The Break Up Break Down

TikTok's @the.marchie joins Abby to talk about becoming women's rights and wrongs activists following this week's episode!!! They talk about the grey areas of getting even after a break up and making dating safer as a woman. Tune in for lots of laughs and to hear about Abby's "crazy switch" theory...and why every woman should use theirs.-Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00)-(02:08): Intro-(02:08)-(04:52): Him juggling like 6 relationships lol-(04:52)-(08:45): Getting even after a break up -(08:45)-(11:37): 'Good for Her' Stories-(11:37)-(11:49): Closing Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Palomar in Oklahoma City: https://palomarokc.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-03:29): Episode Intro-(03:29-05:53): How they got together-(04:37-07:30): When things started going wrong....-(07:30-08:47): Reaching out to his ex-fiancé-(08:47-14:00): Shady secrets he was keeping-(14:00)-17:09): Getting the ex's in the group chat-(17:09-23:59): The aftermath-(23:59-24:34): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What's the PETTIEST thing you've done post-break up? We asked, you answered on IG and Spotify. Lexi & Coworker Justin join Abby to talk about their own petty break ups and read through some responses from the Spotify and IG questionnaire. Oh, and Abby vents about her bad date from this weekend too lol. -Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:43): Intro-(00:43-01:10): This week's main episode-(01:10-04:57): The pettiest things Abby, Lexi, and Coworker Justin have done post-break up-(04:57-12:30): Petty break up responses from Spotify -(12:30-18:31): Petty Break Up Responses from IG-(18:31-27:46): Abby vents about her date from this weekend lol Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for The Coburn Place in Indianapolis: https://coburnplace.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-04:00): Episode Intro-(04:00-04:37): How they got together-(04:37-05:46): When things started going wrong....-(05:32-06:33): Red flags before the engagement-(07:58-11:27): Red flags before the wedding/the break up-(11:27)-13:32): The aftermath of the cancelled wedding-(13:32-15:11): Dividing finances after the cancelled wedding-(15:11-19:33): Why she thinks his feelings changed-(19:33-27:20): Looking back one everything/advice/words of wisdom/etc.-(27:20-27:46): Break Down Bonus and Next Ep. Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Coworker Justin joins Abby this week to talk about getting along with your significant other's families, bringing your "baggage" into a new relationship, and debate on whether or not the BF's mom posted that FB photo on purpose!!!-Follow the podcasts!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-01:02): Intro-(01:02-02:10): Breaking up with someone for someone else- romantic or red flag?-(02:10-03:38): What do you even do if someone says they're going to steal your partner?!-(03:38-09:00): THE FACEBOOK PHOTO!!!! Why would the mom post it?-(09:00-13:27): What if your parents didn't get along with your partner?-(13:27-16:15): The Hail Mary Proposal-(16:15-20:17): Bringing "baggage" into new relationships-(20:17-22:33): Questions about S2E5 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[CHECK CW] -This week we're raising awareness for Mosaic Family Services in Dallas, TX: https://mosaicservices.org/donate/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-02:03): Episode Intro-(02:03-03:44): Submission-(03:44-05:32): When she was blindsided-(05:32-06:33): The first red flag-(06:33-07:28): The Facebook post that proved her suspicions-(07:28)-09:35): When she decided to confront him about "Anna"-(09:35-11:36): When she finally confronted him about the photo-(11:36-12:34): Tension with the family-(12:34-13:12): When he broke up with her and then proposed -(13:12:16:41): The aftermath-(16:41-18:20): "Where are they now"-(18:20-27:02): Takeaways/Advice-(27:02-27:30): Break Down Bonus and Next Ep. Teaser-CW: Mention of Suicide/Self-Harm Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Stacie and Alicia from the Trashy Divorces podcast join Abby to talk about ethical polyamory, healthy relationship dynamics, and expecting more from your love life. Check out their podcast below and tune in to hear them break down this week's break up!-Follow the podcasts!-Trashy Divorces: https://pca.st/16pD-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:25): Meet Stacie and Alicia!-(00:25-01:34): What makes a good divorce story?-(01:34-05:08): Ethical polyamory in relationships & healthy communication-(05:55-14:48): Expecting more in your relationships-(14:48-16:09): Closing remarks-(16:09-17:32): Trashy Divorces episode recs Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for Children & Families of Iowa: https://cfiowa.ejoinme.org/MyPages/DonationPage/tabid/441383/Default.aspx-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-03:45): Episode Intro-(03:45-04:50): How they met-(04:50-06:56): When she was blindsided-(06:56-09:34): When they became a "throuple"-(09:34-11:43): The worst part of this "three person relationship" (for her)-(11:43)-16:09): When she started to think about leaving....-(16:09-19:11): What led to the marriage ending-(19:11-23:17): She decides to leave the marriage/the divorce-(23:17-29:34): Moving on after marrying your high school sweetheart-(29:34:31:15): Advice for leaving a toxic relationship-(31:15-31:34): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

[SCROLL FOR CW] - Ex-Mormon therapist Jenny Morrow reacts to S2E4 and let's us in on what people leaving the LDS church struggle with after leaving. She talks about rules for dating, complications when one spouse wants to leave the church, divorce, and sexuality. Check out more from her at www.JennyMorrow.com.-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00-00:14): Episode Break Down-(00:14-02:22): Meet Jenny!-(02:22-05:08): Dating as a young Mormon-(05:08-06:19): The Mormon temple-(06:19-07:40): Dealing with religious shame-(07:40-10:32): Sexuality in the church-(10:32-12:17): Divorce in Mormonism-(12:17-13:17): What if one spouse wants to leave the church?-(13:17-14:24): Sexism in the church-(14:24-16:15): What do ex-Mormons struggle with after leaving?-(16:15-18:03): Advice for "finding yourself" after a big life change-(18:03-18:29): Follow Jenny!-CW: Suicide, Sexism Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

This week we're raising awareness for The Nest in Lexington, KY: https://www.thenestlexington.org/-Follow the podcast! -Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 -Timestamps:-(00:00-03:55): Episode Intro-(03:55-06:30): How they met-(06:30-11:44): How they got together/dating in Mormon culture-(11:44-15:37): "Same-sex attraction" in the church-(15:37-21:44): Their 6-year-long marriage-(21:44)-24:44): The start of their divorce-(24:44-27:54): After the divorce-(29:59-28:59): Reconnecting with her ex-BF-(31:23-37:11): Living in a Mormon community and being Agnostic-(37:11:38:26): BYU dating myths(?!?!) -(38:26-38:56): Teaser Clip Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.