The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Apr 11, 2024 • 16min
Break Down Bonus: Helping your partner through their porn addiction w/ Iesha Gibbons
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 9, 2024 • 50min
When she found explicit videos of her BFF in her husband's inbox.... - S5E13
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-When she logged on to her husbands email, she thought me might find something suspicious. What she didn't expect to see were explicit videos from her best friend of 22 years. So why did she still marry him after the evidence was found? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for La Casa De Las Madres in SF: https://www.lacasa.org/donate-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:52): How they met-(16:00): The explicit videos-(22:15): When more infidelity was revealed-(33:13): When she finally left-(33:39): Reflecting/what she learned-(48:54): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicide, suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 4, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: Healing trauma caused by infidelity w/ Katherine Ripley, LMSW
Getting cheated on is unbelievably painful and can leave you with deep emotional wounds. Katherine Ripley, LMSW, joins the podcast to comment on this week's main episode's relational topics and gives her professional insight. Katherine explains how to recognize how that trauma will show up in your life and how to tackle it on your own or with a mental health professional!—-Follow Katherine: https://linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist?fbclid=PAAab8jFX7mqwuDALKVAObUzGn2od9bH-H3R-KrwrS1xL29b3O4nGcp27s98E-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 2, 2024 • 39min
When she caught her husband with her best friend.... - S3Replay
This week we're bringing awareness to Crisis Center North in Pittsburgh: https://www.crisiscenternorth.org/-This episode originally aired on March 14th, 2023-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:00): How they met-(07:43: How her best friend became her doula-(10:50): When the affair began-(14:08): When she caught them-(18:49): Why she decided to stay with him at first-(21:08): When she was finally done with her marriage-(23:43): How she "broke up" with her best friend-(28:12): Things that helped her through her divorce-(31:51): How her past relationships shaped her future ones-(33:45): How purity culture impacted her marriage-(36:48): Advice she'd give to people wanting to leave their marriage-(38:47): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 28, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: Does your partner have an unhealthy relationship with Porn? w/ ExCoworker Justin
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 26, 2024 • 31min
When he was sharing her nudes on reddit.... - S5E12
You never think things can get worse AFTER the break up, but when you receive a strange message from a man who says your ex is doing some shady stuff on Reddit with your pics....it's safe to say things are about to go down when we break down this week's break up.-Live Podcast Tickets!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Wichita Family Crisis Center: https://wichitafamilycrisiscenter.app.neoncrm.com/np/clients/wichitafamilycrisiscenter/donation.jsp-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:28): How they met-(08:57): When the red flags started to show-(12:58): When things started to deteriorate-(16:01): The shady reddit activity-(24:48): Recovering from the relationship/reflecting-(31:23): Advice-(30:17): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 21, 2024 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: Is an age-gap relationship right for you?
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Mickey Atkins Age-Gap Relationship Episode: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T3zC7YCVR28-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 19, 2024 • 25min
When her celeb crush DM'd her back.... - S5E11
If you've ever wanted to slide into the DMs of the hot guy in THAT band...this episode is for you. Turns out hooking up with the mysterious musician isn't all it's cracked up to be, but there's a lot you can learn from this week's guest's experience.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Partnership Against Domestic Violence in ATL: https://padv.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:24): How they met-(11:12): When they started investigating...-(15:22): When she started to see his true colors-(21:51): Reflecting on the situationship-(24:05): What she learned/advice-(24:45): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 14, 2024 • 19min
Break Down Bonus: Reacting to S5E10 w/ ExCoworker Justin
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 12, 2024 • 26min
When she said her husband slept with her daughter.... - S5E10
You know, it's one thing to cheat. It's a whole other thing to cheat with your CHILD. This week's guest says she is getting ready to serve her husband divorce papers....and DNA test results.-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Women Against Abuse in Philly: https://www.womenagainstabuse.org/services-Suicide Prevention Hotline Dial 988-Suicide Prevention: https://988lifeline.org/talk-to-someone-now/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:54): How they met-(07:08): When the red flags started to show-(10:03): When she got the DNA test results-(15:04): Why would her husband/daughter sleep together?-(19:41): Looking toward the future-(24:09): Advice to those struggling-(25:14): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
