The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Apr 25, 2024 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Are you ready to bring kids into the relationship? w/ ExCoworker Justin
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 23, 2024 • 31min
When her ex-wife was shady with her money.... - S5E15
Her ex-wife wasn't paying rent and she wants to know where the money is going! This week's guest gets an an answer that sent her into a panic and making her want to run, run, RUN out of this relationship...and into the arms of her high school sweetheart.-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Family Rescue in Chicago: https://familyrescueinc.org/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:17): How they met-(11:32): When her wife started being shady with finances-(16:30): Her final straw with the wife-(22:51): Their new relationships-(27:57): What she learned/advice-(33:33): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 18, 2024 • 17min
Break Down Bonus: What do you do if your partner is too dependent on you? w/ Licia Freeman, MFT
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 16, 2024 • 46min
When he wrote a letter in his own blood.... - S5E14
[SCROLL FOR CW]-When an episode starts with a bloody knife found in the kitchen, you don't think it's going to lead to a break up where both people still care for each other. After a series of harrowing incidents that lead to one of them serving time in jail, how can this week's interviewee still have so much love for her ex? We'll dive into the story when we break down this week's break up. Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for Mosaic Family Services in Dallas: https://mosaicservices.org/ways-to-give/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(08:15): How they met-(11:27): What started the demise of the relationship-(18:54): Events where she felt threatened by her BF before the accident-(25:30): Choosing psychology as a career to understand him better-(42:02): Their secret engagement-(43:46): Advice-(48:26): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicidal ideation, self-harm] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 11, 2024 • 16min
Break Down Bonus: Helping your partner through their porn addiction w/ Iesha Gibbons
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 9, 2024 • 50min
When she found explicit videos of her BFF in her husband's inbox.... - S5E13
[SCROLL FOR CONTENT WARNINGS]-When she logged on to her husbands email, she thought me might find something suspicious. What she didn't expect to see were explicit videos from her best friend of 22 years. So why did she still marry him after the evidence was found? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Get Your Break Up Break Down LIVE Podcast Event Tix: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This week we're raising awareness for La Casa De Las Madres in SF: https://www.lacasa.org/donate-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:52): How they met-(16:00): The explicit videos-(22:15): When more infidelity was revealed-(33:13): When she finally left-(33:39): Reflecting/what she learned-(48:54): Teaser-[CONTENT WARNINGS: Intimate partner violence, suicide, suicidal ideation] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 4, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: Healing trauma caused by infidelity w/ Katherine Ripley, LMSW
Getting cheated on is unbelievably painful and can leave you with deep emotional wounds. Katherine Ripley, LMSW, joins the podcast to comment on this week's main episode's relational topics and gives her professional insight. Katherine explains how to recognize how that trauma will show up in your life and how to tackle it on your own or with a mental health professional!—-Follow Katherine: https://linktr.ee/katherineripleytherapist?fbclid=PAAab8jFX7mqwuDALKVAObUzGn2od9bH-H3R-KrwrS1xL29b3O4nGcp27s98E-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Apr 2, 2024 • 39min
When she caught her husband with her best friend.... - S3Replay
This week we're bringing awareness to Crisis Center North in Pittsburgh: https://www.crisiscenternorth.org/-This episode originally aired on March 14th, 2023-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:00): How they met-(07:43: How her best friend became her doula-(10:50): When the affair began-(14:08): When she caught them-(18:49): Why she decided to stay with him at first-(21:08): When she was finally done with her marriage-(23:43): How she "broke up" with her best friend-(28:12): Things that helped her through her divorce-(31:51): How her past relationships shaped her future ones-(33:45): How purity culture impacted her marriage-(36:48): Advice she'd give to people wanting to leave their marriage-(38:47): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 28, 2024 • 21min
Break Down Bonus: Does your partner have an unhealthy relationship with Porn? w/ ExCoworker Justin
LIVE PODCAST EVENT TICKETS (May 11): https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-Follow the podcast-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Mar 26, 2024 • 31min
When he was sharing her nudes on reddit.... - S5E12
You never think things can get worse AFTER the break up, but when you receive a strange message from a man who says your ex is doing some shady stuff on Reddit with your pics....it's safe to say things are about to go down when we break down this week's break up.-Live Podcast Tickets!: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/862521303437?aff=oddtdtcreator-This Week We're Raising Awareness for Wichita Family Crisis Center: https://wichitafamilycrisiscenter.app.neoncrm.com/np/clients/wichitafamilycrisiscenter/donation.jsp-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:28): How they met-(08:57): When the red flags started to show-(12:58): When things started to deteriorate-(16:01): The shady reddit activity-(24:48): Recovering from the relationship/reflecting-(31:23): Advice-(30:17): Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
