The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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May 16, 2024 • 14min
Break Down Bonus: Help- I feel like I'm my partner's mother!!!! w/ Dr. PsychMom
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow Dr. Psych Mom!: https://www.drpsychmom.com/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
May 14, 2024 • 28min
When she said her ex refused to move out.... - S5E18
When you and your new boyfriend have to shack up with your ex, things are bound to get uncomfortable. This week's guest says her shared lease with her ex turned into a shared nightmare with her new boyfriend after her break up. How did they get here?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. -This Week We're Raising Awareness for Safe Harbor in Richmond, VA: https://safeharborshelter.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:32): How they met-(12:16): Her last straw-(16:40): The break up-(20:52): When he wouldn't move out-(24:51): Reflecting/Advice-(27:40): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
May 9, 2024 • 23min
Break Down Bonus: Can your relationship survive without "The Spark"? w/ TheRelationshipBoss
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Check out The Relationship Boss!: https://therelationshipboss.com/-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
May 7, 2024 • 23min
When it was a 'Tinder Takedown'.... - S5E17
Sometimes you have to be your own PI when you think your partner is cheating on you. When a gut feeling leads her to pay up to Tinder to see if her mans was out there looking for a side-piece, she was surprised how quickly she was able to find his profile. How did these two college sweethearts get to this place?? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Alternative House in Lowell, GA: https://www.alternative-house.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:22): How they met-(09:58): The demise of the relationship-(14:04): What led to the Tinder profile creation-(19:19): Why she stayed-(21:32): The social media posts-(22:16): Reflecting/advice-(25:35): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
May 2, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus Episode: The "Romeo & Juliet" Effect on Relationships w/ ExCoworker Justin
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 30, 2024 • 24min
When the couples in the friend group traded their partners.... - S5E16
No this isn't a swingers love story- but it'd be way more fun (and less heartbreaking) if it was. A group of friends walk into a cabin...and leave with different lovers. What went on in the cabin in the woods that split these couples up? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for New Beginnings in Seattle: www.NewBegin.org-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:40): How they met-(09:00): The cabin weekend-(13:00): Learning what went down when she was asleep-(17:19): The break up-(21:10): Moving on from the relationship-(24:04): Advice-(26:39): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 25, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Are you ready to bring kids into the relationship? w/ ExCoworker Justin
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 23, 2024 • 31min
When her ex-wife was shady with her money.... - S5E15
Her ex-wife wasn't paying rent and she wants to know where the money is going! This week's guest gets an an answer that sent her into a panic and making her want to run, run, RUN out of this relationship...and into the arms of her high school sweetheart.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Family Rescue in Chicago: https://familyrescueinc.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:17): How they met-(11:32): When her wife started being shady with finances-(16:30): Her final straw with the wife-(22:51): Their new relationships-(27:57): What she learned/advice-(33:33): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 18, 2024 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: What do you do if your partner is too dependent on you? w/ Licia Freeman, MFT
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 16, 2024 • 46min
When he wrote a letter in his own blood.... - S5E14
[SCROLL FOR CW]-When an episode starts with a bloody knife found in the kitchen, you don't think it's going to lead to a break up where both people still care for each other. After a series of harrowing incidents that lead to one of them serving time in jail, how can this week's interviewee still have so much love for her ex? We'll dive into the story when we break down this week's break up. Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Mosaic Family Services in Dallas: https://mosaicservices.org/ways-to-give/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(08:15): How they met-(11:27): What started the demise of the relationship-(18:54): Events where she felt threatened by her BF before the accident-(25:30): Choosing psychology as a career to understand him better-(42:02): Their secret engagement-(43:46): Advice-(48:26): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicidal ideation, self-harm] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
