

The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Jun 4, 2024 • 1h 12min
When he had her arrested.... - S3Replay
[SCROLL FOR CW] -This episode originally aired on March 21st, 2023.-This week we're bringing awareness to Bridges Domestic Violence Center near Nashville, TN: https://www.bridgesdvc.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(06:08): How they met-(11:04): Introducing Sarah-(12:27): How the couple became a throuple-(22:28): When she decided she wanted out of the throuple-(29:38): When the police were called-(32:10): When charges were pressed-(43:08): When she went to jail-(53:01): When she went to trial for the first charges-(01:05:00): Reflecting on what she's learned-(01:14:00): Teaser-CW: This episode discusses domestic violence, thoughts of suicide, child abuse, sexual assault, and gun violence. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 28, 2024 • 24min
When the break up mysteries hadn't been solved yet.... - S5Finale
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(01:05): Submission #1-(03:32): Submission #2-(05:29): Submission #3-(07:24): Submission #4-(12:49): Submission #5-(14:24): Submission #6-(15:57): Submission #7-(17:09): Submission #8-(20:01): Submission #9-(22:58): Submission #10 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 23, 2024 • 20min
Break Down Bonus: Is this sugar baby thing legit?! w/ ExCoworker Justin
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 21, 2024 • 55min
When she got a ransom note from her 'sugar daddy'.... - S5E19
Your sugar daddy of 3ish months goes MIA right before your big vacation...when all of a sudden you get a ransom note from his # asking for 500k. Obviously a scam right?! This week's guest got way more than she bargained for when he finally came back into her life....and revealed the months long investigation he as a part of. What went down?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. -This Week We're Raising Awareness for Green House 17 in Lexington, KY: www.greenhouse17.org-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:45): How they met-(18:24): When the went MIA-(27:24): When he came back-(32:00): Where did he go for all those months?-(49:33): Looking back on her sugaring experiences-(54:46): Advice/reflection-(58:00): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 16, 2024 • 14min
Break Down Bonus: Help- I feel like I'm my partner's mother!!!! w/ Dr. PsychMom
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow Dr. Psych Mom!: https://www.drpsychmom.com/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 14, 2024 • 28min
When she said her ex refused to move out.... - S5E18
When you and your new boyfriend have to shack up with your ex, things are bound to get uncomfortable. This week's guest says her shared lease with her ex turned into a shared nightmare with her new boyfriend after her break up. How did they get here?! Let's find out when we break down this week's break up. -This Week We're Raising Awareness for Safe Harbor in Richmond, VA: https://safeharborshelter.com/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:32): How they met-(12:16): Her last straw-(16:40): The break up-(20:52): When he wouldn't move out-(24:51): Reflecting/Advice-(27:40): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 9, 2024 • 23min
Break Down Bonus: Can your relationship survive without "The Spark"? w/ TheRelationshipBoss
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Check out The Relationship Boss!: https://therelationshipboss.com/-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 7, 2024 • 23min
When it was a 'Tinder Takedown'.... - S5E17
Sometimes you have to be your own PI when you think your partner is cheating on you. When a gut feeling leads her to pay up to Tinder to see if her mans was out there looking for a side-piece, she was surprised how quickly she was able to find his profile. How did these two college sweethearts get to this place?? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Alternative House in Lowell, GA: https://www.alternative-house.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(05:22): How they met-(09:58): The demise of the relationship-(14:04): What led to the Tinder profile creation-(19:19): Why she stayed-(21:32): The social media posts-(22:16): Reflecting/advice-(25:35): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

May 2, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus Episode: The "Romeo & Juliet" Effect on Relationships w/ ExCoworker Justin
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Apr 30, 2024 • 24min
When the couples in the friend group traded their partners.... - S5E16
No this isn't a swingers love story- but it'd be way more fun (and less heartbreaking) if it was. A group of friends walk into a cabin...and leave with different lovers. What went on in the cabin in the woods that split these couples up? Let's find out when we break down this week's break up.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for New Beginnings in Seattle: www.NewBegin.org-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:40): How they met-(09:00): The cabin weekend-(13:00): Learning what went down when she was asleep-(17:19): The break up-(21:10): Moving on from the relationship-(24:04): Advice-(26:39): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.