she stayed-(17:22): Confronting him/the aftermath-(21:38): Advice-(22:24): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jul 25, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Can I trust my gut if I have an anxiety disorder? w/ CBT Joanna Harris
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jul 23, 2024 • 36min
When the other woman's husband told her about the infidelity.... - S6E5
No one ever wants to fall victim to the DM with receipts/timelines/screenshots about the man they just planned an entire wedding with... When you've got a whole decade (and whole lotta cash) invested in a relationship, do you stick it out? Or take the DM and run for the hills? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Palomar in OKC: https://palomarokc.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:57): How they met-(09:26): The first signs of something going wrong-(10:40): Getting the life-changing DM-(20:21): Confronting her fiancee-(25:31): The aftermath of the confrontation-(28:44): Finding love again-(32:08): Advice-(39:32): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jul 18, 2024 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: How do I get closure after a relationship w/ Weezie Haley, MS
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Weezie Haley, MS: https://amyrobbinscounseling.com/weezie-haley/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Jul 16, 2024 • 27min
When LinkedIn Gave Him Closure on the Break Up Years Later.... - S6E4
Our very first male interview returns for an update on answers he found on why his relationship ended. In season 2 episode 16, he was grappling for a reason why his relationship of 4 years abruptly came to an end. Two years later, he says he may have found the reason why she left him all those years ago.-Catch up on his original episode, S2E16: https://shows.acast.com/the-break-up-break-down/episodes/6661a5d6a44e5000113fd006-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-This Week We're Raising Awareness for SAFE Shelter in Savannah, GA: https://www.savannahchamber.com/membership/member-directory/family-community-and-civic-organizations/non-profit/safe-shelter-center-for-domestic-violence-services-7465/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(13:21): Why he came back on the podcast-(21:29): How the closure impacted him-(23:06): How his previous relationship affects his new relationship-(25:02): Advice-(30:13): Teaser- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
